Covid is really contagious now. After my sister contracted Covid from her workplace, our whole family kenna even she have done everything to self quarantine.

Now we all have Covid and cannot got out for 3 days, our only option is to call for GrabFood delivery.

Sigh. But my father damn niao so he nags everytime we ordered Grab. Honestly, what else can we do? We have some ‘keep stock’ but since 4 of us eating, within 2 days, finished already. We’re not suppose to go out. It’s damn inconsiderate too if we go out. Plus, you won’t want to go out because it’s damn uncomfortable. We all have sore and muscle aches. My mother’s temperature reach 38.4. my head is always heavy else light… Just don’t feel right.

On the 4th day, my sister took ART and still positive (expected because she is still coughing and having sore throat) so she cannot go out still. (Her 4th day is our 3rd day so still no one can go out).

We have to plan who take ART test also because we only have 3 kits left and the ones I ordered online haven’t arrived.

My girlfriend doesn’t want to work, and she hasn’t worked throughout our relationship. She wants the taitai life because her father is rich and her mother got to be a housewife. So I have been supporting both of us with my pay alone, which is not much, and I don’t get to save even though I have been working for years. We are living paycheck to paycheck, which was okay for me last time but now that we are talking about long-term, I’m not sure if I can live like this forever.

I get stressed about our BTO thinking about the money I need to fork out, but she will just tell me to find another job that has higher pay and she even told me to borrow from my family. Her family doesn’t want to lend us the money for our house, because my girlfriend has never contributed to the family business. She has been pressuring me to get money from my family whenever I bring up about financial issues, but my family is just a low to medium income family. I have tried borrowing and even forced money from my family members and it has caused a lot of arguments.

We have been living together and she doesn’t do housework either, my parents are the ones doing all the housework while she just does nothing at home and watch her dramas. She doesn’t even offer to buy meals for my parents when they are at home.

She insists that I propose with a diamond ring which will take months for me to save up for, otherwise she says it will make her look bad and she will not marry me, which is why I’m in a dilemma now. I feel that she doesn’t care about my financial pressures and she’s willing to make me suffer for what she wants.

In case you are wondering..she’s not very attractive either. We are both considered unattractive, which is why I hesitate to break up because I know I can’t find someone else. I’ve been wanting to lose weight but she insists I stay fat so I won’t attract other girls, but I am concerned about my health as well.

What should I do?

How to be less blur at work? I been working in a lab and have been becoming famous for the wrong reasons, to always make ridiculously silly mistakes and becoming a laughing stock like Mr Bean. Except that unlike the show.. my mistakes were genuinely unintended. Fortunately all were  minor so far..

Things such as weighing out my sample into one tube for reaction, but blur blur used my original tube instead and wondering why the reaction was not working..

Drenched myself with the safety shower while inspecting it as I pulled it the wrong way to turn it off..

Face crashed into the door as I forgot it was after 6 pm lock out time..

Left the logbook on the fire hose reel outside and spent half hour looking for it in the lab..

Couldn’t find my transponder until I realise it was in my lab coat pocket..

Getting myself locked out of the lab because I blur blur left the key inside..

So my wife always gets bad gas before bed and while we’re laying in bed before going to sleep she will literally not stop farting. Every couple minutes or so she’ll keep letting one rip loudly. Yes I am aware women fart and it’s normal but it’s constant! For hours! While I’m trying to sleep! They smell so rank too it’s like something died in her butt.

I’ve tried gently suggesting she take medication for her gas but she doesn’t really seem to think of it as a problem. If I ask her to stop she says, “You know I can’t help it BBBBBRRRRRTTTTTTTT!”

It’s so hard to fall asleep with her constant smelly farts for hours. She even farts in her sleep too! I don’t know what to do or how to get her to stop or take this seriously.

Update as requested: We talked more about it. She got very upset with me because I was “body shaming her” which I’m not.

I told her I get it. Women fart but she couldn’t even make it through us arguing WITHOUT FARTING FOR GODS SAKE.

I told her to quit eating milk and cheese because she’s lactose intolerant and she knows this. She told me I can’t control what she eats so I said, fine take lactaid.

She claimed she does. I called her on her bullcrap and we argued more and it ended with her angrily sipping from a carton of milk to punish me later and me telling her we’re going VEGAN in this house! As I microwaved a large can of baked beans to defend myself from the incoming FARTNADO.

I know it’s more expensive to go vegan but I don’t care! No more milk, cheese, eggs or coffee creamer which is apparently 90% of my DISGUSTING BRAP HOG OF A WIFE’S diet. I’m gonna try to slip lactaid in her food and drink from now on.