I never expected my marriage to end like this. I’d been married to my wife, for almost five years, and we’d been together for almost a decade.

We’d had our ups and downs, but I thought we had a good relationship. We had a comfortable life together and I was content with the way things were.

But then she had a change of heart. She decided that she wanted to move into a more expensive condo and that she wanted me to take on a part-time job to help pay for it.

I was against it, I am already working a full-time job and now she wants me to work part-time in the evenings.

I knew that it would mean sacrificing time with my family and that it would put a strain on our relationship. But she was adamant.

She did not want to contribute as she is a housewife and expects me to pay more and more.

She said that if I didn’t do it, she would leave me.

I reluctantly agreed and got a part-time job. But it wasn’t long before I started to feel the strain of the extra work and the lack of time I had with my family. I was exhausted and overwhelmed, and it wasn’t long before our relationship started to suffer.

That’s when my mother stepped in. She saw how unhappy I was and she told me that I should leave her and divorce her. She said that she was being unfair to me and that I should put my own happiness first.

At first, I was hesitant to follow my mother’s advice. I still loved her and I didn’t want to give up on our marriage. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that my mother was right. I was sacrificing too much for her, and I deserved better.

So, I made the difficult decision to leave her and file for divorce. It was a hard process, and I had a lot of difficulties adjusting to life without her.

But I eventually regained my strength and moved on with my life.

My mother was right—Her behavior was unacceptable, and I should have put my own happiness first. I’m glad I was able to end the marriage before things got too bad, and I’m thankful to my mother for her support and advice. Divorce isn’t easy, but it was the right decision for me.

 In the 21st century, social media is incredibly popular and has become an integral part of many people’s lives. Platforms like TikTok have become particularly popular.

The convenience of being able to post content quickly and easily on social media can lead to individuals making a mistake and posting something they shouldn’t. On TikTok, users can record a video and post it almost instantly, with no filter or moderation. This can lead to posts that are inappropriate, offensive or even illegal.

23-year-old NSF gets into trouble

According to CNA, 23-year-old Amirudin Shah Zainal posted a video on TikTok which contained a photo of his teammate in handcuffs.

The 23-year-old had illegally accessed Police systems and used his phone to take a photo of his teammate’s criminal information.

The Police received a tipoff from i-Witness, an anonymous submission site about the video and Amirudin soon found himself in hot waters.

He pleaded guilty to one count under the Computer Misuse Act for unauthorised access to data held in the computer system of the Ministry of Home Affairs (MHA) and was sentenced to 3 weeks in jail.

How did it happen?

The incident took place in 2020 while Amirudin was an NSF, he was given duties to perform data entries into the system and he used the access he was given to access cases despite knowing he is not allowed to.

He then access a photo of his teammate in the system who was in handcuffs and used his mobile phone to take a photo from the system.

He forwarded the photos to 17 others because he thought it would be fun to make fun of his teammate.

He later thought that it would be an even better idea to put it on TikTok.

I’ve always been a bit insecure about my body, especially my breasts.

Growing up, I was a bit of a tomboy and I was always the last one to develop in my group of friends. When I finally did start to develop, it was like all of a sudden I had these huge boobs that got all the attention.

I was so embarrassed and uncomfortable.

I remember the first time I really noticed the stares. I was in my early teens and I was out shopping with my mom. We were walking through the mall and I could feel all the eyes on me, especially the eyes of the men. I felt so exposed and vulnerable. I wanted to hide, to cover myself up, but I couldn’t. I felt like I was wearing a sign that said “look at my boobs”.

It was at this moment that I realized that my breasts were too big for my own comfort. I wished that my breasts were smaller, so that I could walk around without feeling like everyone was staring at me. I wanted to feel confident and comfortable in my own skin.

I started to avoid wearing tight or revealing clothing, which only made me feel worse. I felt like I was being punished for having big breasts and I felt like I was being judged for it. I was constantly comparing myself to other girls my age and I felt inadequate.

At the same time, I started to notice the comments from other girls. They were usually envious of my chest and would make comments like, “Damn, girl! You got those big titties!” It was like they were proud that I had big boobs and it made me feel even worse about myself.

It was then that I decided to take to social media to express my feelings. I posted about how I wished my breasts were smaller and how uncomfortable I felt with the attention I was receiving. I expected some support, but what I got instead was a lot of hate and judgement.

Other girls who saw the post cursed and swore at me. They said things like, “You’re so lucky, you don’t know how good you have it!” or “Most of us aren’t even half as big as you, you should be grateful!”.

It was hurtful and shaming to be told that I should be grateful for something I was so uncomfortable with. It made me feel even worse about my body and my breasts. It was like no matter what I did, I couldn’t win.

I finally realized that I was never going to be able to change my body, no matter how much I wished it. So I decided to focus on learning to love my body the way it was. I started to dress in clothes that made me feel good, even if they were tighter or more revealing.

I also started to accept the attention my breasts were getting and to use it to my advantage. When people stared at me, I held my head high and smiled. I let them know that I was confident and comfortable in my own skin.

In the end, I learned to accept my body and my breasts for what they were. I realized that having bigger breasts than other girls wasn’t a bad thing, it was just different. I embraced my body and all its quirks and I stopped wishing that my breasts were smaller.

I’m a single girl in my early twenties and I’m absolutely sick of all the desperate guys who seem to be chasing me around.

I don’t know why they think I’ll be interested in them when they’re throwing themselves at me, but I’m really getting fed up with it.

I’m sure I’m not the only one who thinks this way, and I’m sure there are lots of other women out there who feel the same way.

It’s not that I’m not open to the idea of meeting someone, I just don’t think it’s right for someone to be so desperate and clingy towards me. It’s a major turn off and I’m sure most women would agree. I think it’s important to be yourself and stay true to your values in order to attract the right kind of person.

When a guy is too clingy or desperate, it sends the wrong message and it’s a real turn-off. I don’t want to be pursued in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable or pressured. I’d much rather have a guy take his time to get to know me and let things progress naturally.

Trying to hard

I also think that when guys are desperate, they tend to forget to be themselves. They try too hard to impress me and it’s obvious that they’re not being genuine. I’d rather a guy be honest and open about who he is, rather than trying to be something he’s not.

I understand that it’s hard to find someone you’re compatible with, but that doesn’t mean you should be desperate and throw yourself at someone. It’s important to be yourself and give yourself time to find someone who is the right fit for you.

I also think that when guys act desperate and clingy, it can be a sign of insecurity. It’s not attractive to me at all and it makes me feel like I’m being suffocated. It’s better to take things slow and let the relationship evolve naturally.

At the end of the day, I think it’s important to remember that relationships should be based on trust and mutual respect. If someone is desperate and clingy, it makes me feel like they don’t trust me or respect my boundaries. That’s not the kind of relationship I want to be in.

So if you’re a guy who is desperate to find someone, take a step back and give yourself time to find someone you’re truly compatible with. Don’t be too clingy or desperate, as it’s a major turn off. Instead, focus on being yourself and letting the relationship progress naturally.

It really turns a girl off, some are just creepy and disgusting.

I’m actively trying to replace my good friend at work and lying to his face about it

He got offered a job through connections and kissing up. He knew I desperately wanted it and even admitted I was way more qualified than him and “you definitely deserved this more than I do,” so he will “leave a good word when (he) eventually leaves.”

Now, the boss is more interested in me since my friend is WFH but boss prefers the office.

My friend has told me on several occasions that he thinks the boss will replace him with me and it makes him upset, and I keep comforting him and saying it will never happen, while secretly feeling happy and doing everything in my power to make it happen.

It has been my dream to work for this company for almost a decade and everything about it fits perfectly into my interests, career and even future education opportunities.

I’m not sure if I’ll lose his friendship if I am given the job, I’m too focused on the fact I could work for the company of my dreams.

Update: he is currently working for the company but I don’t (yet). He’s the one that has always been competitive and insecure because of my background (he’s even lashed out at me because he was once jealous of someone becoming my best friend instead of him), while I am jealous of the fact his kissing up has gotten him so many opportunities while I had to put in 10 times more work for half of what he got.

Neither of us are perfect but convenience has made us friends for over 10 years. However, I know he would do the same if our roles were switched, that’s why I don’t feel bad.

Netizens’ comments

• I’d stop lying to him and trying to comfort him. You’re not his friend anymore. You’re just not.
  This is the nature of the business, and that’s fine, but don’t be disingenuous.
• You both sound like a-holes
• There’s nothing wrong with working hard and being rewarded for it. If your friend is worried about his job, he should step up his work game.

Scammer received item but doesn’t want to pay.

Hey guys, I recently dealt on Carousell via caroupay – selling a headset about $300+

The buyer paid with Caroupay, then I shipped the item to his address, but before I could confirm the item as shipped in the system, he already clicked “cancel deal.

This initiates a refund although the item has already been shipped(as of last week, already delivered.)

I have his name number and address, but he is not responsive and blocked me on all platforms.

I have also visited his place twice to no response as well. If I make a police report will they entertain?

Or are there any other ways to deal with this fucker? $300 is not a small amount to me

Netizens’ comments

• Involve police… maybe he needs a hard lesson
• whats the carousel username anyway.
  gonna need to note down these kind of slimy buyers.
• thats why i refuse to use caroupay because of these buyer-sided payment system and insist to meet face to face.
• Maybe next time above $50 face to face transaction. Carousell bound to have such a-holes
• Contact Carousell and see what they say.
• File a police report