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EMPLOYER SACKED GUY BECAUSE SHE DID NOT LIKE HIS ‘ORIENTATION’

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A guy shared a story from his working experience back in the days after he finished his National Service and started working.

It did not end well due to his employer finding problems with his ‘orientation’ and certain beliefs she had.

Here is the story

“Years ago when I have just finished my NS and also came out of the closet, I had landed a great first job as a software developer with a very small company. Nobody at work new about my orientation because I chose to keep it in my private life.

The office admin developed a crush on me, and I told her about my orientation and said that I have a boyfriend.

She thought that I was only kidding to reject her so she went on to tell everyone that I used the excuse that I am not straight to reject her.

Our boss was a woman with certain beliefs and that did not help me as she did not like people who were not straight and think that there is no other orientation than straight.

She then calls me into her office to tell me about the gossip going on in the office and that she cannot have someone of my orientation working in her company.

My colleagues were furious with her as we were a very close team and my termination blew up quickly.

I quietly said good bye, packed up my stuff and drove home to tell my boyfriend I was unemployed because of this reason.

I started a job that paid twice what I had been making.

After two months, my former boss calls me and asks if I would work on the software project “freelance”, and she offered my former rate, to which I said no.

I told her $50 an hour (which was like 5 times my salary). She said no. A week later she calls back and says “we really need you on this”.

I asked her “are you saying you can’t finish this without me?” “Yes” she replied.

I said “You should have thought of that before you fired me for being another orientation.”

Within a month, the whole software project was shut down.

I recommended my former teammates into my company and we managed to make much more and we all got promoted in the end.

On the other hand, my former boss was given the sack as what happened blew up until the CEO knew about it and she was reprimanded for bringing her personal beliefs into the corporate world and causing heavy losses to the company.”

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COUPLE USE ‘TOOL’ TO SPICE THINGS, END UP GETTING STUCKED IN BODY

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A guy shared how he and his girlfriend were bored of doing the usual stuff during their intimate activities and so decided to try a different approach while doing stuff.

They went to a shop to decide on what ‘tool’ to get and decided to get one which the girlfriend likes.

They then went home to try it out.

Here is the story

“Me and my girlfriend were getting bored of our usual routine so we decided to go to a shop to get a ‘tool’ to spice things up a little.

After deciding on what to get, we rushed home to try it out.

While we were getting it on, we took out the tool and used it except that it was not the right place.

After some experimentation, we managed to achieve our goal and she enjoyed it and asked me to continue.

Moments later she felt something wasn’t right so we stopped what we were doing and checked and now it was fully up there and starting to disappear deeper in.

It was stucked.

We panicked and I’m yelling “Push! Push! Push like you have to take a dump!”

She yelled back “I don’t wanna give birth from the wrong place in front of you!!”

She gave up after a while and asked me to try to pull it out.

The whole process is to messy and gross to share and after a few tries, it came out.

I guess from now on, we will use the ‘tools’ in the way it was rightfully intended.”

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GUY SNEAKS INTO GF HOUSE FOR ‘NETFLIX SESSION’, GETS CAUGHT BY GF’S RELATIVE

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A guy shared a story on how he was caught sneaking into his girlfriend’s house in the afternoon and was caught by her relative in bed with the girlfriend almost at the stage of “getting it on” while doing so.

To make things worst, the girlfriend’s mother also checked her phone and found out conversations between them that they were technically not allowed to have at that age.

The couple are both 17 and still schooling.

Here is the story

“I snuck into my girlfriend’s house because she said that she missed me and wanted to see me and no one would be at home till late night.

We made plans to Netflix and Chill before I headed over.

Her parents did not know about us and did not allow her to have a partner until she finished her studies, which is why we had to be secretive about our relationship.

10 minutes into the netflix and chill session, her uncle came back to take something and caught us on her bed and called her mother.

Her mother came home immediately and slammed the door furiously.

She took my girlfriend’s phone and saw messages of us texting about sneaking in and her using a pregnancy test and me bringing condoms.

I was scolded by her mother and asked to leave and to cut off contact with my girlfriend if not she will report me to the Police.

I miss my girlfriend and feel like I should apologise to her parents to try to make them like me and trust me but I don’t know where to begin.”

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GIRL FACES PRESSURE TO CANCEL WEDDING FROM MOTHER IN LAW

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A woman shared a story of how she is together with her boyfriend for almost four years and is going to become his wife soon.

However, her fiancé’s mother has been giving them problems right before the marriage by wanting a say in it.

She adds on that all in all, she has argued with her fiancé only three times in their four years together and every time it is his mother that caused them to start arguing.

Here is the story

“I need some advice, in less than a week I (25f) will be getting married to the sweetest most thoughtful person (29m). We’ve been together for four years and leading up to this day we’ve only ever had three big arguments, each time the cause of it is his mother.

The latest argument that we have is because of our upcoming wedding.

Now with covid and restrictions, weddings are a bit tricky. Up until the start of last week she has been complaining about how we should cancel the reception, and postpone it as it’s not safe. Not only that but she started writing out her will and cleaning her house as she’s expecting to die from it.

Come on man, restrictions are already eased so much by the government.

I stood by what was originally planned and said no because we would lose the whole deposit sum of the venue if we postponed it.

I thought as long as we’re taking all the precautions we should be okay.

She then turned me into the bad woman by saying i value money more than life.

My fiancé has been so supportive of me, defending me this whole time and overall just being there for me.f

He knows I feel beyond stressed about this and is trying his best to help me, but I feel so hurt and broken, part of me is starting to get cold feet and just wants to run away from it all.

I know when we’re not in this situation and she’s not around it’s the healthiest and happiest relationship.

I don’t know what to do, should I run away from this family?”

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GIRL FINDS OUT HER MUM IS UNFAITHFUL, DON’T KNOW WHETHER TO TELL DAD

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A girl shared a story that she found on her mother has been cheating on her father all along, and is currently in a dilemma on whether to let her dad know about it.

Even though her parents marriage was never perfect, she had never expected any of her parents to start cheating on each other.

Her mother found out that she knows about the cheating, yet tries to act ignorant and convince her that it is nothing.

Here is the story

“My mom and dad have been together for almost 20 years. They don’t have a perfect marriage but I never thought she would do something like this.

Almost a year back I caught her sitting on the “bfs” lap in a picture on her phone.

Didn’t speak to her for a month even while living in the same house.

She somehow convinced me that it was nothing.

I ignored it and tried to believe her.

I love her with all my heart but I can’t take knowing that she’s lying anymore.

Mind u I’m only 17.

Right now she’s been very secretive about her phone and never lets us out of her sight when we have it.

I checked it recently again and I have found even more proof of her cheating as there are many filthy dirtier pictures and texts.

I need help. What did I do? Do I tell my dad? Or confront her again??”

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MAN FOUND OUT HIS WIFE USED TO SLEEP WITH BROTHER-IN-LAW’S FRIEND

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A man shared how his brother-in-law once saw his now-wife sleeping with his (the brother-in-law’s) friend and doing it on the floor.

Here is the story:

My brother-in-law and I spent the weekend at his house playing games and drinking beers, just chilling together.

We then started talking about the spare room in his house that he had turned into a small library.

He told me that before they were married, my wife’s sister and him would go into the room to “read books”, but really they were doing it inside, on the floor.

I knew that my wife-to-be had dated one of his friends, because she told me she was seeing someone when I first asked her out.

After a few beers, the conversation turned to my wife, and I asked if she ever went into the library before.

He laughed and said that was a regular occurrence. I pushed the issue, and he told me about a time he walked in on my wife not wearing any clothes, riding his friend on the floor in front of the bookshelf.

My wife and her sister made him promise not to tell me, and I’m not really mad since we only had one date at that point, but I can’t help but picturing her just humping away.”

Editor’s note: So adventurous ah, do it on the floor.

GIRL CRIED WHILE “DOING IT” WITH BOYFRIEND – TOO “DRY” AND PAINFUL

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A girl shared how she cried while she was doing it with her boyfriend for other reasons, and now he thinks that he did something wrong.

Here is the story:

“I cried while sleeping with my boyfriend and I don’t know how to tell him why it happened

Essentially, my bf and I were doing it and I wasn’t exactly turned on and we didn’t have any foreplay but I was still comfortable enough to go through with it. I’ve always said to him if I was uncomfortable I’d tell him and I have said no to him before and he respects it completely.

However I think it’s important to preface this with the fact that in the past with other partners, there have been times were I was uncomfortable or straight up did not want to, but did it anyway. And it’s my own fault bc I never told the guys I was with before that I wanted to stop. I didn’t realise how much this affected me until recently.

So tonight when my bf and I were doing it, I started to go dry and it was starting to get quite painful and ideally I should’ve told him I wanted to stop.

But it had been a while since we’d seen each other and I just wanted him to feel good. I know it sounds so bad cause I always told him I would tell him but suddenly in the moment, it was like my head was drowned with a million thoughts of all those past experiences were I felt uncomfortable or like I was being used.

I was just completely zoned out with these thoughts and I wanted to say stop bc the pain & thoughts were getting worse, but I just couldn’t. He started to ask if I was okay and to tell him if it was too much and I could feel myself beginning to tear up but even then I tried to hide it and told him to continue.

I really didn’t want him to think it was his fault. He heard in my voice though that something was wrong and he stopped, and then I burst out in tears.

He was so comforting and started apologising thinking it was something he did. I didn’t give him and explanation and said I just needed space and that I will talk about it, but for him not to worry cause it was nothing he did.

How do I tell him what happened, because I promised him id always tell him. I also don’t want to exaggerate my past experiences. And I know if I try to explain how I felt in the past to my bf, he will start to blame himself thinking he took advantage or something.

I’m just very confused and sensitive right now cause I didn’t realise how much those past experiences have clearly affected me.”

GUY DEMANDS GF TO PAY FOR BED SHEETS AFTER BLOOD STAIN

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I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year now, and we recently moved in together. She didn’t have a lot of furniture and such, so it’s mostly mine in our flat including my bed (frame, mattress, sheets). I am a bit of a neat freak, and she generally is too, so we get along pretty well living together.

Now I’m not one of those guys that gets grossed out over a woman having her menstrual cycle. I’ve had S with my girlfriend on lighter days with a towel down. I’ll go buy her feminine products. I don’t get weirded out if she mentions it. I will say though, it totally grosses me out getting on my bed though.

Well, a few days ago when we woke up I noticed a blood spot on the bed and got totally grossed out. I knew she had been on her period for 3 days already so it wasn’t any sort of surprise accident. I asked how it happened and she was upset and said she thought she didn’t need to sleep with anything on. I told her that was absurd, why would you go without wearing anything and get blood all over my bed. I told her that was irresponsible and that she needed to pay me for new sheets.

She agreed to pay for new sheets but got upset with me for getting angry and calling her irresponsible. She said that she likes to not wear anything when she can. She said she thought her flow was light and she wouldn’t bleed over night. She says I have no reason to be angry to talk down to her over something I don’t experience. I said that she should’ve been more careful with where we sleep and that it was unhygienic

Am for getting upset and wanting her to pay?

A lot of people seemed confused by what I said ‘not wearing anything”. She was wearing her normal pajamas, just no menstrual products. She said since she’s on birth control she is very light on day 3 and doesn’t ever bleed on the sheets. It still seems unreasonable to me to not have something for extra coverage just in case. To everyone saying to just wash the sheets, she did, but I just don’t like the thought of it.

MAN DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY FIANCEE – THEY ONLY “SLEEP” TOGETHER ONCE EVERY FEW MONTHS

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A netizen shared that he doesn;t want to marry his fiancee because of a slew of reasons.

Here is the story:

“We’ve known each other for about ten years We met and dated in our poly days and a little after I graduated until she cheated on me and immediately started dating someone else.

There was nothing I could do as I was in the army at the time and she told me over a text that she wasn’t happy.

Ten years later, we reconnected, got engaged. As for the cheating, we talked about it and it’s in the past.

Ever since we got engaged, we don’t sleep together much, it has been almost non-existent (once every couple of months maybe).

Little things about her really bother me; to put it bluntly, she’s a terrible listener. She also works a ton and never really has time for me, and when she does she only talks about work.

For Christmas, instead of getting me a present, she paid for a stitch fix that I got for myself and called it a day. I just watched her open all her gifts Christmas morning.

Also didn’t get anything for my birthday now that I think of it, but it was at a crazy time.

Overall, there’s no excitement, but I do love her and I’m sure I always will. My parents also adore her which makes it more complicated.

I’m afraid I’m going to be stuck with a roommate for the rest of my life. I don’t know what to do. Please help.”

MAN KEEPS SEEING BLACK SHADOW OF A MAN IN HIS ROOM

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So this is kinda a question/experience, when I was younger I used to constantly see a shadow in the corner of my eye.

While that’s not really unusual since tons of people see things like that, what makes it a bit more strange is that it would be in the shape of a person. It was just a black silhouette but I could tell it was wearing a hat and long coat of some kind. It would usually be standing in doorways but as soon as I turn my head there would be nothing there.

There were even a few times I would be walking from one room to another or turning a corner and I’d almost see it clearly standing in a hallway/doorway before backtracking and seeing nothing there.

It could easily have just been my imagination, especially since I saw it a lot more as a child, I just thought it was interesting that it was always the same shape. I was wondering if anyone else experienced something similar, If so than what is this shadow person? Is it my imagination or is it something else?

Here are what netizens think:

  • I remember reading that the shadow ina top hat is a really common shadow figure. Sometimes it is a malevolent energy. Sometimes it does nothing but let itself be seen. Try googling it itll come up!
  • Bro, this sounds like the exact figure I’d have nightmares about. And yes, especially when you mentioned feeling like you see the figure passing the doorway and doubling back to see nothing, yes…I felt the same thing a lot!
  • That was my very first reoccurring nightmare that I couldn’t stop as a kid. Like 6 or 7 years old being traumatized by this figure. I’d see the silhouette of chubby inspector gadget dressed man from across the hall behind the fire exit door,, trench coat and top hat…and right away he just opens the staircase door and starts running after me 
  • Maybe your eye got problem