My girlfriend just told me that she’s cheated on her past 3 boyfriends.

Me and my girlfriend recently started dating and honestly I’ve found us to argue a lot, she thinks we’re doing great because she’s never been in any good relationships.

She always talks about marriage and children even though we’ve only been together for 2 months.

She told me that she has cheated on every boyfriend she’s had before me and it really bugs me, she says it won’t be like that with me because she wants everything with me but she probably thought the same thing before.

I’m honestly not sure what to do or think about the situation. I do love her but it affects the way I feel about her and our relationship.

Netizens’ comments

• run
  • Usain Bolt style
    • 100%
      • 101%
• What she means is, I only cheat when the relationship is “bad”, so if you’re to my liking you’ll be fine, if you’re not I’ll cheat and it’ll be your own fault because I warned you
• I bet she says that too all the boys.
  Don’t be victim number 4 OP. This leopard isn’t going to change her spots anytime soon.
  The problem when people say that they have had bad relationships before is that sometimes you can be never quite sure whether the common denominator in these “bad relationships” and why they were all bad was that she caused it to be this way.
  Toxic people tend to be toxic regardless of who they are with. And she sure as hell sounds toxic AF!

Long Story short. Tinder match, foreigner, want to talk to me on WhatsApp. But not the rush kind of thing.

We talk a little. I feel like there is a real person behind it. So I’ve said ok.

We talk to each other, politely. No meaningful word, just standard conversation. She said she is the daughter of a banker in Singapore. I said wow, unbelievable etc etc…

She sends pictures, I send them too. explain my situation, very kind to me.

Investment

Talk about crypto, investement in shaddy crypto “LASERO” “RODC”… Can’t find anything on internet. (website is lasero.top with https// of course…)

she show me some graph, and talk to me via audio messages to gain trust with me. Again very polite.

She is Millionnaire, beautiful, drive a Ferrari and a Rolls Royce.
We talk a lot about this investment. i said i don’t have enough money to invest 1k$
she said ok, i’ll give 500 usdt to complete.

I did receive the 500 usdt on my fake Lasero cryptowallet. the address is real, but i’ve never received the 500usdt on etherscan. i’ve checked too late.

So i’ve insert 500 usdt in a cryptowallet that doesn’t mine.

Oh, i almost forgot, she talk about the security at the blockchain was maintain by the chuangjia group. Can’t find anything above all i’ve said above. 

Don’t be fooled by online friends, guys! Do your research first before investing and not believe anything at face-value!

I (f15) have one of those typical sports dads who pushes their kids to excel in sports. My dad was a basketball player but ended up tearing his ACL for a 2nd time and ended up deciding to give up playing basketball.

He of course wanted a son and hopefully have a shot of getting his son follow his footsteps. Well my dad had 3 girls instead of trying for a 4th child he decided to make his youngest aka me into his mini me.

From a very young age he took my basketball playing very seriously. He had me in club teams and would train with me for hours before and after school.

I never liked doing all that extra training with my dad I hated having him yell at me, I love basketball but only with my team or just shooting by myself not with my dad.

Well my school basketball season is coming up and I made the starting team, my dad was very pleased about that. My dad this morning was practicing with me and we were working on different basketball moves.

I thought I was doing good so I was smiling then all of a sudden my dad was like why are you smiling and started criticizing me and said “you need to be more serious this is why I wanted a boy instead of 3 girls”.

My dad has said some really hurtful things but he has never told me he wanted a boy instead of my sisters and I.

That really stung because I’ve always tried my hardest when it came to playing basketball and of course I’m never going to be able to live up to my dad’s standards he had for a boy because girls/ women sports are treated a lot differently then mens.

A netizen shared his experience about how he was asked to perform at a “gig” during his uni days.

He was asked to play the violin on stage as a backup to a singer and was offered $200 for a 10 mins performance.

However, when he reached the place, it wasn’t as he expected.

Here is the story:

“Previously, The dirty news about the KTV cluster showed many people about the KTV nightlife in SG. Men paying for female hostesses, to drink, to sing, to entertain…

But do you know there are certain KTVs who do the same, but with gender roles flip around?

Yes. Men entertain ladies, ladies throw money on male hostesses, to drink, to entertain.

I also don’t know until I took up a violin accompaniment gig during my uni days.

Back then, I was teaching and performing violin to earn my own pocket money while in uni.

Then someone told me her friend is looking for a violinist to play accompaniment for a singer for a party, who will be singing a Jacky Cheung Canto song. $200 for about 10min.

Of cos, I say yes. $200 for just 10min. I didn’t ask to perform where or who and as it’s good money, I just take. $200 is good enough for a few weeks of school canteen expenses.

As it’s a canto song, it doesn’t have a violin score. So I go write out violin parts myself, practice at home make sure I put up a good performance.

So I was given the date and timing of the performance. I remember is Friday night 12 am at Cuppage. And no need for rehearsal. I just need to wear nice, and bring my violin will do.

So on that day, I turn up with my violin and waited in the lobby of Cuppage. A lady comes and introduces herself, along with the singer. A Chinese National. Smart-looking, well-dressed young guy.

So I followed them up to their ‘party’. I’m ready to perform!

I then went up Cuppage and entered a club.

I thought, wa.. Must be some rich guy. Can hold party here.

When I enter, he told me the performance hadn’t started. So I sat down with them and chat. He ordered drinks for me also. And then things start to get interesting.

A middle-aged lady come over to our table and wave to the lady who brought me up. She pointed at me, “Wow, you got a new boy today ah?”

She reply, “no la. He is just here to play the violin for my boy (the PRC) tonight.

“I’m like… What boy what boy.. I’m getting confused. Anyway, got free drinks, just drink and wait for the party to start, so I perform, take $$ and go. Don’t care what boy.

But after a while more, another middle-aged lady come and sit beside me, and chat with me. Ask my name, hobby, whatever…I’m getting uncomfortable, so I just say I come here to play the violin. I’m just quiet and trying not to talk to anyone.

But one lady after another.. keeps coming to me and trying to open a conversation. I try to talk a bit, but I’m like… When can the party start? I want to play, take the money and go home. 12.45 am liao leh…

So 1am! Finally, I’m called up to perform. I’m damn happy. I took out the violin, set up all things, mentally prep myself to give the best performance. Just like playing in orchestra all that.

So I started playing the opening tune, and that young guy start singing. And he can really sing.

But after about 30s into the song, I keep hearing popping and whistling sound. And then the money ribbon keep hanging on him. $1000 ribbons, $5000 ribbon.

And throughtout the rest of the song. It’s just popping, whistling, and hang robes, aka hang flower. He can’t even sing properly, I can’t even hear my own violin.

The song ended, and the PRC guy is like a Christmas tree. Whole-body of ribbon/flower. I mentally counted, probably about $100k worth of ribbons.

I’m thinking…you have so many ribbon, give me just 1 or 2? I can pay off my uni fees already.

So the performance over, he thanked me for such a wonderful performance. (as if he manage to hear me play anything).

And he paid me $300. So it’s extra $100 for me. Not bad, he still give me bonus. But I prefer to have 1 of his ribbon.

I’m sharing this to let you know that the KTV nightlife is not just about old uncles paying young ladies, but there are also old aunties paying for young men.

So husbands and boyfriends… Watch out too!”

I genuinely do not want to be friends with people who have the balls to invite me to a $8000 destination wedding and have ended friendships over it

I will truly distance myself from the person following them asking me to pay for it, and then when I say no I can’t go that’s my whole bank account they freak out.

They only wanna be friends with other rich people and are self centered.

I just ended a friendship over someone expecting me to do this, and going to end another friendship over a similar situation soon.

NO ONE WANTS TO PAY FOR YOUR DESTINATION WEDDING YOU ARE RICH ENOUGH TO HAVE, especially if we haven’t freaking talked in 7 years (or even hung out more than 4 times)

Netizens’ comments

• Yeah if you haven’t talked to them in 7 years, it sounds like the friendship was already over.
• That is insane! ‘Come spend 8k to see us!’ no thank you. You really didn’t lose anything, these people certainly aren’t or weren’t real friends ffs.
• If they were really that rich then they could pay for all of their guests to fly over and get accommodation for their big stupid wedding

Im a toto Group 1 winner. Shall not say which year or month because Ive become a bit paranoid person now. What if ppl manage trace me down?

Overnight became a MILLIONAIRE. not the cny angbao toto $10mil. But it was still crazy $$$. My hands couldn’t stop shaking after i checked the numbers. No mood to do anything, not even eat. How many people queuing at spore pools everyday will experience this? My past life sure suffer alot, thats why this life repay me.

I did not tell my wife. I hope she never finds out. If she knows, cna, channel 8, bbc, cnn, whole world knows. She just cannot keep secrets. Nobody knows. Overnight, I become a private privilege client of the bank. I tell them, do not send paper statements to my house. Not that I need to worry. Special clients mean special treatment.

Most of the million$$ is still there, some in savings, some in equity and other investments. I’m thankful to have some knowledge of asset allocation, dont have to blindly follow the bank advice.

Thats the boring part. The interesting part is the $$$ has allowed me to satisfy my fantasy. I know ppl reading this will curse me. Now that I’m rich so have licence to keep another woman outside? I only live once, and 99.9999% chance this will be the only time in my life i strike toto first prize. So why waste? Winning toto proved amazing things can happen to me. Why die die must follow old thinking, or old life?

I booked an escort. 4-figure per night. The quality of the woman is really different from what I see on the street. Or any woman I know. Totally different class. She made me feel I’m dating a hollywood actress. Bedroom skills is like AV actress. One word. Superb.

I cut off after a few months. As it was becoming too expensive. I even rented a condo for her. Never sink too deep. Besides, my wife might find out. Still it was a wish come true.

Recently I has been more paranoid. What if someone, somehow know about my $$millions? Will they kidnap me? Or my children?

I often wondered what it is like. Winning toto. Fyi, I didn’t quit my job. I calculated, unless you win the angbao $10millions or willing to migrate to our neighbors, normal toto first prize is not enough to retire comfortably. If you manage quite well like me, can just afford the good things in life once in while like me. If you think can shake leg forever forget abt it. Maybe shake for a short while. After that back to normal life goes on. SG gov very smart, make sure even after win toto still need to work.

A netizen shared how her boyfriend doesn’t anyhow spend and chooses to save money instead of buying expensive gifts for her.

Here is the story:

“My boyfriend is a pretty frugal guy who doesn’t splurge on restaurants, cafes and expensive food. He does however once in a while spend on things that he likes.

Every time he dines alone, he goes to those marketplaces, hawker or food courts in malls, but he’s willing to spend more on restaurants whenever we hang out, though sometimes I still enjoy eating at non-restaurant places with him.

One thing about him that bothers me is that he doesn’t spend much on me like my friend’s boyfriend does.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining or comparing, we still take turns to pay for meals, he isn’t being calculative with me, he buys me my favorite food and dessert too,

but what I’m saying is the lack of premium/expensive items like handbags, electronic gadgets, and jewelry.

I honestly don’t demand this stuff, but as a girl, who doesn’t want their boyfriend to pamper them once in a while, and I’m very much contented with him even if he does it just once or twice a year.

Moreover, he puts like 70% of his salary every month into trading. He did tell me before that now is not the right time for him to spend unnecessarily, as he wants to invest as much as he could so that we will have a much better life in the future.

I told him that he can’t possibly always be earning without spending, but my quote just simply doesn’t register in his head.

I know he’s been making money through stock trading, but honestly, I don’t feel happy at all if he doesn’t know how to pamper him or ourselves by spending it.

What shall I do? I don’t think a breakup is necessary, but I’d like to hear some useful opinions. Thanks.”

Editor’s note: You got no job and no money of your own? Are you a leech? What’s wrong with saving money?