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CHEE SOON JUAN – F&B IS BACK-BREAKING, NO WONDER FEW S’POREANS WANT THE JOB

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First, apologies for the poor quality of the photo. It was taken at the end of a long day when my staff and I took the trash to the refuse centre deep in the bowels of the building. As you can imagine, we weren’t exactly in the mood for a glamour shot.

Jokes aside, this is the reality of what my staff (and those of other countless F&B joints) go through each and every day. After an unforgiving day standing behind a hot stove or in front of a 200° oven, they have to scrub the floor, wash the pots and pans, wipe down the equipment, clear the trash, and, of course, prepare for the following day.

It’s a back-breaking job. I know it because I do it with them. I do it because I want to know what it’s like to walk a mile in their shoes.

And it is no wonder that few Singaporeans want the job.

But just imagine if no one did it. Where would we go to have that nice lunch or evening out with friends and family?

And it’s the time when we’re most relaxed and in the mood for fun – weekends and year-ends – that service workers have to work the hardest and forego their leisure time. Behind that merry-making are people who slog to serve and clean up after us.

So, the next time you visit Orange & Teal – and I hope you do especially this time of the year when the two outlets are all decked in our Christmas best – say hello to the servers. I know I walk with an extra spring in my step whenever I see you smile and hear you pay a kind compliment. I’m sure they do, too.

Whether it’s Chef Anabel or Operations Manager Irene (whom many of you have met and who was also my election agent during the last GE), my staff come in every single day and give nothing but their all.

Of course, we don’t always hit the mark. We’ve messed up many times with your orders or not have your dish exactly the way you want it.

For that I apologise, the fault is mine and mine alone. Despite our best efforts, we come up short. All I can promise you is that we give our 100% and will continue to do that.

But if you’ve enjoyed your time at O&T, and I know many of you have, please consider leaving a tip for my staff – those who serve you in front and the others in the kitchen you don’t see.

I don’t levy the 10% service charge. I prefer it to come from your heart. Believe me, they work their hearts out and earn every cent of their wages.

Which brings me to a more philosophic question: What’s a person worth? Why do some people make $100,000 (or more) a month just because they have the megaphone to tell you that they are a bargain for that price while others have to quietly sacrifice and slog to take home $3,000? How do we determine the value of each human being, anyway?

This is the political me speaking again. But I’ll leave the topic for another occasion.

For now, I just want to wish you and your loved ones a happy Holiday Season. It’s that time of the year when we cherish that most important thing in our lives – family and friends.

So, come to Orange & Teal to spend some of that time with them, won’t you? I hope to see you there.

GIRL BOUGHT BF A NEW PS5, BF GETS ANGRY AND THINKS THAT SHE IS CHEATING ON HIM

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Okay background my bf (m22) and I (f22) have been dating since our freshmen year of school. We’ve been through a lot together and we’re each others first everything.

We are now adults living together. This January my bf suffered an accident at work. It was a bad fall and the way he landed he did something to his spine so now he has no movement from the waist down. The docs say there’s always a chance for recover and we should keep trying.

And we were. We are. But I noticed my bf seemed down so I got him a ps5 for Christmas. I’ve never been great at hiding things from him and when it slipped out he just looked at me and started crying.

He told me he didn’t deserve.

He kept calling himself a failure as a man. How he can’t even wash himself without my help anymore how he can’t even please me (we haven’t been intimate in bed since everything happened but I’m fine it is not that big of a deal to me which I thought he was already aware of)

He throw his cup against the wall and just started yelling. Not words more like a battle cry and then fell off the bed.

I don’t know how to help. I thought about therapy but with his medical bills we can’t afford that we’re only on my income now he has filed for unemployment but who knows how long that’ll take.

He’s never been angry before sure he gets the standard road rage every blue moon but yelling was never in the picture especially throwing things. I want to help I just don’t know how.

I told him he’s not a failure and accidents are just a part of life and how we will get through it together.

Then he went on about how I’m probably cheating on him which is why I don’t look miserable.

FOREIGN GIRLS HAVE TROUBLE DATING LOCAL MEN AS DON’T OPEN UP ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS

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Dating a Singaporean guy

Hello, I (F non local) am keen to date Singaporean guy as I find they r more nice compare to guys from my country.

But…

But after several dates, I find hard to tell their intention and whther they like me also or not. Some of my girl friends also say the same, easier to tell non Singaporean intention when dating. Is it just us or is it true that Singaporean guys dont always open with their feeling? Then how do I tell if he likes me too or not?

This is genuine question, pls dont judge me as I really want to understand. My interest is also genuine and personal, as I mentioned, I find Singaporean guys r more nice compare to guys from my country, not because of material.

I have a proper job here in Singapore, so it’s not material-related. Thank you!

Here are what netizens think:

  • We would date trees, if a tree asked us out
  • Some Singaporean guys can be quite unexpressive. Want something, don’t want to say. Like something, don’t want to say. Don’t like something, don’t want to say. Don’t get what they want cos they don’t say, then KPKB.
  • We start dating trees when we join National Service
  • It’s more because Singaporean guys dun rlly have a say in much things. Some of us are never heard so we jus dun open our mouths.
  • I’ve never thought about it that way. But kinda true. Like as a society, we don’t have much autonomy in many big life decisions. MUST go NS. CANNOT buy house till 35. MUST have a CCA in school.

BF’S UNEMPLOYED MUM EYEING HIS MONEY AFTER HE STARTS EARNING “GREAT” MONEY

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I (18f) am happily dating my bf (20m) for about 5 months. In these 5 months I’ve seen him go from jobless and broke to making enough money for the both of us to have a ton of fun off of. (Yes I work before some people start coming after me)

my boyfriend, let’s call him Henry lives with his mom let’s call her Stephanie and his two siblings and Stephanie’s boyfriend.

Stephanie has a degree in radiology and has always been well off financially. I’m not sure what happened but she is currently unemployed and her credit score is.. well, shit.

Ever since Henry got his big boy job we will call it, he makes great money like mentioned before. But it’s only now that he makes this money that his mom wants to suddenly hangout with him, have lunch with him, (of course drinks on him) and has an interest in what he talks about.

When he gets paid, she slowly begins to ask for more and more of him such as helping her catch up on bills, lunch, phone bill, internet bill etc.

Until she runs his pockets broke to the point where he only has enough $ in his account to get petrol for work for the week, leaving he and I nothing to do because he absolutely refuses to let me spend the money I work for to make up for it.

But when he’s empty she suddenly doesn’t pick up the phone. Doesn’t want to hear anything exciting he has to say, or anything.

But because we have only been dating a few months I don’t feel like it’s my place to say anything to him about what’s going on. He loves his mom, definitely mommas boy. And I like her too, until I started picking up on her antics.

MAN GOES “ATAS” RESTAURANT IN DEMPSEY, TOLD TO PAY TIPS ON TOP OF SERVICE CHARGE

How do you think about tips on top of service charge?

I was having great dinning yesterday in a “atas” restaurant in Dempsey hill yesterday.

Want both tips and service charge

Dishes, environment and service are great. when we pay the bill waiter “asked” about tips so we pay around 20 dollars, but then we realised that all the payment already included GST and service charge. I really appreciated the service given during our dinner but tips are a bit freaky if already have the 10% service charge. So I better to give another 10% for tips if I satisfied with service?

How you guys do in this case?

Here are what netizens think:

  • i wouldn’t pay the tips if there’s service charge even if the service was excellent. very american thing to do but I personally prefer knowing the cost upfront (even if the excellent service is already priced in) instead of leaving it to guess work.
  • SG no tips one la. The wait staff just anyhow whack cus Dempsey a lot of rich customers – and who will reject giving tips if asked so directly in the fear of looking ‘bad’.
  • nope, service charge ~is~ the tip. tip is only when the establishment underpaid their servers on purpose (like in US)… not in this case in SG. if that restaurant charge you extra 10% yet still underpaid their servers, thats scummy and people should stop eating there
  • A tip on top of a 10% service charge is a little overboard, but considering many a times these 10% service charge are kept by the establishments rather than distributed among service staffs, does raised questions. The authority needs to step in on this to clear the air, as SG imposed service charges in place of the “NO TIPPING” policy going way back in the 1970’s/80’s. Anyway, tipping is discretional and not mandatory for good services offered/extended.

DIPLOMA HOLDER TOLD BY HER BOSS “DON’T EXPECT TOO MUCH” CAUSE SHE’S NOT A UNI GRAD

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I am a 24F, and like many others i felt like living is a rat race, also i can’t help but feel so anxious about my future. Growing up, i have always been very self sufficient with a very humbling background.

Prior to this, i joined a startup company and was initially hoping things will really grow and i can earn my first bag of “Gold”. However, i became unaligned with the company after two years, and realised that it was not what i wanted. My boss did not had the experience/resources to expand fast enough.

I got very worried a lot about what should i do with my life. Prior to quitting, i was humbled by my boss that i shouldn expect too much because I was not a university graduate. I felt like that statement really hurt me, considering the amount of effort I’ve put in to help my boss along the company’s journey.

Few months later, i managed to secure a job at the same salary and now i’m en route to get my degree as well. Yet, i can’t help but feel like i am so behind in life and i don’t know if a degree really guarantees me a better shot at life.

Netizens’ comments

  1. You’re worrying too much. Just focus on your own skillset and putting yourself in a place where you can make the most of them. There will be failures along the way and you will never be good as most of the people you are comparing yourself to which is perfectly fine
  2. With the current market situation, the problem of high cost of living in Singapore is very real. My wife and I have also decided on not having kids and start saving up for healthcare and retirement early so that we will have enough to live by when we grow old. The last thing we really want is to work until old age/death
  3. Everyone is on their own journey. I keep repeating this to myself when I feel like I‘m not doing enough at my age

MAN ASKING HOW TO AFFORD $50,000 HDB RENOVATION, LOANS HAVE CRAZY INTEREST

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How did you pay for your HDB home renovation?

Im planning to purchase a 4 room resale flat and do a simple renovation, essentially the kitchen, bathrooms, build in wardrobe for the MBR and tilings.

I’ve learnt that the average renovation costs (excluding furnitures) for a 4 room resale would be ~$50k. Unless you inherited wealth from your predecessors, how on earth do you afford to pay $50k reno (especially for young adults)?

It would take me and my partner years to save that amt, considering we also have our own financial commitments.

How did you pay for your renovation? Did you apply for a reno loan, did you pay half by cash and remaining amt by an interest free reno loan, or did you pay everything by cash?

Here are what netizens think:

  • depends on when you’re getting your HDB. me and my partner saved for almost 11 years in order to afford our current hdb + reno … we are both in our early 30s
  • of course if you guys are getting it around 25 there will be less spare money to play around with.
  • don’t be fooled with all those 100k+ reno, those people probably either high earner or their second house alrd
  • It’s the carpentry that is costly. If you want to shave off abit off the reno, I would suggest to focus reno only on the essentials, which is kitchen and toilet. Maybe a wardrobe in the MBR. Spend the rest on loose furniture.
  • Buying furniture, especially from IKEA, instead of floor to ceiling shelves and storage can be alot cheaper. Quality and design has gotten better over the years, but always keep ikea surfaces dry as they bloat with water damage easily.
  • Live in for a few years and decide if you really need customised shelving in the living room.
  • Yes to IKEA! The Billy Oxberg and Ivar series can be great for floor to ceiling shelves while looking modern. Besta series is great for tv console, shoe cabinet etc too. It’s about choosing a good combination of doors and legs. The Kyrre stools look very stylish and can be used as side tables too. It has a designer vibe to it IMO. Nordiska bedside table looks quite trendy and is so much cheaper at $99. I can’t believe bedside tables elsewhere cost $200-300

WOMAN STRESSED BECAUSE BF OF 3 MONTHS ALREADY ASKING TO TRY FOR A BABY

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I broke my boyfriend and I just want him back

Me(24F) and this guy(23M) have been dating for 3 months.

A few weeks ago he started talking about marriage, I told him “it’s too soon, I’m committed but we can’t be talking about this yet” and then he started talking about trying for a baby and I said the same thing to him.

Since then he’s been super distant. Doesn’t express his emotions anymore, doesn’t talk about the future, it’s like we’ve reverted back to the talking stage.

When I try to bring it up, he’s like “no I’m fine I don’t want to bother you”

I just want the sweet boy he was back

Netizens’ comments

  • THREEE MONTHS READ THAT WITH ME THREEEEEEEE MONTHS.
    You’re not even living together and he wants marriage and kids.
    Why would he go break his own heart, if you said no to marriage ….WHY WOULD HE ASK FOR KIDS
  • I dunno my partner and I established in the first week that marriage and kids was something we both wanted down the line. We both wanted to because we both didn’t want to waste time getting into a relationship where that wasn’t the plan. Knowing what we both wanted has been really healthy for our relationship.
    It’s fine to set boundaries about when you want to have certain types of discussions, but there is no one size fits all for deciding when these types of discussions occur.
  • In less then 3 months and talking about marriage and kids and then icing because he doesn’t get what he wants? Quite a lot of red flags. Would be very wary of him, doesn’t sound like he is a sweet boy. In the early stages of love you do your best to show the best version of yourself and you only see the better points after a while you start seeing the real version and also notice the bad points. think you started seeing them already.

GIRLS WRITES LETTER TO FUTURE HUSBAND, NETIZENS TELL HER ‘CONTINUE TO DREAM LA’

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A letter to my future husband

Dear future husband,

Thanks for being there for me when I needed it most

I flourished under your care & withered with your absence

You guided me like how the moon guided the tide

With your presence, I was emotionally nourished like never before

Life without you is/was almost meaningless

Life with you, even when it’s at a distance/platonic, is something I cherish every moment

I tried to let things go, thinking that someone else could make me as happy just like you did

It just didn’t happen

Happiness came naturally when I’m with you (I love how you made me happy effortlessly)

Very soon I realized that

Love can’t be forced

We find happiness only when we’re with the right person.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Focus on being independent and build up yourself before becoming interdependent.. a good foundation will be vital to a good marriage. Your poetry is kinda confusing actually. Haha.
  • Calm down . Don’t be so dependant until the world revolves around him. Love with your heart but don’t lose yourself when loving someone
  • Focus on being independent and build up yourself before becoming interdependent.. a good foundation will be vital to a good marriage.
  • So the “future” husband was an ex?? Buay understand.
  • You sound like your some emo person, stop dreaming lah

COLLEAGUES SICK BUT NOT WEARING MASK @ OFFICE: ONE KEEP COUGHING, ANOTHER KEEP SNEEZING

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If you are sick, don’t come into work

I can’t believe I have to say this in 2022, especially since my work has the option of working from home. So I am part time in the office, I come in on Monday and am in line at the cafeteria. The guy in front of me apologizes to the cashier because he’s so sick he lost his voice. Ooookay?

I get to my desk and set up, guy at the next desk has a bad cough, the lady across the room can’t stop sneezing. I can hear people in respiratory distress all over the place. They are not even masked up. So I packed up and went home.

I am NOT getting Covid again because these idiots can’t be asked to at LEAST work from home when sick. Or take a sick day, I don’t care. GTFO. And we have a mandatory three hour all hands meeting next with with a couple hundred people packed into a conference room, IN PERSON.

This is unacceptable. It is like 2020 2021 never happened. Remember when we could only eat with others with a plexiglass wall between us? Remember having to prove you didn’t have a fever just to get in the door? Remember mandatory masking? Remember social distancing? REMEMBER STAYING HOME WHEN YOU ARE SICK? What was it all for?

As far as I know Covid never went away and now we are in the middle of flu season. I see this as a failure of management as much as a failure of common sense and I will be bringing it up to management.