After the disagreement, I offered to close my room’s door instead, which they also refused due to the lack of airflow. I then offered another option, I’ll sleep on the floor in the living room surprisingly, it has also been declined.

The reasoning behind this one is that they fear that I won’t be comfortable enough.

I then asked why is it okay for me to hear the snoring, but not y’all hearing some noises. Their answer was that the snoring is due to natural causes, but the radio is not.

Yeah, whatever that means. Alas, finally they moved my bed to the living room to which the radio noises could be heard and here I am.

In the beginning of June I was having issues with needing to go to the bathroom every 30 mins and i was having a lot of pain in the lower abdomen as well as a lot of bleeding and my discharge was grey and smelled bad.

i decided to go to urgent care because my doctor’s office couldn’t get me. they had me swab myself and tested my urine, came back with yeast infection as well as bacterial vaginosis.

i was prescribed nitrofurantoin and metronidazole as well as two tablets of fluconazole. after a couple days of take the metro i started getting really sick in the morning.

So i went to the er and they basically told me to “Lan Lan” and i need to finsih the dose but they prescribed me some anti-nausea tablets. those worked great and i finished the metro.

it started to feel like it was clearing up after, no more smell no more pain no more bleeding i felt a little better, until i realized i was still needing to go pee more than normal.at least every hour, two hours. i kinda powered through it cause I just thought ya know it’ll go back to normal, just some lingering effects no big deal. come to beginning of july, about a week in i realize my vagina is now very dry, and has lots of thick but creamy discharge more so sitting right at the hold, not too much was coming out or ending up in my underwear.

mid july i finally get to my doctors and they test my pee, that’s it, after all i told him. i get a call two days later just saying that my vitamin d was low and that’s it. Greenblatt so now i feel like i’m crazy. i got to work and i am in pain and the only thing that helps is literally no physical activity,

Unfortunately i work in a warehouse and I need to move fast. this week i went to work and i had to leave early my boss literally came up to me and could see I was in pain. so I left and went to the er AGAIN. this time the nurses were absolutely wonderful.

they actually took a look at my vagina and she could see it was extremely irritated, dry, and had discharge in it. she wasn’t so sure it was yeast. they tried using a medium sized speculum on me (i had never had one used on me before this) and it was WAY TOO BIG I’m a tight girl who very recently lost her virginity it was the most uncomfortable feeling, i had to make her stop.

she was very kind and extremely understanding. they quickly swabbed me after. it ended up coming back positive for a yeast infection, so they gave me 2 fluconazole and prescribed me another one to take three days later. i think it helped a very small amount. so come Friday and i have my first papsmear scheduled, thankfully she had a small speculum however i was still so uncomfortable.

my gyno made it very fast, thankfully. i told her about my yeast infection and there test ended up coming back with it aswell. SO she prescribed me 2 boxes of metronidazole gel .75% and terconazole .8% as well as nystatin and triamcinolone cream for the outside. she directed me to use metro and terconazole one at night and one in the morning.

i thought nothing of it went to pick it up from my pharmacy and the lady tells me my gyno directed to use all the metro first and then the terco. like what? so i started thinking about how metro is for bacterial vaginosis and why would i be prescribed two boxes, why are all of these people giving me different answers and directions.

i’ve heard so much about how metro GIVES YEAST INFECTIONS to people so WHY am i being given it FOR a yeast infection? this morning i called the available doctor at the obgyn and i explained her my fear of using the metro, and she told me to hold off on using it… to just use the terco… why did i pay 30 dollars for this medicine?

why am i not getting a direct answer? what am i supposed to do? i’m going to start the terconazole tonight inserting it vaginally, and i am horrified. i feel like nothings working and it’s deteriorating my mental health, and it wasn’t doing so good in the first place. i feel at my wits end, if the terco doesn’t work i don’t know what i will do…

hopefully this all made sense, anyone have advice or similar problems? thank you

When my brother has his friends over I often come to the common area to hang out because I’m a social person. I thought Jason and I were really hitting it off, we both have really fun personalities and he made me laugh a lot.

My brother has thrown a couple of little parties at his place. Some of the other guys who would come would bring a girl with them but I noticed that Jason never brought anyone.

Last week everyone was leaving Jason and I were both plastered & I told him he should stay the night. We discussed it a bit but he ended up stating that he needed to get home. To be fair I didn’t explicitly say I wanted him to stay over to hookup because I don’t like to make the first move, but I did have him considering staying over which I thought meant something.

After that night I told my brother that I liked his friend and asked him if I should just make the first move on him and see what happened. This is when my brother laughed at me and told me he was married. I was shocked and my brother showed me his Instagram account for proof, which was private, and I saw images of his wife.

I didn’t plan on saying anything to Jason when he came back over the next week but after a few drinks I told him if he was having guilty conscience over his wife he needs to either get over it and make a move or put a wedding ring on. He feint confusion so I told him that not only does him not wearing a ring make him look single, it also sends a message to the people that do know he’s married that he’s in a rocky relationship. I also pointed out that he almost stayed the night the week prior.

Jason said he didn’t wear his ring because it was unsafe due to the job he worked and because when he came over here it was either right after work or he’d run out of the house after changing and not think about it since he was just going to a friend’s. But I know the reason is BS as he flirted back with me.

He also told me the reason he hadn’t brought his wife over to drink with everyone else is that she was pregnant and didn’t want to come. She apparently picked him up last week. Jason also said he never considered staying the night with me, he had thought I meant for him to sleep on the couch until he sobered up the next morning and could drive home but “since I was drunk I guess I misunderstood what you meant”. I’m not sure I believe that part.

He left shortly after that and my brother said I was a B** for running his friend off after he’d told me he was married. I wasn’t trying to be problematic but I really thought he liked me and I wanted to confront the issue at hand because I do feel like he was giving me mixed signals.

I wrong?