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MAN SAYS BEING TOO BOOK SMART NO USE, NEED TO BE STREET SMART

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My friends have been always excellent in their studies, everyday they will sit down and spend a lot of effort studying.

I believe that having book smarts is great, but it’s not enough to get by in life. You need to have street smarts as well, and that’s something my friends lack.

I’ve tried to tell my friends that their constant studying is not going to help them get ahead in life.

I’ve tried to explain the importance of having both book smarts and street smarts, but they just don’t seem to understand.

They’ve been so focused on studying that they’ve neglected to develop any kind of street smarts.

Every time we’re out, they’re constantly asking questions that are so painfully obvious that it’s embarrassing.

I’m embarrassed to be seen with them sometimes because it’s like they have no idea how the real world works.

I’ve tried to be patient and understanding, but it’s really starting to get to me.

I care about my friends a lot, and I don’t want to see them fail in life because they don’t have the street smarts that they need to make it.

I’ve offered to teach them the things they need to know, but they just don’t seem to be interested.

It’s gotten to the point where I’m starting to avoid hanging out with them because I’m so frustrated with their lack of street smarts.

However at the same time, I’m also worried that if I’m not around to help them, they’ll get into some serious trouble.

I just hope that they can figure it out before it’s too late.

Unfortunately, my worries have become reality.

Two of my friends recently got into some money troubles because of their lack of street smarts.

They got involved with some shady person who made them believe in his crappy money making theories, and now they have lost quite a bit of money.

This is why no matter how smart you are in terms of studying, you need to be street smarts in order to survive in the real world.

GIRL FIRST TIME HAVE BF, ASK WHEN IS RIGHT TIME TO ASK ABOUT HIS SALARY

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When your a pok pok gei, your sure got brought up by a pok pok gei.

A girl who was brought up with the pok pok gei mentality has finally unleashed her desires after just dating for 3 months. It’s her first time dating and she wants to bring in the subject of money.

Here is what the pok pok gei wrote

I’m dating this guy for 3 months. It’s my first relationship.

When is the best time to ask about the guy’s salary and net worth? I really wanna ask the exact figure as financial security is important to me. I don’t want to ask too early as I don’t want to as money minded or gold digger.

But I can’t drag too late either as I am dating to marry and I don’t want to find out late that he is earning way lower than me or not enough to support a family.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Past performance is not indicative of future results. His net worth /salary could be low now, but he could bag 12m toto tonight~
  • On one of the dates, plan to have caifan for dinner. If he picks at least 2 fish dishes then you probably know your answer.
  • Ask him BTO, then ask how much is his salary. Reason: see if can qualify for government grants or hits the BTO income ceiling
  • lol if his salary can let you decide marry or not, i think you stay single la, don’t waste people’s time… with your mindset, how much also never enough…
  • Financial security? Meaning you ownself is a burden, oh yes you are, a depreciating asset.

What is a Pok Pok Gei?

Any woman or man you can get with money, (the guy version is call duck.)

As long you appear or show that you have a future, the woman will spread her legs wides like the golden gate bridge and allow you to be her boyfriend or girlfriend.

BUS CAPTAIN ANGRY AT WHEELCHAIR USER & ALLEGEDLY DROVE DANGEROUSLY IN ANGER – SBS APOLOGISES

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Facebook user Bella Bii shared an incident that she witnessed between an SBS Transit bus captain, and a wheelchair user and her daughter on board a bus.

She said that the woman had approached the bus captain at Hougang Interchange because her wheelchair-bound mother needed a ramp in order to board the bus.

The bus captain then allegedly told the mother and daughter off in mandating, blaming them for not letting him know earlier and that he has to now reposition the bus so as to deploy the ramp for them to get onto the bus.

He then allegedly vented his unhappiness by slamming the ramp onto the ground, with the loud slamming sounds shocking the other passengers inside.

The netizen added that the driver then drove angrily and dangerously on the road, jamming his brakes repeatedly, and also remained rude to the wheelchair user and her daughter throughout.

He then allegedly slammed the ramp again as they were alighting from the bus.

SBS Apologises

The Vice President (Special Grade) of Customer Experience and Communications at SBS Transit, Grace Wu, said that they have reviewed the CCTV footage from the bus and conducted an investigation, according to MustShareNews.

She said that they found the wheelchair user and her daughter not waiting at the designated wheelchair boarding point, resulting in the driver having to manoeuvre the bus twice and check physically if he could safely deploy the ramp.

They also noted that the driver had made a loud remark to the passengers because he had to spend more time manoeuvring the bus, which he would’ve avoided had they waited at the proper boarding point.

SBS Transit apologised for it and has since reprimanded the bus captain, saying that it was ‘unacceptable” and that they apologise for his “lapse”, as well as reminding him to be more “customer-centric”.

On the slamming of the ramp, SBS said that the bus captain has a back injury and can’t bend down fully to gently place the ramp on the ground.

They added that he didn’t slam it forcefully out of anger or aggression, and they also said that they found no evidence of him driving unsafely or suddenly braking during the journey.

The netizens’ post (SIC)

SBS Transit Ltd I would like to report and share against Bus Captain of SG 5027D , Hougang central bus interchange, bus 147 at 9.55am . I was boarding up this bus 147 at 9.50am .

There was an old lady in wheelchair with her daughter, trying to board up this bus . Her daughter went to approach the bus captain as she need to pus h the wheelchair up to board the bus.

The bus driver was impatient, venting his temper and scolded the old lady in wheelchair in Chinese , saying “ 为什么你们没早讲? 害我要为了你们 ,重新 移车位?.

The driver bang the platform floor for the wheelchair real hard and every passenger on board was in shock and silence.

He kept on scolding the daughter and old lady in wheelchair repeatedly . At the same time, thru out the whole journey towards Hougang Avenue 8, he was driving in anger on road , and his behaviour is creating unnecessary insecurities and it would affect his judgement on road while driving .

There was quite afew passengers on board, mainly almost elderly. He even jam brake repeatedly , causing unstable road movement .

I am feeling so angry toward this kind of driver that SBS transit had hired . His verge of anger would have cost lives and put other passengers in danger . The way how he approached and portray himself in front of public as a Singapore SBS transit driver really disgraced the company image and reputation .

I Could only managed to take the video when the old lady is alighting off at Hougang ave 8 opposite Xinmin primary school at the end , I am unable to take video when they first boarded up the bus interchange .

You can also hear a loud BANG PONG when he flip the platform down for the wheelchair. After the Ah Ma alighted, he even flip back the play floor door hard enough till the passengers at the bus top all stare at him .

But the bus have so many CCTV and SBS transit must and should investigate what is happening !!!!. This driver deserve a warning letter for this kind of disgusting, no manner , rudeness behaviour attitude.

Dear Captain , one day you will grow old too . Please be kind , patience and considerate. I don’t think you will like it if anyone treat your parent or grandparent like this . I don’t think you will like it if one fine day u ended up in wheelchair and a bus driver just verge the anger onto you .

This isn’t right as a human.. you are old enough to know that your behaviours and reaction toward this pair of innocent elderly as a man, as a human being , is really unforgivable.

Whatever your anger, your reaction, words that coming out from your mouth , every CCTV in the bus, passengers can witness it .. and as well as remaining passengers that had also board up your bus 147 at opposite xinming primary school Hougang bus station saw everything.

Pls kindhearted Singaporean pls share this video around to make sure SBS investigate this matter and let this driver get this punishment ! CCTV in the bus capture everything from 9.55am at Hougang central interchange to 10.09am at xinming primary school Hougang Avenue 8.

MAN FEELS INFERIOR GF’S SALARY HIGHER, KEEPS TRYING TO CONTROL HER MOVEMENTS

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I’m a 32 year-old man. I had been in a loving and committed relationship with my girlfriend for the past two years.

We had met through gaming and had always shared a deep connection with one another.

We had similar interests, compatible personalities, and could talk for hours on end.

Unfortunately, we had one major problem: our salaries. She had graduated with a degree in finance and had managed to land a job in a prestigious firm.

She was making a much higher salary than I was. I had a degree which was not in high demand, and my salary was significantly lower than hers.

This disparity in our salaries had started to create tension between us. I couldn’t help but feel inferior to her due to my lower salary.

I became increasingly jealous and possessive of her. I wanted to control her movements and activities in order to prove to her and to myself that I was still important and relevant despite my much lower salary.

I started nitpicking her every move. I would criticize her for going out with her friends, for spending too much money, and for not telling me where she was going.

I was constantly trying to control her and make her feel like she was wrong in her actions.

I thought that if I could prove to her that I was the one in control, then she would respect me more despite the salary difference but my attempts to control her only made her feel suffocated and trapped.

She started to resent me for not trusting her and for not giving her the freedom to live her own life.

She said that she did not bother whose salary was higher as we are a couple and we are supposed to share weal and woe together but what I’m doing was too much.

One night, in a fit of rage, she packed her bags and left. I begged her to stay, but it was too late.

She had had enough and wanted to be free of me and my possessiveness and my constant inferiority complex because of our salary disparity.

I was left feeling heartbroken and inferior. I felt as though I had failed in my attempt to prove that I was worthy of her love and admiration.

I had tried to assert my control over her, but instead I had driven her away.

I had thought that by controlling her, I would make her stay but it only made her leave.

I had lost the woman I loved because of my own insecurities and possessiveness and now I’m all by myself wishing I did not feel so inferior.

RESTAURANTS FLOODED @ CLEMENTI DUE TO RAIN, CUSTOMERS WALKED THROUGH WATER BAREFOOT

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A slew of food and beverage businesses and eateries were affected by a heavy downpour on Thursday (2 February), resulting in flooding in the area.

About 7 F&B businesses along Clementi Road were affected by the shin-high flooding and ended up having to close business for more than 2 hours.

According to Shin Min Daily News, one of the shops was completely flooded and people could be seen walking with their feet submerged in the water.

A worker from Feng Xing Fast Food Nasi Lemak, 58-year-old Mr Chen, told SMDN that they had to suspend their business for 2 hours after the flooding started at about 4pm.

He said that one of the drains was blocked and stopped the rainwater from flowing away, and added that the flood was about 10cm high.

He added that his boss alerted the Public Utilities Board (PUB) and someone was then sent down to check on the issue.

There were about 4 customers in the restaurant at the time of the flooding, and they ended up taking off their shoes and walking through the flooded restaurant barefooted.

Another worker from a Thai restaurant nearby, 36-year-old Ning, seconded Chen’s point about the drain carrying the rainwater away poorly.

Ning added that PUB would sent people down to check every few months to make sure that there is no blockage issue, which makes this incident puzzling.

Floods were also seen in different locations in Singapore, including a TikTok video that documented the flooding issue along Pandan Road.

The road markings were almost non-visible from the flood as the drivers drove across the road very slowly and carefully.

@oleair Right now Singapore pandan RD #singapore #flood ♬ 原聲 – user4044808601

MOTHER CALLS POLICE AFTER 14 Y.O SON SAYS HE WANT TO GO SCHOOL & CHOP PEOPLE

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A teenager crafted his own weapons with household items like knives and bamboo poles and took a photo of his homemade weapon.

He even used that photo as his Whatsapp profile picture. The boy later said he would follow the example of the local high school hacking case and wreak havoc at his school.

Weapon

According to Shin Min Daily News, the 14-year-old boy asked his mother for tape and a knife and used it to craft the weapon.

After updating his profile picture with the weapon on his Whatsapp, his schoolmates and teacher saw the photo, took a screenshot, and forwarded it to his mother. His mother stated that her son had erratic behaviour and uncontrollable outburst. She was frightened and reported to the police.

Erratic Behaviour

He ever brought a knife to school and threw his mobile phone out of the window when he was told to submit his homework.

The boy was later diagnosed with social communication disorder and adjustment disorder and required supervision and counselling.

Whenever he was in a bad mood, He would often throw iron pots at his mother, and said that he would follow the example of the murder case in a local middle school and wreak havoc in the school.

The judge finally sentenced him to a juvenile reform centre for 6 months.

BOSS SACK TOP SALESMAN, NOW BUSINESS BAD BUT HIS EGO TOO HIGH TO ASK HIM BACK

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My top salesman had been let go by me, and now my business was suffering.

I had been so sure of myself, so convinced that I was doing the right thing but now I was starting to realize that cutting him loose was a mistake.

I had been running my small business for a few years now and had been doing pretty well.

I was an entrepreneur and had a few employees, but my top salesman had been the one who made the most impact on my business.

He was an experienced professional and knew how to close deals.

He was always willing to go the extra mile to get the job done and he was a great asset to the company.

But then, I decided to let him go. I had decided that I could do his job and by cutting him, I could save on some salary.

It made sense to cut him loose.

I thought it was the right decision at the time, but now I was starting to realize that it was a mistake.

My business was starting to suffer. Sales had dropped considerably and I was losing customers.

I was losing money and I was starting to worry about the future of my business.

I knew that I had to do something, but my ego was too high to do something so drastic as asking him back.

I thought that I could manage without him, but I was wrong.

I was struggling to keep up with the workload and my sales were dropping. I was losing customers and it seemed like my business was doomed.

I had made a mistake and I was starting to realize that. I had been so sure of myself, so convinced that I was doing the right thing.

But now I was starting to understand that cutting him loose was a mistake.

But it was too late. I had made the decision and there was no turning back.

I blame it on my ego but I just could not bring myself to ask him back to help me.

I was now realizing that my ego was too high and that I should have been more humble and open to listening to other people’s advice.

People around me had been telling me to keep this top salesman of mine no matter how much it costs as it was because of him that my business was thriving.

Yet, I refused to listen to them.

I had been too sure of myself and too quick to make decisions without thinking them through.

I was now paying the price for my mistake and my business was suffering and on the brink of closing down.

ABOUT 40+ DOCTORS & HOSPITAL STAFF RUSHED OUT TO SAVE WOMAN OUTSIDE KKH

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A video emerged online showing a huge group of hospital staff and some purported doctors attending to someone outside the hospital.

The incident purportedly happened outside KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital on Friday (3 February).

The netizen who posted the video, said that they were going home after an appointment and heard over the hospital PA system that help was needed.

The netizen said that about 40 plus hospital staff and doctors came running to the scene from everywhere to save that one person.

It is unclear what exactly the medical emergency was, but some netizens have commented that it was a woman who was allegedly giving birth outside the hospital, while another netizen deduced that it was someone having a stroke.

The netizens’ post

Was gg home after the appointment and I heard help was needed over the hospital system. Dunno wat actually happened but hopefully all wld be good for the lady.

On the other note, I can really feel the spirit of humanity when doctors & medical staffs all came running from everywhere, almost abt 40plus staffs, bringing so many things just to help save one person

Good job to all Medical staffs of KKH… May Allah swt bless all of U in here.

MAN SAY RENTAL CAR’S BRAKE FAILED, COMPANY CHARGED HIM $5K FOR “INTERNAL DAMAGE”

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Hi

I’d just like to share my friend experience with a vehicle rental company namely *company name redacted*.

So roughly what happened was that I was driving a rented vehicle going about and doing roundings roughly around 12am I came across a bend and the floor was wet at the time. The road limit is 40km/h as such I kept the road speed limit going around 35 to 40 km/h.

Before coming to a bend I applied my break and turned, however brake have failed and the vehicle skidded (Aquaplaning) colliding with the curb causing the vehicle right wheel to go inwards, at that point of time, vehicle was still drivable and I drove for a few metres before coming to a stop as noises from the vehicle’s body and the wheel rubbing against each other. I called for *company name redacted* services and it was still ok, tow services came and everything was good from then on.

I received a call from one of the *company name redacted* employee regarding the incident, at the point of time I was willing to pay for the vehicle repair cost as from my point of view, the vehicle was still not badly damaged, fixable and wouldn’t cost more than 2k. After talking with their employee, they added that I had to pay a total of nearly 5k due to the impact that causes internal damage. Mainly the repair fee is 3800. I had consulted with multiple of my acquaintances and I was informed that this is a possible scam however I am totally unaware and went to pay them the total cost of the damage.

The damage only causes the wheel to go inwards, exterior on the vehicle body or headlights was completely untouched or unharmed. I was hit with 8 different items that had to be replaced, 5 of which I understand and the remaining 3 I don’t know as to how it was affected by the impact as one of the three is the engine when the impact is on the side of the wheel.

MAN THREW MAHJONG TILE AT FRIEND BECAUSE HE MOCKED HIM FOR LOSING

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I was playing mahjong with my friend and I threw a tile on the table towards the direction of my friend out of frustration.

It had been an eventful game, and I was starting to get angry. I had been playing for a few hours and I was slowly losing my patience because I could not game even though my cards were good.

My friend had been teasing and mocking me a lot during the game, and I was getting irritated.

I didn’t think that he meant anything by it, like it is just our usual banter but it was still making me angry.

I threw the tile in his direction out of frustration, and that’s when the argument started.

My friend accused me of being disrespectful and throwing the tile at him. I denied this and told him that he was the one being disrespectful.

He was clearly tilted by my actions and kept on scolding me. I was getting more and more angry, and I started to yell at him.

This only made the situation worse, and he started to yell back at me. I was getting really angry now, we almost came to blows.

He was shocked and he started to tear in frustration. I had never seen him tear before, and it made me feel terrible.

I apologized to my friend and tried to console him. I told him that I didn’t mean to hurt him and that I was just frustrated.

He accepted my apology, but he was still very upset and he left the room.

I felt terrible about what had happened and I knew that I had done wrong. I had let my emotions get the best of me and I had hurt my friend.

I knew that I had to make it up to him, and I vowed to never do something like this again.

Unfortunately, that wasn’t the end of the story. A few days later, my friend sent me a message saying that he wanted nothing to do with me anymore.

He said that he was done with our friendship and that he never wanted to see me again.

I was devastated and knew I had messed up and I had cost myself a good friend.

I had been so angry that I couldn’t control my emotions, and now I was paying the price.