A netizen shared how he just started work at a new company and went out for drinks with his manager, before bedding her after they got drunk.

Here is the story:

“Will you sleep with your manager?

Nope, it is not what you think. I just started work at a new company for about 6 months. My manager is an attractive lady who is 6 years older than me. She is very assertive at work and really demands for us to commit time and effort to our task. However, after work she can be very pleasant to be with.

A few of us had to work OT on Christmas to rush a report. After that, to reward us, she had suggested dinner and drinks. We had some alcohol and when it was time to leave, she suggested that I get a grab ride with her since it’s on the way. While in the car, she suggested that I could go up to her apartment for a second round, which I obliged, since it was still early.

After a few cans of beer, she said I could sleep over if I wanted to. We ended up being intimate. Is this considered a relationship? If not, what does it mean?

It seems so wrong to date your manager who is 6 years older, but I feel so attracted to her. Any advice?”

Editor’s note: Don’t poop where you eat and don’t eat where you poop.

They say the one that not being loved is the 3rd party?

Im a single mum with 2 young kids. In Dec 2020, i met this guy (C) through a dating app. We went out a few times and eventually got together despite I know he is married. He is not a local, his wife and boy don’t live with him all these years when he is in sg.

Last year, I found out that im pregnant, I decided to keep the baby without thinking about whether he will take the responsibility or not. I didn’t expect him to stay with me throughout the pregnancy journey until i gave birth. I never request him to get a divorce or plan anything for our future.

We are happy with the current status.

However, whenever he goes back to his home country to visit his family or when his wife came over for holiday with his boy, i feel kinda terrible.

He told me he and his wife still stay in the marriage because of the son, no more love between them, How do i know if this is true? He will still text me as usual when he is with his wife. I always wondering that whether his wife ever checked his phone? Now that i have his child, definitely easier to sense something wrong with the husband, is she really dont mind the husband having an affair?

I never want to be a 3rd party in someone’s marriage but its already the fact that we are together and we have a child together and i can really feel his love towards me and baby. Who is the 3rd party in this relationship?

Here are what netizens think:

You are the third party of course, how do u want to justify or gaslight the wife is actually the third party?  Goodness u are just duped by a man who won’t divorce his wife and manage to have you be contented as the side chick having his illegitimate child. How silly is this? What’s going to happen to this child? Did u even think before u do anything?  he can just leave and go back to his country anytime – can u wake up and do some planning for future? 

There is no third party in this relationship. All are main characters! He loves you, and he has a wife whom he doesn’t love much, if at all.He probably doesn’t want to divorce his wife, as it’ll affect their son. His wife doesn’t know about his extramarital affair with you, but the rs between him & his wife is definitely not strong.He certainly loves you more than his wife, so he’s with you and didn’t mind having child with you.You can’t marry him, but you and your child are already an important part of his life. So just continue this way if that makes both of you happy.Plain & simple.

So he was married but still go on dating app where you met him? Well, not for us to judge, I guess. There are many situations like this where couples stay together on paper for their kids but actually live separate lives. He sounds like he does love you and the baby. If you are happy with this arrangement then what do you care who is third party? But I think it would suck if the wife found out he had another child even if there is no love between them. Also when your child grows up, how do you explain to him that his father has another wife and that he has a step-brother? If you do care, then have an honest talk about long term plans…..will there come a day when he finally divorces his wife? You are not asking for anything so I guess you are not getting anything and he can have the best of both worlds to his benefit. I would be checking if his profile is still on the dating app just to be sure.

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A 19-year-old girl shared that she is dating a 17-year-old boy and that she wants to sleep with him but can’t bring him to a hotel because he isn’t 18.

Here is the story:

Hello, my boyfriend is 17 and I’m 19.

We have really high s– drive but there are always people at his house and my house. I’ve tried booking a hotel once but he wasn’t allowed to check-in as a guest because he is not yet 18 and there was no refund!! 🙁

Where are some places we can do it? Please don’t say staircase or handicapped toilet, this is kinda serious.

Editor’s note: Maybe you can try asking his mother or the police for advice.

A guy shared how he slept with his girlfriend and she wrapped her legs around him and pulled him in, making him “finish” inside her.

Here is the story:

“Hi admins, please don’t delete this , it is really important to me!

My GF and I have been together for a few years and I really love her. Both of us intend to have kids and I intend to marry her soon. But recently, something she did something that made me lose trust in her. 

My GF and I have a really satisfying love life. As both of us are each other’s first intercourse partners and I always pull out, I have stopped using protection after my GF’s persuasion.

Just a few days ago, we decided to do the dirty and as I was about to pull out, she wrapped her legs and pulled me into her, making me finish right into her. I was actually confused about what happened as I was totally unprepared for a situation like this.

I was furious and after we both cleaned up, I confronted her on what she did. She cried and claimed that she really love me a lot and wanted to be with me forever.

As I am still angry and not in the mood to argue, I left her house and bought her a few pregnancy kits for her to use over the next few days.

I did not talk to her about that accident since and she had since apologised for what she did.

I really do love my GF, how can we improve our relationship ?”

Editor’s note: Don’t worry bro, unless your “men” are from NDU, they probably didn’t reach the finish line.

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A netizen shared how he is married to her husband for 7 years, describing him as being loyal and doesn’t gamble or cheat on her.

However, she revealed that she had been cheating on him for 2 years with another man whom she calls her “soul mate”.

Here is the full story:

“I am in a marriage with a guy for 7 years. He is loyal and doesnt gamble or flirts or cheated on me before.

Before our marriage i had a conversation with him about how our marriage life is going to be. How we would work for our future together and how he would help out with chores and have savings and still spend quality time together as a couple.

He doesnt come from a very good background. Parents are just barely making it. But that doesnt bother me because i thought once we are married, we will work hard together.

He is also lazy and i have to constantly push him then would he do anything. More like how a mother would.

1 year into the marriage, i wanted to annul because he is not providing me with even the basic needs in a relationship. The emotional support, physical support.

2 years into the marriage i brought up divorce but he insisted he wouldn’t want. I gave him that chance.

3rd year i brought up divorce again and another episode happens again. I gave him another chance again.

In our 4th year of marriage and i am still thinking of leaving him. Everything that was promised, wasn’t delivered. Even if he did, it just wasn’t good enough because the basic needs are not even there.

As a married couple, we haven’t had s-x for 3 years straight!

I am in love with a guy who is able to provide me with everything i need from emotion to physical to s—-l needs.

We had been secretly dating for 2 years now and to be honest, we both are like soul mates.

But i am finding the right time to bring up the divorce. Or is there no right time for it? Anyone?”