I was recently involved in a minor accident with a truck driven by a foreign worker. At the point in time, there was no sign of injury or distress.

In fact the truck was hardly damaged compared to my car. Truck owner and myself agreed not to make a police report on the next day since there was no injury sustained. However, i received a claim most recently from the foreign worker’s represented legal firm, claiming $9000 of medical distress on top of other claims. This is outright cheating to me.

May I know does MOM condone such an act?

Here are what netizens think:

• Pls lah, not only foreign workers. Some Singaporeans pull the same stunt. When my car was hit from behind, I reported about my car damage. I did not sustain any injury. My Singaporean colleague told me to go fake it at the GP and claim. She said she and her husband does whenever they involve in accidents.

• All this claims are initiated by the employer, workshop or insurance company. The very least is to take as much pictures of both vehicles b4 leaving the scene. Vehicle insurance claim is a very lucrative. Be extra careful if the incident Involves taxis.

• It’s important to always make a police report on the spot when there’s an accident. Difficult to claim or refute if there isn’t any police report made.

• I encountered almost similar case but just only kissed the Taxi driver bumper where not even a dent or scratches! That taxi uncle walked out fr car didn’t even see his car and immediately demanding & insisting said insurance settle. Then we took photo and immediately made Idac report on the next day, thought even he can claim only few hundred dollars since taxi uncle insisted to b settled by insurance. Abt 3 months later I thought nothing happen bcos no insurance company call me, but after another month later, I received a claim letter fr their claim insurance company, (guess also did send the same documents to my car insurance company, bcos they called me to verify did I hit tis taxi onot!) stated the medical bills of that taxi uncle was abt $7000, where they really provided all the medical bills, medical report, private clinic with doctor signatures dated on that night! Where I higher suspected it was a scam, but I still can’t do anything where my car insurance Premium was raised on the following year.

Everyone knows that all the good men are in a relationship. The available men are available because there’s something wrong with them. That leaves you, a single woman with a desire to start a family, with only one option: stealing someone else’s boyfriend

So there is nothing wrong with being a homewrecker as the world is selfish and I am selfish and I want my man.

Here is a story of my aunt

basically, a few years ago my aunt goes to holiday with a bunch of her friends. No one thinks much of it, until she starts introducing us to her boyfriend who I’ll call D.

We’re all happy for them and within a year they’re engaged and married. Pretty wild, but admittedly normal for my aunt. This is her 3rd marriage.

So D is actually a foreigner and has a 5-year-old daughter back home. He only really sees her a few times a year, and mostly his ex-girlfriend has custody.

I thought there was nothing wrong with this whole story until my mom told me that the big wedding my aunt had with us was all fake!

My aunt and D got married before we even met him. Turns out D was about to get married to his girlfriend in back home and got drunk, did something wrong and ended up marring my aunt. And he decided to leave his daughter and ex fiancé for my aunt.

My aunt is still happy till today, so whats wrong with being a home wrecker?

One of my friends from uni dated a girl for a few years.

He was rich and he suspected the girlfriend was a gold digger.

People believed that she had actually dumped her previous boyfriend when she found this current one – because the current boyfriend was richer.

So he tried a few things (not all of them were designed to test her but some were):

(1) He stopped taking her to expensive restaurants and took her to Macdonalds or just regular hawkers and coffeeshops instead.

Not the most upscale place. The guy personally did not mind eating at regular places. He wasn’t a typical show-off. He liked doing a lot of regular stuff. She had a major problem with this.

(2) He took her to a cheap show at a community center.

(3) He took her on a backpacking trip to Europe. Earlier he always made her stay at the best and most expensive hotels. This time, they stayed at inexpensive hostels. This wasn’t really a test. The guy actually liked backpacking trips where he could stay at hostels and meet a lot of “real” people.

(4) She always demanded that he buy business class tickets for them. He started buying economy. He personally didn’t mind flying economy so much. But the girl got very agitated with the idea of having to fly economy and not having lounge access.

(5) He used to give her very expensive presents earlier. He’d already bought her a car and the latest cell phone (this was in the era before smartphones). He gradually shifted to gifts that were more “personalized” and less expensive – collages of their photos together, poetry that he’d written for her etc. She didnt care for those things.

(6) She used him to further her career. She’d ask him to make a referral to all the companies where he had great contacts. She’d get in to these companies without much of an interview (the boy’s dad who was very well-connected usually pulled strings to make this happen….he was a super generous guy). The girl always left the jobs within a few months. She just wouldn’t last anywhere. The guy stopped making those referrals. The girl threw a huge fit.

(7) The last thing he did was the truest test. He told her he doesn’t want his father’s wealth and he wants to build his own career without his dad’s assistance. He won’t accept anything from his father. The guy was actually pretty good at his studies and in my opinion, was capable of building a career of his own. But quite obviously, she didn’t want to take that chance. She didn’t have the patience to wait around till he built his career from scratch. She left him a few days after he told her this.

The guy is now very happy and is married to a very sensible and self-made young lady.

Can i post here too?? Please advice…

my pregnant friend’s husband goes to Thailand and he was caught finding a woman there.

The attitude of the husband suddenly changed.  He now hates his Singapore wife who is currently pregnant.

After seeking advice from a friend, The woman believed that her husband has been cursed or charmed by Thailand black magic AKA GONG TAO and cursed her whole family. Ever since then, the husband has been going to Thailand very often and every time this guy comes back from he will scold the sg wife for no good reason..

And investigating the thai woman. We found out from her FB that the Thai woman is a bomoh. She provides black magic services in Thailand. My husband does not believe his family, wife or friends and insists that the real devils are his own family

Becoming a single mother in Singapore is not an easy job… i really pity her.. please advise…

The thai woman keep push them to divorce so she can come Singapore and stay with him.

Is there any master out there who can give me some direction on what to do?

Here are what netizens think:

• Go find a Thai monk, they will advise and they don’t charge one. If they charge they are a fraud.

• Maybe the so-called “magic” is all in your friend’s head to justify why her husband had left her.

• This one u cannot go Gong Tao Helpdesk, you need find a monk. Or you can try checking into Woodbridge hospital.

So about 3 years ago I (M25) met and was rejected by my dream girl (F23). She was quite literally everything I ever wanted in a partner – and I don’t mean “she was hot”.

I meant she was smart, caring, kind, ambitious, good with kids, etc. And as a bonus rich and attractive as well. I was all of the first, but not rich nor attractive, but rather middle class and average looks.

Anyways she rejected me and as per the grapevine it was because my earning potential was said to be less than her and I wasn’t as wealthy as she was so therefore she wasn’t into me.

Now that hurt, obviously. I was always planning to succeed in life but this made me go the extra. For contest she and I met at undergrad, at a top university, which of course disproportionately had rich kids.

Anyways, with hard work, a lot of luck, and help from my middle-class parents, I managed to scrape enough to make a down payment on a condo.

But instead of living there, I’ll stay with my parents longer and make this my investment property. Anyways, I placed it for rent and by luck guess who ended up renting it from me?

It was the woman who rejected me and her identical twin sister. My twin sister did all the initial work so the girl who rejected me really was in for a surprise when she found out 🙂

Ever since I became their landlord, I can see the regret on GirlWhoRejectedMe’s face as both she and her twin have been trying to show interest in me. But I ignore them. I’ve realized that I can do better than someone who thinks they are better cause they are born rich. Cause fundamentally I have ultimately won; I am the landlord of someone who rejected me for being lower class.

Now she is paying me a portion of her earnings as I am literally on a class ladder above her. What could be better?!?!

Hi, you guys. First of all, thank you for posting my story.

My story may be short. I just need some advice.

I got married in the last 2 years, on the brink of COVID attacking our country.

My husband and I were in love for 5 years before getting married. Since my university days.

My husband is 4-5 years older than me. We are not like other couples in love,

Because I am too academic-oriented, my schedule is really busy with study groups, night revisions, tests, extra assignments and so on.

When I have free time in my schedule, I or he will ask me out. Even if there is money. You know, still a student.

And after a few years, he started working, and I started to track to the final year of studies. The busier you are, the more you don’t have time to meet your love ones.

But, he understood. I am grateful. Even though we are far away, I also send flowers, gifts and so on.

I save a little money to buy him gifts & to always remind him that even though I’m busy, he’s still my priority.

After finishing my studies, I was immediately greeted by an MNC company. And I started my career as a process engineer. I’m definitely a workaholic (work overtime even on weekends), and I’m very career-oriented.

I don’t mind staying up late to learn more in my field, because I love what I do. With the lockdown, and each other’s busyness, it is rare to see each other. Every 3-4 months? Even if there is no lockdown.

In fact, my parents don’t really approve of the two of us dating too often, it’s not sweet. I agree.

So when going out together, it is usually accompanied by someone (friend/family member). Instead of watching movies, eating, etc.

I send flowers and gifts more and more often, to show that I appreciate what he did for me. And he did the same thing.

Long story short, I was spied on by my mother-in-law. And both sides agreed to unite me and my husband. And we got married. Happiest, there are no more barriers of space and time.

We both worked hard to start a life together. Little by little, it becomes a hill.

Because we both work, money has never been a problem for me or him. We both share a household budget for our lives.

A few months after we got married, we were surprised that my father-in-law was sick. My husband’s relationship with my father-in-law is a bit strained, because my husband was raised by his mother.

So I took this opportunity to reunite the strained relationship, I always invite my husband to take care of his father in the hospital.

At the same time, I was offered to work abroad. But I refused on the basis that I wanted to focus on my father-in-law first.

For me, it doesn’t matter, sustenance is never in the wrong address. If there is, the sustenance will come back.

Not long after, my father-in-law returned to god. My husband was overwhelmed with grief, even though he didn’t point it out in front of anyone, even me. But I know his heart. I tried to help but it was not easy.

A year later, I used his computer for personal matters (I bought things from Instagram).

After I make the payment, I want to send a copy of the transaction receipt to myself as proof of purchase. So I used my husband’s web Whatsapp, and searched for my name.

Later, my name was often mentioned in other conversations with his friends. So I opened that old conversation, dated a year before we got married.

Based on that, the context of his conversation with his friend sounded like my husband was attracted to a girl at his workplace at the time, and one of the reasons why my husband was attracted was due to the distance in space and time between him and me.

That’s all I feel. Tried to talk, and confront him, but denied my suspicions. Tried to ask his friend, also strongly denied.

Then I closed my suspicions, While I know, my suspicions are real.

After that, until now, when he rejected my invitation to make out, I often thought, and compared myself to that girl.

Did he think about the girl? Does he regret it?

I tried to discuss taking him to see a family counsellor, but was denied again. He said no need, nothing to doubt.

I’m stuck. Am I wrong?

I (22f) have been with my gf (25f) for just over 4 years now. Romantically we’ve been very close but physically it’s been somewhat frustrating.

She asked to open up the relationship last year and I reluctantly agreed -foolishly – because I wanted her to be happy. My only stipulation was that we have open and honest communication.