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COUPLE SLEEP TOGETHER STAY TOGETHER, MAN STILL DON’T ACKNOWLEDGE GIRL AS GF

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Hey there, I don’t use Facebook much and am typing on my phone so forgive the formatting.

I (20f) have been seeing this guy (23m) for about 4 to 5 months now. When we first started seeing each other we both agreed not to see anyone else, we both really enjoyed each other’s company and wanted to see where this would go between us. I told him I wanted to wait 3 months minimum before anything was made official

In the beginning, it was great we were both really excited about each other and what we would be doing in our future together. We were both planning on moving together at the end of the year for different reasons but it just so happened we were planning it for the same time.

He initially offered for us to find a place together which I was a little nervous about at first as we hadn’t been seeing each other that long at this point but I was also really excited about it because I was really starting to care about him.

Fast forward a month until we both moved, I told him I needed to have a frank discussion with him about what this was, we had been seeing each other exclusively for the last few months and everything was great so I figured the next step was to have that “what is this” conversation.

Well it didn’t go how I thought it would, he said he didn’t want to label anything. Yes he was really enjoying spending time with me and acting like a couple but he didn’t want to officially say we were a couple. Not gonna lie this upset me, I thought that what we had was more on the serious side and hearing that he didn’t actually wanna make anything official did sting.

He basically said why does it matter if we make it official, we act like a couple so what’s the problem. I said because it’s confusing to me. We act like a couple but I’m introduced to his friends as a friend or just [my name]. It’s not about the title or what other people think its a clarification for me that this is what I think it is and what I want it to be. I said if we act like a couple then what’s the problem with making it official, what would it change. He didnt agree and then opened up that because of his last relationship (6 years, broke up about a year ago) he has commitment issues. He doesn’t wanna rush into anything and wants to make sure that when he comits again he’s really sure about it. I understand this and respect it but also don’t think it’s fair on me. He also told me he didn’t think he was ready to move in with a partner yet, he told me he didn’t know how to bring it up because he felt like he was stringing me along, saying we could do that and then backing out when it came to it.

Again totally understandable we had only been seeing each other a couple of months and I had alternatives for movin. I appreciated the honesty about it and just needed to know where we stood.

Since I have tried talking to him about it since but he gives me the same answers so I’m at a loss. I do t wanna walk away because I do really care about him but I also feel I’m doing my self a dis service by putting up with this. I just need some friendly ish advice, please don’t be to harsh. 🙂

CLASSMATE INTERN UNTIL SLEEP WITH THE BOSS AND GETS PERM JOB

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I have a mandatory internship where I study, difficult to arrange, luckily I got it and then I found out that the most beneficial internship time for me would be in the morning, when I study and my internship supervisor would always be there.

Weeks later, a vacancy for another intern appeared and that’s when I made the offer to my friend, Sofia (W,19), who didn’t hesitate to take the test, I spoke to a friend and told her not to tell about the vacancy for more no one guaranteeing Sofia’s spot.

She got it and we started working together in the morning as we chose to skip a few days of school

Sofia and my boss started to get really close and I ended up becoming a kind of cupid between the two, who didn’t stop flirting at work until we found out he had a girlfriend and I told Sofia to stay out of trouble. She said she didn’t want to be the reason for the end of the relationship, but the gifts, pampering and flirting continued between the two, especially from my boss. Until one day my boss(M, 27) is kicked out by his girlfriend, who I believe has suspected her crush on the intern.

From then on I started to go to work less due to the huge amount of absences and due to the distance between my boss and Sofia with me, because I was no longer fit to be a cupid and all the conversations revolved around the two of them, but Sofia continued to work the same shift and after a while she made her relationship official

She started to ask me to glue her notes and activities, because she didn’t go to classes, which ended up tiring me, until one day she didn’t come to class to return one of these works to me on the day of delivery because she was in the trade and didn’t study to a double test with my friend making her get a low grade, in addition to other feats I decided to ignore her the other day, because our proximity was no longer the same and I was already fed up with all that and she didn’t like it, the following week when I went to the internship she also ignored me.

After a few days it got worse, every time I went to the internship I was also ignored by my boss who rarely gave me any work and when they went to have lunch together I was alone in the room, they acted as if I wasn’t in the room and talked each other. It was weeks before she decided to apologize to me and my friends over WhatsApp for acting arrogantly, but the other day at school she ignored us again and acted like nothing had happened.

It is worth mentioning that I had not talked to Sofia but a mutual friend between us tried to resolve the situation and Sofia just said that she was fine and that there was no problem.

Then I decided to go to the internship less often and Sofia ended up switching classes, staying for the afternoon shift, I finished my internship and now we don’t speak anymore Was I an asshole for ignoring her?

Note: she’s going to get a job where she’s interns according to my old boss

GLASS DOOR IN SERANGOON CONDO TOILET “EXPLODES” ON ELDERLY WOMAN & TODDLER

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A glass door inside a toilet at a Serangoon condominium, inexplicably “exploded” and shattered on an elderly woman and a toddler, injuring them, according to Shin Min Daily News.

The incident happened at the Garden Residences in Serangoon.

35-year-old Li Yue spoke to SMDN about the incident, saying that her family had been living at the unit for 3 months and that the condominium was completed a year ago.

her 65-year-old mother was giving her 2-year-old granddaughter a bath at the time, with the latter facing the glass door.

The grandmother then turned her back for a moment before being interrupted by sounds of an explosion, as the glass door shattered on them.

The grandmother hugged her granddaughter to protect her from the shards but it was too late as both of them started bleeding from the cuts.

The toddler suffered cuts all over her body as she was facing the glass door, and doctors took 2 hours to remove the glass shard from the child.

The grandmother also suffered cuts to her arms.

The condominium were questioned by the family and their neighbours, but they maintained that their glass door had met the government’s specifications, and wouldn’t take responsibility for the matter.

They instead offered the family $2,000 gift certificate and offered to reinstall the glass door.

SIA BLACKLISTED VIOLENT ANG MOH WHO HIT THEIR CREW MEMBER

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SIA’s spokesman revealed that the rude ang moh tourist had not only behaved like a nuisance on board but also took matters literally into his own hands.

“Our cabin crew managed to calm the passenger down eventually,” said the spokesperson, reported CNA.

The crew member that was attacked on the flight had received medical attention.

Background:

A male Karen who took the Singapore airlines plane from Bangkok to Singapore threatened that he will push the air steward over if he does not get his water.

The passenger was told that he needed to sit down as the seat belt sign was still on.

The steward told him that it was the law but the man responded by saying “you think I care about your f-ing law?”

He wrote:

On 8 Nov 2022, on sq711 landed at Singapore Terminal 2 from Bangkok this crazy passenger threatened to push over the sq crew if he does not give him water. The seat belt sign is still on and he suppose to be seated. Wasted all the passenger time for the ground staff security to take him off the plane.

We waited for almost 15 mins for the ground staff security to escort him off the plane.

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Potential penalties:

Those who use threatening words likely to cause alarm can be fined up to $5,000.

The offence of voluntarily causing hurt carries a maximum jail term of three years, a fine of up to $5,000, or both.

ERP RATES INCREASING BY $1 AT 6 PLACES FROM 19 NOV, DUE TO “TRAFFIC BUILD UP”

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The Land Transport Authority (LTA) has completed its latest review of Electronic Road Pricing (ERP) rates.

2.      Based on LTA’s monitoring of traffic conditions in October 2022, traffic has built up at various stretches of expressways. 9 time periods across 6 locations have been identified for ERP rate increases as traffic speeds at these timeslots have fallen below the optimal speed range.

3.      However, in view of the upcoming December school holidays, ERP rates for 4 of the time periods across 3 locations will be implemented only after the school holidays, i.e. from Tuesday, 3 January 2023, as their traffic speeds are projected to improve temporarily during the December school holidays. For the other 5 time periods across 3 locations where low speeds would likely persist throughout the December school holidays, ERP rates will be increased by $1.00 with effect from 19 November 2022.

4.      Meanwhile, 7 other time periods across 4 locations will see an ERP rate reduction during the December school holiday period, from 19 November 2022 and will revert to the pre-school holiday charges from Tuesday, 3 January 2023 onwards.

5.      A summary of the ERP rate changes are below:

ERP rate increase at 5 time periods with effect from 19 November 2022

Time PeriodCurrent ERP Rates*ERP Rates** w.e.f.
19 November 2022
Southbound CTE Auxiliary Lane to PIE (Changi)/ Serangoon Road
8:00 – 8:30$2.00$3.00
8:30 – 9:00$3.00$4.00
PIE (Kallang Bahru & Slip road into Bendemeer) – Set of 2 Gantries
8:30 – 9:00$1.00$2.00
9:00 – 9:30$0.00$1.00
KPE (ECP) after Defu Flyover
8:30 – 9:00$3.00$4.00

*ERP rate per Passenger Car Unit (PCU)
**Rates for other time slots at previously announced gantries remain unchanged

ERP rate increase at 4 time periods deferred to after December school holidays, i.e. effective from Tuesday, 3 January 2023

Time PeriodCurrent ERP Rates*ERP Rates** w.e.f. 
3 January 2023
AYE before Alexandra towards City
8:00 – 8:30$0.00$1.00
8:30 – 9:00$1.00$2.00
AYE after Jurong Town Hall towards City (Set of 3 Gantries)
7:30 – 8:00$0.00$1.00
PIE (Adam and Mount Pleasant) (Set of 2 Gantries)
7:30 – 8:00$0.00$1.00

*ERP rate per Passenger Car Unit (PCU)
**Rates for other time slots at previously announced gantries remain unchanged

ERP rate reduction at 7 time periods for December School Holidays, i.e. effective from 19 November 2022 to 2 January 2023

Time PeriodCurrent ERP Rates*ERP Rates** w.e.f.
19 November 2022 to
2 January 2023
AYE before Alexandra towards City
9:00 – 9:30$1.00$0.00
Southbound CTE before Braddell Road
7:00 – 7:30$1.00$0.00
7:30 – 8:00$1.00$0.00
8:00 – 8:30$2.00$1.00
Southbound CTE after Braddell Road and PIE slip road
into Southbound CTE (Set of 4 Gantries)
7:30 – 8:00$1.00$0.00
8:00 – 8:30$3.00$2.00
KPE (ECP) after Defu Flyover
7:30 – 8:00$2.00$1.00

*ERP rate per Passenger Car Unit (PCU)
**Rates for other time slots at previously announced gantries remain unchanged

6.      LTA will continue to monitor traffic speeds and congestion levels closely and assess if ERP rates need to be further adjusted.

Source: LTA

1 Y.O TODDLER KILLED AFTER TREE FELL ON HIM, MOTHER’S HEAD WAS BURIED UNDER SAND

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A 1-year-old boy in Malaysia was killed after being hit by a falling tree at the Pantai Puteri beach, while his mother was seriously injured, according to Sinar Daily.

The Melaka Tengah district police chief ACP Christopher Patit identified the deceased child as 1-year-old Mohd Zafran Ilman Mohd Sazwan.

He was being carried by his 34-year-old mother Nurulhuda Md Ali at the time of the incident (12 November).

Patit said in a statement:

“Police received information about the incident around 6.43pm. While the mother was carrying her baby and walking towards the beach, the tree suddenly fell and hit both of them.”

The family from Kajang, Selangor, were having their holiday at the beach and staying in one of the resorts there.

An eyewitness reported seeing the mother’s head buried under the sand after the tragic accident, while the baby was buried under the leaves and tree branches.

“The victim was dug out of the sand with the help of people. The woman suffered many injuries on her body, while the baby was unconscious and believed to have suffered head injuries.”

“The Civil Defence Force (APM) provided the victims with initial treatment before referring them to the Melaka Hospital for more treatment.”

Pantai Kundor assembly man Tuminaj Kadi added that he had received news from the Melaka hospital that the child passed away on 13 November at about 1.30am, according to The Star.

JOE BIDEN & XI JINPING MEET FOR THE FIRST TIME – “COMPETITION SHOULDN’T VEER INTO CONFLICT”

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US president Joe Biden met up with China president Xi Jinping in person for the first time during a historic meeting in Bali on 14 November.

They had discussions over a slew of issues, and both sides agreed to maintain regular contact, and noted that their differences shouldn’t veer into conflict.

White House statement

President Joseph R. Biden, Jr. met on November 14 with President Xi Jinping of the People’s Republic of China (PRC), in Bali, Indonesia. The two leaders spoke candidly about their respective priorities and intentions across a range of issues. 

President Biden explained that the United States will continue to compete vigorously with the PRC, including by investing in sources of strength at home and aligning efforts with allies and partners around the world. He reiterated that this competition should not veer into conflict and underscored that the United States and China must manage the competition responsibly and maintain open lines of communication. 

The two leaders discussed the importance of developing principles that would advance these goals and tasked their teams to discuss them further. 

President Biden underscored that the United States and China must work together to address transnational challenges – such as climate change, global macroeconomic stability including debt relief, health security, and global food security – because that is what the international community expects. 

The two leaders agreed to empower key senior officials to maintain communication and deepen constructive efforts on these and other issues. They welcomed ongoing efforts to address specific issues in U.S.-China bilateral relations, and encouraged further progress in these existing mechanisms, including through joint working groups. 

They also noted the importance of ties between the people of the United States and the PRC.

President Biden raised concerns about PRC practices in Xinjiang, Tibet, and Hong Kong, and human rights more broadly. On Taiwan, he laid out in detail that our one China policy has not changed, the United States opposes any unilateral changes to the status quo by either side, and the world has an interest in the maintenance of peace and stability in the Taiwan Strait. 

He raised U.S. objections to the PRC’s coercive and increasingly aggressive actions toward Taiwan, which undermine peace and stability across the Taiwan Strait and in the broader region, and jeopardize global prosperity. 

President Biden also raised ongoing concerns about China’s non-market economic practices, which harm American workers and families, and workers and families around the world. He again underscored that it is a priority for us to resolve the cases of American citizens who are wrongfully detained or subject to exit bans in China

The two leaders exchanged views on key regional and global challenges. President Biden raised Russia’s brutal war against Ukraine and Russia’s irresponsible threats of nuclear use. President Biden and President Xi reiterated their agreement that a nuclear war should never be fought and can never be won and underscored their opposition to the use or threat of use of nuclear weapons in Ukraine. 

President Biden also raised concerns about the DPRK’s provocative behavior, noted all members of the international community have an interest in encouraging the DPRK to act responsibly, and underscored the United States’ ironclad commitment to defending our Indo-Pacific Allies.

The two leaders agreed that Secretary of State Blinken will visit China to follow up on their discussions.

KIND GIRL FROM REPUBLIC POLY SENT ELDERLY COMMUTER HOME & BUYS HIM FOOD

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Republic Polytechnic shared a post on LinkedIn about one of their students, Phoebe Lim, who was awarded the Caring Commuter Award.

She had noticed an elderly commuter who was having issues with his wheelchair and accompanied him home, even buying food for the elderly man.

She even visited him two days later to make sure that the elderly man was alright.

Republic Poly’s statement

How far would you go to help those in need? 

When School of Sports, Health and Leisure student Phoebe Lim noticed an elderly commuter with mobility issues, she did not hesitate to help find him a wheelchair.

She then accompanied him to a place where he could sit and rest.

Phoebe even went the extra mile and bought food for the elderly before sending him home as she was worried to leave him alone.

The Diploma in Sport & Exercise student also visited the elderly two days later to ensure that he was alright.

For her initiative and act of kindness towards a fellow commuter in need, Phoebe was recognised as one of the eight winners of the Caring Commuter Award, now into its fourth edition.

Congratulations and well done, Phoebe! You’re truly a role model to all of us. 

FAMILY’S FALSE CEILING COLLAPSES AT HOME, WHILE CHILDREN WERE SLEEPING

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TikTok user @jynn.lifez shared how her family was suddenly woken up by the ceiling collapsing in their living room.

The woman, 37-year-old Gong, said that their family had just moved into their rented home for only 2 months when their ceiling collapsed.

The entire ceiling was seen in the video collapsed near their window, with parts of the false ceiling still dangling above the ground.

Gong said that thankfully it happened at 6am and not 6pm, and that she and her husband were suddenly woken up by the loud sounds of the falling ceiling.

The ceiling had hit all of her children’s toys and it all dropped on the floor, but nothing else was damaged and even her plants were fine, save for a small scratch on her kids’ toy rack.

The family had been renting the unit while waiting for their new home to be ready, and the landlord has since engaged contractors to repair the false ceiling.

@jynn.lifez False ceiling collapse at 6am in the morning.. thk god is 6am not 6pm no one is hurt! Cos is the kids play area but i tink my plant #真的bbq了 #homeaccident #falseceilingdrop #scary #fypsg #fyp #sgtiktok ♬ 芭比q了 – 邓家忠

50 Y.O CHINA UNCLE FINISHES 42KM MARATHON IN 3H 28MINS WHILE SMOKING, “LEGEND”

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A 42-year-old man managed to finish a 42km marathon in 3 hours and 28 mins while he was smoking.

The event took place last Sunday, at the 2022 Jiande Xin’anjiang Marathon. An uncle was “fired”, running in the crowd with a cigarette in his mouth! And finally finished the race in 3 hours, 28 minutes and 45 seconds.

Apparently this is not his first time doing this, a Weibo user stated:

The smoker is back in the arena again. In the Jiande Marathon last week, others were tired of eating energy gels. He was tired and came to Genhuazi. He finished the race in the last 3 hours and 28 minutes.

According to the media, It is understood that Uncle Chen is more than 50 years old this year. He likes to have a cigarette in his mouth during competitions, and when he feels tired, he will take a puff to “relieve fatigue”. 

He has appeared in many major marathons. On the track of the 2017 Hangzhou Marathon, “Smoking Brother” Uncle Chen became known to people for the first time. Afterwards, he took part in the Xiamen Marathon and Lishui Ultra Marathon several times, and even during the Lhasa Half Marathon, he smoked cigarettes on the plateau. 

Of course, there is a certain controversy about Uncle Chen’s practice of “not enough energy, cigarettes come together”. Some runners said: “This kind of uncivilized behavior is recommended to be banned. Second-hand smoke also has a great impact on other runners.”, “Whoever is next to him is unlucky.”

Some netizens also suggested: “The marathon should have regulations prohibiting smoking. ”. In this regard, the editor also looked through the rules of several marathons, but none of them clearly stated that smoking is not allowed.