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MAN WANTS TO MOVE OUT FROM FAMILY CAUSE HE LIKES OTHER MAN, WORRIES INHERITANCE

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MAN WANTS TO MOVE OUT FROM FAMILY CAUSE HE LIKES OTHER MAN, WORRIES INHERITANCE

Hey everyone, currently in a predicament and would definitely like your input.

I (30M) and my brother (26M) currently live with my parents (both 70) somewhere & overall it’s been okay, but I definitely feel like I need to move on with my life and be independent.

The situation is this: I don’t practice the same religion as my parents anymore (parents are mega C) & I also have a BF (32M) who is in the same situation. After years of thought, he and I are in agreement to move in together and to begin our lives. (Parents do not know of him due to their blatant homophobia) & I have to practice my religion in secret.

With that said and done, the problem is that my parents put my name on the deed of the house as I will inherit it in the future.

I decided to tell my parents that I have plans to move out and immediately my dad spazzed out. He began to tell me that I am very ungrateful, that he worked hard for me to have a house, that rent is mega expensive & even said if I had a girlfriend who is “poisoning” my mind. He also told me that I am “forbidden” to move out and to take care of the house once he is gone. He also told me that if I move out, I will be disgracing them and that I need to support them until they leave this earth.

I also asked about in regards to my brother and they admitted to me that they will built a duplex in our house for him to move in and that he and I are to remain here. I talked to some family members and they are divided. Some are in agreement for me to move out and others are saying that for not being grateful and that I am a spoiled brat.

With that said and done, people of the internet should I move out?

WOMAN SAYS SHE RAISE HER STANDARDS AFTER EVERY RELATIONSHIP UNTIL TOO MUCH

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WOMAN SAYS SHE RAISE HER STANDARDS AFTER EVERY RELATIONSHIP UNTIL TOO MUCH

With every relationship I’ve been in, I’ve raised my standards a bit. Now I’m worried I’ve raised them too much…

On one hand, I’m really proud of myself as I look back and see how much I’ve grown to respect myself. But looking forward, I’m not sure if I’ll ever find someone who meets my standards for a partner. And that kind of worries me.

My first boyfriend, in secondary school and JC, was violent. Yelling, putting holes in walls, fly off the handle at any little thing temper. And he did hit me once. Only once, and I left.

Second boyfriend also had a temper, though was less trigger-happy with it. He did yell and throw things occasionally, but he never hit me, so I put up with it. We eventually broke up because he told me,  that I would have to convert to his religiuon if I wanted to get married. Next.

Third boyfriend had no temper at all, but he was an alcoholic. And a far-right, conspiracy theorist. Learned a whole lot about that group of people (gross). He was also a huge slob, never picked up after himself, and would come home from work, drink until he passed out, and repeat the next day. He lied to me a lot too, when he was supposed to be going sober. Noped out of that.

Fourth and last boyfriend was pretty good I thought. Kind, funny, our political beliefs aligned well and he was supper supportive of my spiritual beliefs. He was, however, late all the time. 15 minutes late for our first date, 2 hours late for our 2-year anniversary date, and almost every date and get-together in-between. And was completely and utterly unapologetic about it.

I tried setting up dates so I would pick him up, and every time I arrived at his home he was in the middle of a shower. Eventually, it felt like he was doing this on purpose, and I broke up with him shortly after our 2 year anniversary (he was also mad I didn’t want to have S that night. Like, seriously, maybe if you had been here 2 hours earlier on time, I would have been in the mood then…)

Sometimes I regret breaking up with my 4th boyfriend. Like in the grand scheme of things, was being late really a big deal? I’ve been single for the last year, and honestly, it’s been pretty peaceful. Lonely, but peaceful. I feel safe, all the time, and I don’t have a partner hounding me for S 24/7. (That was an issue with all 4 men I dated, they all had much higher S drives than I do. But I think that’s a me problem. Hopefully when I get my tubes tied next year, and get off hormonal birth control for good, I’ll finally have a half decent libido).

I do eventually want to get back out there and date again, but I’m worried that I won’t be able to find a man who doesn’t have any of the negative traits my exes had. Not to mention, I’m not a very attractive woman, and I have herpes, and I don’t actually know if I’ll develop a libido, so it’s not like I’m a huge catch myself.

But it is what it is I guess, I think being alone will be better than being miserable/uncomfortable forever. Glad I have a really supportive family, some amazing girlfriends/found family, dogs, and smutty books. Not to mention, this community is great.

MERC DRIVER NOT HAPPY HIS CAR BOOT GOT SCRATCHED BY CARPARK CEILING, WANTS MBS TO COMPENSATE

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MERC DRIVER NOT HAPPY HIS CAR BOOT GOT SCRATCHED BY CARPARK CEILING, WANTS MBS TO COMPENSATE

A 48-year-old Mercedes owner, Mr Guan, parked his Mercedes GLB 180 at a parking lot in the Marina Bay Sands carpark on 12 November.

He then went to open his car boot and the door then accidentally scraped the ceiling about 2 metres above the vehicle.

Speaking to Shin Min Daily News, Guan said that he had asked MBS for reimbursement via email following the incident.

MBS then replied that they had no legal duty to compensate him for the scratches, saying that they had a height restriction bar displayed at the carpark entrance, with the maximum height being 2 metres.

They added that they had put up a notice about the maximum height limit and that they had complied with the construction management requirements.

However, Guan insisted that the mall should be liable for the damage to his car, saying that it’s “unfair” and that other car owners might also find themselves in a similar situation in the future.

19 Y.O WHO ALLEGEDLY KILLED FATHER, RELEASED FROM IMH REMAND & CAN MEET LAWYERS

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19 Y.O WHO ALLEGEDLY KILLED FATHER, RELEASED FROM IMH REMAND & CAN MEET LAWYERS

19-year-old Sylesnar Seah Jie Kai, was accused of murdering his 47-year-old father Eddie Seah Wee Teck at Yishun Avenue 4, and was in remand at the Institute of Mental Health for psychiatric assessment.

He has since been released from remand at IMH after completing his psychiatric assessment and is now entitled to visits.

His lawyer, Joyce Khoo of Quahe Woo and Palmer LLC, requested to speak to him to take instructions fro him.

The prosecution also asked for the case to be adjourned further, citing other outstanding reports pending, and he is expected to return to court on 31 January 2023.

Recap

47-year-old Eddie Seah Wee Teck was previously reported to have been allegedly killed by his 19-year-old son Sylesnar Seah Jie Kai on 10 October at Block 653 Yishun Avenue 4.

The 19-year-old was arrested by the police, and was charged in court on 12 October with his murder, and has been remanded ever since.

According to Shin Min Daily News, the victim had an argument with his son and walked out of the house, and the accused then allegedly grabbed a knife from the kitchen and chased after his father.

He then allegedly used the knife to slash his father in the neck from behind, before slashing home again across the back.

The victim then escaped through the staircase and called for help from his neighbours, according to Lianhe Zaobao.

The victim eventually collapsed in front of a neighbour’s unit one floor below, and the Straits Times reported that the neighbour heard frantic knocking at her door before calling the police when she saw the victim sprawled on the ground with a metallic object.

The victim reportedly had a bloodstained knife near his body when the police found him, which measured about 10cm long; and he had stopped breathing by the time the paramedics arrived at the scene.

He was found motionless and declared dead at the scene by paramedics.

CAR CAUGHT FIRE AT JOHOR CHECKPOINT, CAUSED SEVERE JAM ALONG TUAS 2ND LINK

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CAR CAUGHT FIRE AT JOHOR CHECKPOINT, CAUSED SEVERE JAM ALONG TUAS 2ND LINK

A car caught on fire near the Malaysia Checkpoint on 26 November, resulting in a severe traffic jam along the Tuas Second Link bridge.

The fire took place near the Malaysian checkpoint just after the Tuas Second Link, with thick grey smoke billowing out of the burning vehicle.

The other motorists were seen standing by and watching the car go up in flames.

The Malaysian firefighters soon arrived at the scene and put out the fire, as a netizen took a video of the charred remains after the fire.

Traffic came to a standstill along the road leading to the Johor customs, with all the lanes being blocked and the jam stretching for about 2km.

MAN REGRETS WINNING S$4.2M LOTTERY JACKPOT, PEOPLE KEEP ASKING HIM FOR MONEY

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MAN REGRETS WINNING S$4.2M LOTTERY JACKPOT, PEOPLE KEEP ASKING HIM FOR MONEY

A man from the Indian state of Kerala, Anoop, won the lottery jackpot of 250 million rupees (SGD$4.21 million) in September, which was the highest amount ever offered in Kerala for the lottery, according to the BBC.

One week later, Anoop posted a video on Facebook begging people to stop asking him for money and to leave him and his family alone.

He said that things had gotten so bad that he couldn’t even bring his son to see a doctor when he got sick without being followed by strangers asking him for money.

Once the news had broken about his astonishing windfall, Anoop said that people would show up at his house every morning.

The India Times also reported that his phone was also flooded with calls from his family and friends.

He said “all I can say is that I haven’t gotten any money yet. No one seems to understand my problem no matter how many times I say it. I have lost all peace of mind and I can’t even stay in my own home as I am facing people calling to ask me to sort out their needs because I won the first prize.”

Anoop and his family are since living at a relative’s home in order to avoid the public, and he expressed his regret at winning the lottery.

He said that he was initially struggling financially and was working as an autorickshaw driver and that he had to break open his son’s piggy bank to buy a plane ticket to Malaysia to get a job as a chef.

YISHUN FLASHER WHO HAS BEEN FLASHING PEOPLE AT NEW BTO FLATS, ARRESTED BY POLICE

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YISHUN FLASHER WHO HAS BEEN FLASHING PEOPLE AT NEW BTO FLATS, ARRESTED BY POLICE

A flasher who has been flashing people at the new BTO flats in Yishun, has been arrested by the police, according to Nee Soon GRC MP Derrick Goh.

The man, dubbed the “Yishun Flasher”, is apparently not a resident of Nee Soon, but operated at the area.

Derrick Goh’s statement

[Flasher @New Yishun BTOs arrested]

I want to update Nee Soon Link residents the good news that the flasher who operated in our area has been arrested!

During my house visits at different precincts at our new BTO area, residents had shared with me incidents about a flasher and I assured them that this had the attention of SPF.

I had been kept informed on the investigation progress and know that our SPF team had work very hard on this. I also understand the person arrested is not a resident of Nee Soon.

Importantly, I hope this news brings relief to our residents and their families. I want to thank SPF for keeping Nee Soon Link safe and secure!

FIRE @ SENGKANG CONDO, 3 PEOPLE FOUND UNCONSCIOUS AND 2 OF THEM LATER DIED

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FIRE @ SENGKANG CONDO, 3 PEOPLE FOUND UNCONSCIOUS AND 2 OF THEM LATER DIED

Update: Two of the three people who were found unconscious, a 78-year-old man and woman, both subsequently died from their injuries; while the third, a 73-year-old man, remains in the hospital.

[Fire @ 9 Rivervale Crescent]

At about 1:00 a.m. today, SCDF was alerted to a fire at the above-mentioned location.

Upon arrival, the fire was raging inside a unit on the 14th floor. SCDF firefighters conducted forcible entry and penetrated into the smoke-logged unit to fight the fire.

The fire involved contents of a bedroom and was extinguished by SCDF with a water jet. During the firefighting operation, SCDF found three unconscious persons in the unit. They were carried out of the unit and brought to the ground floor.

SCDF’s emergency medical services personnel commenced CardioPulmonary Resuscitation (CPR) on two of the persons and conveyed them to Sengkang General Hospital. The third person was conveyed to Singapore General Hospital.

About 150 persons from neighbouring units were evacuated by the Police as a precautionary measure.

The cause of fire is under investigation.

M’SIAN MAN CHARGED FOR HARASSING PM LEE, THREATENED TO BURN DOWN SEAGATE S’PORE

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M’SIAN MAN CHARGED FOR HARASSING PM LEE, THREATENED TO BURN DOWN SEAGATE S’PORE

A 44-year-old man from Malaysia, Chai Fui Chet, was charged with intentionally causing harassment to Singapore Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong, according to The Straits Times.

He had allegedly threatened PM Lee by sending him a Facebook message on 7 November at about 1.51pm, at the Istana.

In his message, he had allegedly threatened to burn down Seagate Singapore.

Straits Times reported that Chai is currently in remand at the Institute of Mental Health (IMH) for medical examinations.

He is expected to return to court on 9 December, and if found guilty, faces a jail term of up to 6 months and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

GIRL OFFERS TO TAKE CARE OF SISTER’S BABY “OCCASIONALY”, END UP BECOME 2-3 DAYS EVERY WEEK

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GIRL OFFERS TO TAKE CARE OF SISTER’S BABY “OCCASIONALY”, END UP BECOME 2-3 DAYS EVERY WEEK

I’m tired of being my sister’s nanny.

I’ve been watching my sister’s child for the last two years, my husband makes enough money that I don’t have to work and I can focus on our home and our family.

When my sister was pregnant I said I’d be open to watching the baby on occasion. Somehow “on occasion” went from date nights here and there, to 10 hour days two to three times a week. I admit that after two years I’ve let this get completely out of control and I should have said something sooner. But there is really no nice way to tell someone that I don’t want to watch their child for any reason other than I just don’t want to. I have so much anxiety over having to get up at 6:00 am to show up at their house to babysit that I literally can’t sleep so then I end up not sleeping at all and then watching the baby for 10 hours.

My sister is now talking about having a second baby and gushing every chance she gets about how appreciative she is for my help because of all the money I’m saving them and I just about had a panic attack when I realized not only does she expect this to continue for a significant amount of time, but she’s fully expecting me to watch a toddler and newborn and meanwhile I’ve been contemplating how I can get out of this situation without drama.

My husband works his ass off so that I can be home with our family, not so I can be a nanny for my sister. And to make matters worse, my sister just bought an extravagant new house which she probably did in part because she didn’t think she’d have to worry about childcare.

But I just don’t want to do it anymore. At all.

I love my niece. But I absolutely do not want to be her or anyone else’s nanny.

I would rather be spending time with my own child, or my pets, or shopping or improving my home or doing literally anything else.

My sister and her husband have a very different parenting style than I do, they’re very fussy. And they don’t even leave a carseat so I’m literally stranded there all day. If something happens with my own child I literally can’t leave at all. I feel trapped in this situation and I just want it to be over.

***I sent her a text, waiting on a reply, I was going to include a screenshot but it won’t let me for some reason.

“I just wanted to give you a heads up that after December I won’t be watching _ anymore in a childcare role. This way you guys have time to get other arrangements worked out. Nothing is wrong, I’m just shifting my focus to my household. I know you guys have appreciated my help. Thanks so much for being understanding and supporting me now.”

UPDATE

S- I’m quite taken aback by this, may I ask why?

OP- I just need to take a step back for my mental health.

S- This is just very out of the blue u didn’t say anything on the phone yesterday

OP- I wanted to say this yesterday but I didn’t because this subject has been a source of anxiety for me.

S -How so

OP – It is just difficult for me to simultaneously manage my household and yours. I can watch her until the end of dec but after that I can’t.

OP- I love you and her but I really can’t take care of two households I’m only one person, and I definitely can’t take care of another baby on top of that. It’s too much for me. Please understanding and don’t take it personally. I really don’t want to fight about this. This is just how it needs to be.

S- So u’ll watch her until the end of December and then I just have to drop her off with complete strangers. Got it.

She left me on read for 20 minutes before she sent that last text.

UPDATE

I told our Dad what happened and he apparently called her up and reamed her out on my behalf and she’s been quiet ever since.

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