A girl shared how she is not trying to kaypoh her sister’s relationship, but then proceeds to kaypoh her sister’s relationship.

Here is the story

I’m not trying to keypoh my sister’s relationship or personal life but she is already 28 and still single, and as an elder sis, what happened recently really put me in a dilemma state.

A friend of my sis bought an apartment, but he and his wife have recently been posted overseas for work purpose, so they rented out the place and let my sis take one room for free because they wanted her to help them to look after the house. They also managed to rent out a room to a Malaysian male, Jon (not his actual name). That doesn’t bother my sis at all because the place is only a few mrt stops away from her workplace.

My parents and I would occasionally send my sis back to her apartment, and this is also the first time she moved out from home, so we did help with some housekeeping and new furniture, and we get to see Jon quite a few times. He is quite buff, well-built, good-looking IMO, highly educated with a phd in some pharmaceutical/biochemical field, and communicates with my parents really well. There was once my parents and I went over, he just cycled back home but we were about to order food delivery, he even offered to walk out to help us buy. During the entire dinner, there was no awkwardness at all, as he blends really well with my family, and he didn’t hesitate to answer some sensitive questions that my parents asked, like how often he returns to Malaysia, what are his parents job, does he have a girlfriend, and so on.

My parents seem to like him a lot and they’ve always been hinting my sis to go for him, like it’s hard to find such guys with all these combination, but my sis will only find excuse like he’s not her type, she’s too busy with work, she has no time for a boyfriend, she’s not ready to settle down, all kind of excuses. Honestly if I’m not attached, I would definitely go for Jon.

Strangely, one weekend after doing my grocery, I dropped by at her place to pass her some food. When I arrived, she was in the shower, but her room was opened, so I sat inside to wait for her. What really shocked me was the scent of Jon’s perfume lingering in her room. I can recognise the smell of the perfume or cologne that he uses, and I don’t expect such masculine fragrance to appear in my sis’ room. Not only that, that smell further guided me to check whether there’s any short hair in the room. As I expected, I found some short hair on her bed, and that clearly doesn’t belong to my sis. To clear my doubt, I proceeded to knock on Jon’s door and find a good reason to talk to him so that I can confirm the smell. As he was doing some search on his laptop, I could smell the exact same fragrance in my sis’ room.

Now I knew that Jon has actually been into my sis’ room, though I’m not sure what exactly they have done together. Frankly speaking my sis is out of his league, her look is pretty much average, and the only thing attractive about her is her petite body with nice boobs and perky butt, and that might be something that Jon is interested in. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out whether they’ve been sleeping with each other every night, but there is still a small possibility that they may just be normal housemates.

Maybe my sis and Jon are in a fwb relationship, and I don’t have the right to stop what she’s doing. I’m not sure whether they’re already together but refused to announce their relationship. I’m also unsure if they’re just fwb. What I’m really concerned is that my sis might have fallen for him, but he is just using her for relief.

Should I talk to her about it? I know I shouldn’t tell my parents about it, but what should I do?