A marriage is considered sacred for many but sometimes that are some unforgivable mistakes between a couple.

A woman recently shared a story thinking if she should take her cheating husband back.

Here are what netizens think:

If cheating husband comes back, yay or nay?

Got a divorce 5 years ago. Together we have a 3yo child when he left. Ex husband cheated and left for another woman.

Just want hear from the readers here, if he comes back, should I forgive him and believe he has made his choice and will stick with me or forget about his guy who ditched me and left me to pick up the pieces myself?

For context, I am still very much in love with him, miss him often and still keep our photos.

What will you do?

Here are what netizens think:

• You deserve better .What’s past is in the past.There’s a saying never lick your spit back up

• Has he said he wants to come back or are you just speculating? I think you need to work on yourself first because after 5 years you have not moved on. Love yourself and believe you deserve better and you won’t accept anything less. Then if he wants to come back, you won’t even want him coz you’ll know you deserve better. Or if you do accept him back, your own conditions and expectations will be higher because that is what you know you deserve. Understand? Break your own cycle of emotional dependence and pinning for someone who does not deserve another minute of your energy or love. The only contact you should have with him is because of your child to have a relationship with his/her father. Pack up those old photos and find your happiness somewhere else or with someone who will love and commit to you 100%….if that actually turns out to be him again, that’s fine, as long as you won’t accept anything less for yourself ever again.

• No. You’ve made so much progress surviving without him in the past 5 years. Why waste it? You spent past 5 years missing him a little less each day, picking up the pieces, recovering and making yourself whole again each day. 1825 days of effort and healing don’t throw it down the drain.I can understand not being able to let go initially but right now? After coming so far?

• History will repeat itself. Don’t waste your time for such man. Now, he has yet to find a right woman to flirt again.It is hard for leopard to change its spots.Just forget him and move on, and spend quality time with your child.

Fiance’s family thinks I’m smelly because of my waitress work

Hello. Just will like to get something off my chest. I need some advice.

I am a lowly educated school dropout girl. My highest education was only secondary 2. I stopped schooling at age 14 as I have no parents for support. It’s very tiring to school and work at the same time. I am an orphan. I am 40 years old this year.

Recently I got engaged to my loving fiance in May. Our wedding will be this year end in October. The day before, I left work and headed for his house straight as it’s his brother’s wedding day. I bathed at my workplace before I went. I am working as a waitress/dishwasher. Just yesterday after the wedding, I overheard my fiance’s sister mentioning to the other family members that i am a very smelly person. She said I smelled like a pot of oil, and a lot of sauces. She said she could smell my sweat of oil from very far away.  To my horror, the whole family agreed with her that I smelled.

Tonight they ask me to resign from my work as they won’t be able to take the smell if I moved in with them after I marry ( my fiance and I are waiting for our BTO to finish building). They mentioned that I smelled normal when I am not working and they want me to maintain that.

I felt very hurt deep inside and I cried though out the night. It was the first time I experienced family warmth since I knew them 5 years ago, I really want them to accept me. I can’t enter into classy jobs like administrator or engineers, those so called 8-5 or 9-6 jobs as I am lowly educated. I am also deaf in one ear.

My fiance consoled me by saying that why not I quit? He can support me by giving me money weekly. He’s a well to do man and highly educated. He mentioned he didn’t like pple insulting me. He mentioned to tolerate insults for a job, it’s not worth it.

If I resign, I won’t have enough money to save for the wedding, and I am not the type whom wish to be a full time housewife after the wedding and rely on a man everytime. I don’t like the thought of letting my fiance paid for everything, even though he doesn’t mind. He works very hard for his money.

What should I do? It’s not the first time I was being told I am smelly. I was being told to by friends and even strangers. I can’t wear perfume as I am allergic to sweet scents.

My [26M] wife [27F] routinely ruins my sleep. Affects my job

So about 3-4 times a week my wife will set alarms on her phone for 3:00AM because she says she needs to get up early and get some work done. She never wakes up.

I will gently try to wake her sometimes but it always ends with her screaming at me telling me not to. She then has alarms that go off every 15 minutes after that until 5AM when my alarm goes off. She will stay “asleep” through all of them.

I have asked her why she does this many times and her response is always the same, “I tried to wake up and it didn’t work”.

I have tried every solution under the sun to mitigate this issue it feels. I have tried cooking her healthier meals, asking her to go on walks, offering assistance with waking up.

I know there is more but those are the big ones I feel like. I tried earplugs one weekend, but slept through my alarms both days.

She started offering to sleep on the couch a few months ago, but I still wake to her alarms and I feel it ruins a lot of our intimacy.

I work 12 hour shifts with heavy machinery so sleep is very important for my job.

Is there any way to help this situation?