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JOE BIDEN & XI JINPING MEET FOR THE FIRST TIME – “COMPETITION SHOULDN’T VEER INTO CONFLICT”

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US president Joe Biden met up with China president Xi Jinping in person for the first time during a historic meeting in Bali on 14 November.

They had discussions over a slew of issues, and both sides agreed to maintain regular contact, and noted that their differences shouldn’t veer into conflict.

White House statement

President Joseph R. Biden, Jr. met on November 14 with President Xi Jinping of the People’s Republic of China (PRC), in Bali, Indonesia. The two leaders spoke candidly about their respective priorities and intentions across a range of issues. 

President Biden explained that the United States will continue to compete vigorously with the PRC, including by investing in sources of strength at home and aligning efforts with allies and partners around the world. He reiterated that this competition should not veer into conflict and underscored that the United States and China must manage the competition responsibly and maintain open lines of communication. 

The two leaders discussed the importance of developing principles that would advance these goals and tasked their teams to discuss them further. 

President Biden underscored that the United States and China must work together to address transnational challenges – such as climate change, global macroeconomic stability including debt relief, health security, and global food security – because that is what the international community expects. 

The two leaders agreed to empower key senior officials to maintain communication and deepen constructive efforts on these and other issues. They welcomed ongoing efforts to address specific issues in U.S.-China bilateral relations, and encouraged further progress in these existing mechanisms, including through joint working groups. 

They also noted the importance of ties between the people of the United States and the PRC.

President Biden raised concerns about PRC practices in Xinjiang, Tibet, and Hong Kong, and human rights more broadly. On Taiwan, he laid out in detail that our one China policy has not changed, the United States opposes any unilateral changes to the status quo by either side, and the world has an interest in the maintenance of peace and stability in the Taiwan Strait. 

He raised U.S. objections to the PRC’s coercive and increasingly aggressive actions toward Taiwan, which undermine peace and stability across the Taiwan Strait and in the broader region, and jeopardize global prosperity. 

President Biden also raised ongoing concerns about China’s non-market economic practices, which harm American workers and families, and workers and families around the world. He again underscored that it is a priority for us to resolve the cases of American citizens who are wrongfully detained or subject to exit bans in China

The two leaders exchanged views on key regional and global challenges. President Biden raised Russia’s brutal war against Ukraine and Russia’s irresponsible threats of nuclear use. President Biden and President Xi reiterated their agreement that a nuclear war should never be fought and can never be won and underscored their opposition to the use or threat of use of nuclear weapons in Ukraine. 

President Biden also raised concerns about the DPRK’s provocative behavior, noted all members of the international community have an interest in encouraging the DPRK to act responsibly, and underscored the United States’ ironclad commitment to defending our Indo-Pacific Allies.

The two leaders agreed that Secretary of State Blinken will visit China to follow up on their discussions.

KIND GIRL FROM REPUBLIC POLY SENT ELDERLY COMMUTER HOME & BUYS HIM FOOD

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Republic Polytechnic shared a post on LinkedIn about one of their students, Phoebe Lim, who was awarded the Caring Commuter Award.

She had noticed an elderly commuter who was having issues with his wheelchair and accompanied him home, even buying food for the elderly man.

She even visited him two days later to make sure that the elderly man was alright.

Republic Poly’s statement

How far would you go to help those in need? 

When School of Sports, Health and Leisure student Phoebe Lim noticed an elderly commuter with mobility issues, she did not hesitate to help find him a wheelchair.

She then accompanied him to a place where he could sit and rest.

Phoebe even went the extra mile and bought food for the elderly before sending him home as she was worried to leave him alone.

The Diploma in Sport & Exercise student also visited the elderly two days later to ensure that he was alright.

For her initiative and act of kindness towards a fellow commuter in need, Phoebe was recognised as one of the eight winners of the Caring Commuter Award, now into its fourth edition.

Congratulations and well done, Phoebe! You’re truly a role model to all of us. 

FAMILY’S FALSE CEILING COLLAPSES AT HOME, WHILE CHILDREN WERE SLEEPING

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TikTok user @jynn.lifez shared how her family was suddenly woken up by the ceiling collapsing in their living room.

The woman, 37-year-old Gong, said that their family had just moved into their rented home for only 2 months when their ceiling collapsed.

The entire ceiling was seen in the video collapsed near their window, with parts of the false ceiling still dangling above the ground.

Gong said that thankfully it happened at 6am and not 6pm, and that she and her husband were suddenly woken up by the loud sounds of the falling ceiling.

The ceiling had hit all of her children’s toys and it all dropped on the floor, but nothing else was damaged and even her plants were fine, save for a small scratch on her kids’ toy rack.

The family had been renting the unit while waiting for their new home to be ready, and the landlord has since engaged contractors to repair the false ceiling.

@jynn.lifez False ceiling collapse at 6am in the morning.. thk god is 6am not 6pm no one is hurt! Cos is the kids play area but i tink my plant #真的bbq了 #homeaccident #falseceilingdrop #scary #fypsg #fyp #sgtiktok ♬ 芭比q了 – 邓家忠

50 Y.O CHINA UNCLE FINISHES 42KM MARATHON IN 3H 28MINS WHILE SMOKING, “LEGEND”

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A 42-year-old man managed to finish a 42km marathon in 3 hours and 28 mins while he was smoking.

The event took place last Sunday, at the 2022 Jiande Xin’anjiang Marathon. An uncle was “fired”, running in the crowd with a cigarette in his mouth! And finally finished the race in 3 hours, 28 minutes and 45 seconds.

Apparently this is not his first time doing this, a Weibo user stated:

The smoker is back in the arena again. In the Jiande Marathon last week, others were tired of eating energy gels. He was tired and came to Genhuazi. He finished the race in the last 3 hours and 28 minutes.

According to the media, It is understood that Uncle Chen is more than 50 years old this year. He likes to have a cigarette in his mouth during competitions, and when he feels tired, he will take a puff to “relieve fatigue”. 

He has appeared in many major marathons. On the track of the 2017 Hangzhou Marathon, “Smoking Brother” Uncle Chen became known to people for the first time. Afterwards, he took part in the Xiamen Marathon and Lishui Ultra Marathon several times, and even during the Lhasa Half Marathon, he smoked cigarettes on the plateau. 

Of course, there is a certain controversy about Uncle Chen’s practice of “not enough energy, cigarettes come together”. Some runners said: “This kind of uncivilized behavior is recommended to be banned. Second-hand smoke also has a great impact on other runners.”, “Whoever is next to him is unlucky.”

Some netizens also suggested: “The marathon should have regulations prohibiting smoking. ”. In this regard, the editor also looked through the rules of several marathons, but none of them clearly stated that smoking is not allowed.

WOMAN GIVES DATING ADVICE TO HER 18 Y.O SELF, NETIZENS SAID SHE IS CONTRADICTING HERSELF

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Dating advice for my 18 yr old self.

Be careful of men who insist on paying for everything, they just want you to feel indebted.

Also, be careful of men who insist on splitting the cost of everything, they’re not doing it for equality, they’re being cheap and don’t value you.

Sleeping with him won’t make him stick around. If you have to resort to S to maintain his interest, he isn’t interested.

That older guy doesn’t really think you’re mature for your age. He likes that you’re too young and naïve to smell his bull.

Casual S isn’t fun. Stop pretending it is. Your heart will keep getting broken.

If a man can’t compliment anything other than your appearance, it means he isn’t looking deeper. Don’t waste your time.

Partying gets really old really quickly.

Stop judging your friends who settled down early into committed relationships, one day you’ll be jealous of them.

Men will sleep with anyone so stop thinking male attention is important.

Men who are the most exciting are often the biggest douchebags.

One day you will want children. Desperately. You will be jealous of your best friend’s beautiful baby. Keep this in mind when deciding what to prioritize in your dating life.

Here are what netizens think:

  • You are contradicting yourself, first you say don’t make man pay, then you say if they wanna split their cheap.
  • Sounds like you have issues and might need to seek therapy soon.
  • You this kind sure is those hang up to sell one, this cannot that cannot.

MAN GOT SPEEDING TICKET, DEMANDS FRIEND TO PAY FOR IT CAUSE “I FETCHED U”

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I work remotely and a few months ago I took a train to the office for a few days to get some face-face time with my colleagues. On my last day, one of my colleagues offered to give me a ride back to the train station. There was a hidden speed camera and he got flashed.

At the time he just brushed it off like it was nothing and we went on with our lives.

Anyway, a month ago he was like “Hey remember that speeding ticket I was supposed to get? I never got anything! Maybe it was a dud” and we laughed it off, but the weekend immediately after, he sends me a message saying “So I just got the ticket. How are we going to do this?” I asked for clarification because I wasn’t really sure what he meant, but it turns out he wants me to pitch in for the ticket.

At this point I’m just thinking “But…I wasn’t driving….” and we have a small back and forth about this and I assumed we had resolved it and put it behind me.

This morning, his wife messages me basically saying that it is incredibly unfair of me to have not paid my share of the ticket and that they expect me to pay them back because they paid it in full. I was really surprised to receive this message because I assumed it was resolved and quite honestly, it wasn’t expensive at all and I could easily part with the money for the entire ticket if need be. To be told “He wouldn’t have had a speeding ticket if he wasn’t driving you to the train station” felt especially rich to me considering that he actually wouldn’t have had a speeding ticket if he wasn’t speeding – something I had no control over at all as a passenger. I have not yet responded to her and to be honest, I feel like if I don’t pay them, I’m being the petty person. At the same time, on principle it feels wrong to give in.

Extra info: I know this particular colleague quite well as we used to work at another company together. I know his family and they know mine as they’ve come to visit and stay with us as well and I would say we are relatively close – as far as colleagues go.

I also know for a fact that they aren’t exactly struggling financially. We work in one of the top 5 most paid industries. I know that I get paid pretty handsomely for my work, and the guy has a pretty senior role to me and definitely earns quite a lot more than I do. The industry wis wife works in also has her earning nearly 10k more than he does a year from what he’s told me, and as I mentioned, we get paid pretty well. I wouldn’t have thought twice otherwise, but I just feel like this is petty on their part, especially considering how small of an amount the fine actually is.

Info: I was not running late, nor was I asking him to pick up the pace at any point in time. I had initially planned to walk to the train station, but he kindly volunteered to take me.

Edit: Put in the actual ticket amount instead of what I was meant to pay.

MOTHER-IN-LAW OFFERS TO PAY DOWNPAYMENT FOR 5-ROOM HDB, KPKB WHEN DECLINED

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Did I offend my in-laws by declining my in laws gift of a down payment on a new house?

I’m awake at 4am and can’t sleep because of this situation so I thought I would bring it here. My husband’s parents moved down to our area a few years ago because they can be closer to his grandparents who also moved down there. We visit every few months and everything has been fine.

I’m 7 months pregnant with our first child a girl. Ever since we told his parents they have been making comments when we talk to them about the distance and not seeing their grandbaby much I just ignore them because it was their choice to move so nothing I can do about that.

Last week his mom asked to FaceTime with us because she has something exciting to tell us. A 5 room in their neighbourhood is up for sale. His parents said as a Christmas gift this year they are giving us the money for the down payment on the house so we can in his mom’s words “ move out of our horrible little apartment.”

We both didn’t know what to say we have never had any plans to move or never implied it was something we would ever consider. My entire family including my parents and everyone I have ever known is here,our jobs are here and I’m sorry but I’m not moving my daughter to a deep red state just not happening.

We told her on the call thanks and we appreciate the offer but we have no intentions on moving and love it here even in our tiny apartment.

She hung up and it has become a thing. She is blasting us on Facebook for being ungrateful and raising our daughter in a crime-ridden estate ( it’s not)

All her friends are backing her up in the comments about how I’ll be a terrible mother and she is offering us a house and home for our baby. She thinks that because her offer is so generous we are AH to decline.

All this is making me feel guilty as hell. My husband says to ignore her but this is stressing my out and here I am at 4am stressing and feeling like a bad mother before my daughter is even born.

BF BLAMES GF: SAYS HE IS NOT APPRECIATED THEREFORE HE HAS THE RIGHT TO CHEAT ON HER

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So my boyfriend and I have been dating since April this yr and it’s gonna be 6 months soon . The issue comes in after I found out that he was cheating .

So some back story on that he thought that I was cheating with a friend of mine at the beginning of the relationship but I’ve since cut that friend off. And how I know I am not in the wrong there is that I have spoken to other ppl and gotten unbiased opinions on it and I’ve been told I’m not wrong and it was a misunderstanding.

So back to the issue at hand, after he cheated he blamed it on me and said that if only he had seen proof that I hadn’t done anything wrong then non of it would have happened and then it went on that I’m too clingy and I overthink way to much and I need to trust him again but here is the thing . He says these things to me all the time and he has even blocked me a few times .

Last week I was so frustrated that I literally yelled like screamed my guts out at him over the phone and that’s normal for me . He kept telling me I was wrong and I kept screaming and the reason I was so upset is really stupid . I’d like to make it clear that I’m not demanding of him , just his time and attention but that’s all .

That day he got upset with me because I was on a call with my bestfriend since she was crying and I told him to give me a few min and I would be with him . I only took 10 minutes. He got so mad at me that he went on to game for 2 hrs and ignore me which is why I screamed my head off . When he has my attention I need to relax when I find something to do he gets upset so I was extremely frustrated coz I felt like no matter what I did I wouldn’t be enough.

Today he told me that since COD Warfare is coming out next week on mobile he isn’t gonna be talking to me and he was serious when he said it . You may wonder how I know this , well its because he has alredy got his twitch set up just for this and while I have no problems I would like him to talk to me and make some time for me instead of just expecting me to sit around all day waiting for him. I don’t feel like I was able to explain myself properly and before any of u ask I have tried gaming and I have tried to play with him I just am not good at it but I have been practicing. Maybe I am not being appreciative but I just feel like what I put in is what I should get back . Instead I’m just met with how I’m not good enough even tho I feel like I have done a lot . So reddit please don’t be to harsh on me since it’s my first time and also do explain to me where I went wrong.

Am I wrong for not appreciating my boyfriend?

MAN TOOK ALL OF DAD’S LIFE SAVINGS, SPENT $30K ON TIKTOK COINS

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My brother spent $90k in 3 months

I just really need to rant about this, we’re a big family and we all live in the same huge household, my parents and I went for a vacation for 3 months, and my brother (28) managed to spend 90,000 FREAKING DOLLARS,

he emptied his own bank account, stole all of my dad’s savings and continued to take more money from my dad’s bank account.

Approximately $30k of that money was spent on TikTok coins.. TIKTOK COINS!

I’m literally getting second hand embarrassment, it doesn’t feel like he feels like he did that big of a deal, note that he has a wife and 3 kids, she’s literally considering divorce because what kind of future??

Anyways I don’t blame her, I’m just trying to fathom wtf is going on because we pretty much lost all the money we had and my dad is starting from 0, he asked my brother to return back $20k (cuz apparently my brother said a lot of the money was spent on groceries, bills and outings, all of which he “wrote down”, didn’t even keep the damn bills)

My dad fired him and told him to find a job, everyone is literally embarrassed at this point and I just feel horrible for not only my dad who lost all of his life savings on Tiktok, but my sister in law who has to deal with that kind of bullshit.

ANG MOH ASKS “WHY SG PARENTS ARE SO KIASU” ALWAYS PUSHING THEIR KIDS

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Next generation of (tiger) parents

I am an angmoh guy. Been in Singapore about 8 years.

My first local friends used to complain a lot about their tiger parents. All the pain they went though, from extra tutoring, always having to study, banned from having romantic relationships and ensuring to be home for dinner even when they are full grown adults. I think the worst aspect was not being able to meet their parents high expectations even with amazing performance.

Now they are all starting to have their own kids and I’m very surprised to see they are doing the exact same things to their kids that their parents did to them. In some cases even harder – like enrichment classes when their kids are still babies!!

Can someone tell me why they repeat this toxic behaviour? I don’t get it, especially when there’s little evidence that pushing your kids so hard actually helps them.

Here are what netinzes think:

  • It’s because as they grew older they realized they can’t fight the system.. changes in the educational system whilst taking place now will only bear fruit ( for better or worse ) decades later. While economic and political uncertainty just makes competition even more rife. You can argue its only going to get worse with this generation of parents experiencing even more FOMO and kiasuness amidst increasing costs.
  • Generally new parents have only two main sources of reference. Their own childhood, and the experiences of their (equally clueless) peers. From when the lady receives the good news on her pregnancy, well meaning friends, relatives and colleagues will start feeding information about parenthood, school life, childcare and anything and everything there is about “getting your child that headstart” I feel it all starts from there.
  • As a parent who signed her mini me for a baby enrichment class, i would like to say that it’s a fun session where he enjoys the teacher telling stories/singing songs/play baby gym. It’s only a 1hr session once a week where he gets exposed to a different setting from home/grandparents house and gets exposed to different pple (teachers/other babies). I’m hoping this will help ease him into school eventually. But no we don’t expect him to be the president scholar of his batch 15yrs down the road la. Definitely no crazy tuition schedule for him when he gets older 
  • Lessons and experiences imprinted from childhood are commonly brought forward to the next generation because its so deeply ingrained.