A netizen shared how his/her sister is dating a guy who is a gold digger and making her pay for everything.

Here is the story:

“Is my sister’s boyfriend a gold digger?

Just for context, I come from quite a wealthy family meanwhile my sister’s boyfriend does not but they are definitely not poor.

My reasons for thinking he is a gold digger or the male equivalent:

When he comes over and they order food my sister is the one who pays I know this because they usually order through my account as I use my points to offset some of the balance, and still after the countless times of ordering for them I have never been paid back.

When we go out as a family and she brings him along he doesn’t bring anything and he doesn’t bother to try to pick the cheaper things in the menu, and its not like the restaurants we go to are exactly cheap.

When he comes over he is overly clingy and is quite distant from my parents, doesn’t bother to make conversation, just eats, responds to our questions and leaves.

However, around my sister’s friends, he becomes super active offers to buy them drinks and whatnot, and it’s not like he is unfamiliar with my parents as he comes over very often(3 times a week on average).

And my family usually calls my eldest sister (I have two sisters) every Saturday as she is currently studying overseas and while we were calling her my sis and her bf were busy showing each other tiktoks and laughing away.

My sister is a shopaholic so she goes to Mbs quite often and when she comes home I usually ask what she bought, and there will always be some branded item she bought for him.

I had previously attributed that to my sister being a spendthrift and while there was that I felt he was also manipulating her in a way.

For example, I tagged along on one of her shopping trips and he commented “What a nice wallet, its a shame I don’t have the money.” Followed by a deep sigh.

My sister looked at the wallet, told us to wait there, walked around some other nearby shops, then bought the wallet for him and the wallet was not cheap at all.

Usually that would be a normal comment to make, but she and him have been together for quite a while so he definitely knows her habits.

Lastly, we have a personal driver, but lately it has become my sisters bfs driver many times I have wanted to go somewhere but my driver is out driver him around or helping him buy something.

Like hello? I really want to tell my sister to break up with him but at the same time she is a very good sister and I don’t want to hurt her feelings since I am younger than her I also feel as though I do not have adequate experience to tell her but at this point I am honestly at my wits end on what to do about this whole situation.

My parents and grandparents dont like him but stay quiet as they are all generally quite softspoken.

Note: My sister and her bf are both currently university students so none of the money they are spending is their own, which makes his behaviour even more frightening”

Editor’s note: Call him out in front of everyone, embarrass him.

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A netizen shared how he wrote a letter to complain to MINDEF after “suspecting” that a guy didn’t serve NS.

Here is the story:

“Growing up a true blue Singaporean, I’ve always thought all of us Singaporean men have to serve National Service. It’s only a question of whether you get posted to SAF, SPF, or SCDF.

We have all read & had our own opinions about controversies regarding our top sportsmen having to juggle ns with their sports. Some risking possibly prison sentences to play their sports overseas.

A few months ago I suspected that one particular Singaporean male, aged 25 has somehow, I strongly believe, managed to completely escape serving Ns.

I thought it was just a typical young guy trying to trash talk but then I realized.. which Singaporean male doesn’t want to admit he served NS?

I wrote to MINDEF but their response is ;

As this will be looked at internally, we would not be able to disclose any information. However, please be assured that the SAF takes a serious view on the matter and would carry out the necessary actions.

The fact that this Singaporean is still walking around with no news of him being enlisted, I’m just wondering if there are indeed any medical conditions that would completely exempt any Singaporean male?

I sure hope not and if it is the case then he apparently sure looks very much active and healthy and ready to serve the nation. Better late than never..hope Mindef would clear the air for all Singaporeans.

Has anyone of you ever encountered a Singaporean not having to serve NS, already aged 25, while still enjoying life in Singapore?”

Editor’s note: Why do people like you exist?

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So my wife’s twin sister moved in with us 6 months ago after leaving her husband. Initially, it was weird because they’re identical, but my wife’s sister (I’ll refer to her as Jenny) tried to make it easier for me to tell them apart by wearing a red ribbon on her hair but sometimes they mess around dress alike and be silly.

So we were having drinks at home and all of us got super drunk and both my wife and her sister did not have a ribbon on her head and things started getting confused.

I went to the toilet and came back and noticed that the twin sister is gone from her seat. I assumed that she had gone to sleep.

I sat with my “wife” on the couch and we started making out and we did it in the living room. After we were done I went back to my room and I was horrified. I saw my wife sleeping on the bed and that means that I did it with the twin sister.

I got sober immediately but the mental stress made me so tired I went to sleep.

The next morning, I woke up and everything was normal. My wife’s twin sister put on the ribbon and look at me and place a finger over her lips.

While my wife was washing the plates she came to my ear and whispered: “This is our secret and it’s one off”.

I was confused, excited and afraid at the same time. I whisper back “How bout next time with the both of you”. She pushed my head and said, “dream on”.

It’s an honest mistake, I did not know and I was too drunk to tell. The fault is with my wife’s sister right?

What should I do? Should I tell my wife about it?

Honestly, i feel very confused about my current relationship now, i have met my current boyfriend during my secondary school days.. We broke up and patched up quite a few times (Most of the time i initiated the convo) many of my peers also told me to move on from him as he was stingy, selfish and he ended things off with me the past 2 times.

I often feel like it was a one-sided relationship. I’m always the one planning dates, finding new places to go, paying more than 70% for most of our meals (as he claims he does not have the financial means & mentions that i am more well to do than him), paying more on hotels and air tickets when we travel together but he can spend 40-42k on a Rolex watch without thinking much..

He also never wishes me or plans dates during the anniversary and doesn’t spend any money on my birthday gift. When i usually fork out money to purchase presents for him every 2-3 months..

I know i’m not supposed to expect anything back since i gave the gifts willingly.

But there was once when i was badly ill and told him to fetch me to the nearby clinic to bring me to the doctor as i was really weak and sick, he continued his sleep and i took a grab down myself (even though it was a 10 mins drive)

I’ve been keeping all these feelings to myself and thinking if one day he will reciprocate back all the things i have done for him.. I’m starting to have second thoughts on my relationship with him and thinking if i should break it off but at the same time i just can’t let him go as he was my first boyfriend and i’m not sure if i would be able to find anyone whom can click well with me.

What should i do?

Here are what netizens think:

• Aiyah first bf so what? Don’t overrate such things. He’s clearly not into you and is used to you giving unconditionally while he just appear. And pls lah. If a guy break up with u twice already, why u still 死皮赖脸不走？I’m sure he’s telling his friends you deserve all these bad treatment cos u won’t leave. Really where’s your pride? Just leave already, next better guy will come along.

• You are paying for the price of your relationship because you are the one who just needs someone to be there in your life. Even if he tried to break up twice, you still cling on to this relationship. Do you think…you will want to marry a selfish guy who doesn’t seem to love you at all? Then, nobody can help you sis. By the way, I don’t believe in “first love” or “first boyfriend”. The idea of first love is all about experiencing that should teach you to do better for your next love. Choose wiser, be treated better and be loved honestly. First love is meant to teach us something that we can laugh about our innocence when we were young. It shouldn’t last forever, otherwise we will call it “the only love”. Now, love yourself a little better and you will know what to do with your 1st love. Take care sis.

• No need to have second thoughts. The longer you hand on to the rs, the more pain you are going to inflict onto yourself. Don’t look back after your left. Love yourself and I’m sure you can find someone better. Don’t believe in first love. This is fairytales. GL

• As u mature, I’m sure u can see that there’s something seriously wrong here. As a woman, let me ask u to imagine his heck care attitude after u’re married, pregnant, with kids etc. Find a better choice.

A Singaporean wife recently took to Facebook to voice her frustration due to her husband’s fast and furious ku ku jiao “that cannot hold the water in”. Sometimes he even finishes before he even starts

Here is the story:

My spouse has a lot of trouble controlling and holding himself….to the point that it’s hurting our sex life. He usually can’t stay more than 5 minutes, and he’ll come before even putting it in…like it’s a dampener.

haiz. I understand that he was a virgin for more than 30 years prior to marriage, that first-timer anxiety/excitement is normal, but shouldn’t this improve with time and practice? He’s still fumbling around, and before we know it, he’ll be here.

The session came to an end before it had really begun. He’s wonderful in every way, always puts me first, lovely romantic, but there’s this pressure now every time we go into the bedroom at night. I try not to excite him too much, to take things slowly…but

I’m not sure, but taking him to the doctor implies that he has a medical condition… I understand how this may damage a man’s self-esteem and dignity.