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MAN CHEATED ON WIFE WHO JUST GAVE BIRTH, THEN BLAMES HER FOR HIS AFFAIR

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Husband blames me for his affair

My husband and I have been in rocky water for a week since I discovered lewd photos he had received from a co-worker of his.

We have two young daughters, so I haven’t left him yet but I am considering it. Yesterday he sat me down and we had a big conversation about it.

I told him how I felt betrayed and I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to forgive him. He told me the only reason he cheated was because i made him feel like he had no value.

He claims that my unwillingness to have intercourse with him, which is exaggerated and I had a kid 7 months ago.

The affair started when I was pregnant and he claims I was just to focused on my pregnancy and my other daughter that he felt neglected and naturally sought attention elsewhere.

I don’t want to get divorced. I want my kids to have a healthy family but I’m very hurt. He claims this is just a rocky path in our marriage but it seems like a death blow, I’m not sure

LORRY DRIVER LOST CONTROL, RAMS THROUGH SEVERAL CARS AT CAUSEWAY

A traffic accident occurred along the Causeway near the Woodlands Checkpoint heading towards Singapore, with a lorry losing control and ramming through several cars.

The incident happened earlier today (7 July).

Video footage taken by motorists nearby showed the lorry continuing to drive on after hitting cars that were stopped in the jam, with at least 3 cars being involved.

The Immigrations & Checkpoints Authority (ICA) issued a statement on Facebook about the incident, telling arriving travellers to expect delays.

ICA’s statement

Accident Beyond International Boundary Leading to Woodlands Checkpoint

A traffic accident involving several vehicles had occurred at the Causeway towards Woodlands Checkpoint. It is blocking two out of the three lanes.

Arriving travellers should expect delays. Motorists are advised to follow our Facebook page for updates.

Updated statement

[Update] Accident Beyond International Boundary Leading to Woodlands Checkpoint

Currently, only one out of three lanes is blocked.

Arriving travellers should expect delays. Motorists are advised to follow our Facebook page for updates.

22 MEN CHARGED FOR ALERTING CHAT GROUPS ABOUT ENFORCEMENT RAIDS

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22 men were charged on 6 July with obstructing the course of justice by alerting chat groups on WhatsApp about law enforcement raids at massage parlours, nightclubs and etc.

Night Owl

16 of the accused allegedly sent the tip-off messages to a chat group called “Night Owl” from January 2019 to April 2019, to prevent the detection of illegal activities.

The 16 men are between the ages of 29 to 49, and they are namely:

  1. Abdul Hadi Zainuddin,
  2. Mervin Yeoh Wei Kian,
  3. Muhammad Rashidi Rashid,
  4. Muhammad Rasyidi Safiee,
  5. Daniel Seet Joo Tong,
  6. Muhammad Azhar Dawood,
  7. Goh Wei Jie,
  8. Brandon Chung,
  9. Muhammad Ikhmal Bin Ismail,
  10. Ang Whay Chong,
  11. Ong Wee Sen,
  12. Wilson Soon Jien Yang,
  13. Jeffrey Goh Hock Soon,
  14. Ilex Tan,
  15. Lim Poh Kian and
  16. B Barathkrishnan

The alleged messages that the men sent, had named massage parlours and nightclubs where enforcement raids were taking place.

The messages also included the license plates, locations and numbers of the enforcement officers.

UncleValet

Another trio of men between the ages of 33 to 44; Lim Wei Xiong, Mah Chee Kean, and Lim Song Huat, are also being accused of sending similar messages to another chat group called “UncleValet” to tip off establishments about the raids, on 1 February 2020.

Rolex Movement

Two others, 27-year-old Yam Jianwen and 42-year-old Raymund Reuben Mervyn, also allegedly sent similar messages to another tipoff chat group called “Rolex Movement”. in April 2019.

Mervyn had allegedly sent a message alluding to a CNB raid operation, saying: “My contact informed me it’s CNB operation next three days island-wide.”

Artillery Regiment

The remaining accused, 32-year-old Chua Yong Dan, also allegedly sent similar messages to a chat group on 6 February 2020, with the chat group being named in Chinese, which translates into “artillery regiment”.

PRC MAN KENA HENTAM @ CHINATOWN, ASKS S’PORE “WHERE IS THE LAW”

A PRC man was allegedly attacked out of the blue while having a meal with his friend at a Chinatown hawker centre.

The man took a video of himself holding his head, with his hand covered in what appears to be blood as his friend spoke to the police.

He captioned his video in Mandarin: “Was in Singapore’s Chinatown with a friend for a meal, got attacked by a Singaporean until my head was bleeding. Where is the law in Singapore?”

His friend was seen in the background of the video speaking to the police officers who attended to them at the scene.

Potential penalties

According to Chapter 322 of the penal code, anyone who performs an act that causes hurt to a person is guilty of Voluntarily Causing Grievous Hurt.

Upon conviction, offenders could face imprisonment for a term which may extend to 3 years, and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

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MAN’S MARRIED FEMALE FRIEND WANTS TO CHEAT ON HER HUSBAND WITH HIM

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How do I (38M) decline the advances of a married friend (36F) who wants to cheat on her husband with me, without hurting her?

I (38M) have known this friend (36F) for some time now. She is married with a young child. Some weeks ago I asked her if she was alright because she looked very tired and sad, and she said it was nothing.

Fast forward a couple of weeks she calls me and asks if she can come home to see me, because she needs to talk. She arrives and when we sit she breaks down, crying like I’ve never seen somebody cry before.

I tried to console her and when I approached her she kissed me. I was dumbfounded. She said that she realized that she didn’t love her husband, that she never loved him and that she married just because she wanted to have a family.

Now she feels trapped with a person who’s too different from her, somebody who doesn’t understand her.

Now, I admit that I liked the kiss because I have a sweet spot for her and seeing how desperate she was touched me quite a lot.

Yet I don’t want this to develop further, I don’t want to be the cause of her divorce as I know her husband and he is a great guy (though he’s clearly incompatible with her) and her little child.

So I have to tell her that even though I care about her I can’t have a relationship with her that goes beyond our friendship.

The problem is how do I tell her? She looked very fragile and unstable and I don’t know how to do this. Maybe ghosting for some time would be the most viable option.

MOH – S’PORE CONFIRMS FIRST LOCAL CASE OF MONKEYPOX ON 6 JULY

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The Singapore Ministry of Health (MOH) has confirmed the first local case of monkeypox infection in Singapore.

The patient is a 45-year-old Malaysian national living in Singapore who tested positive on 6 July, and has since been warded at NCID.

NIG added that three close contacts have been identified and placed on quarantine, contact tracing is ongoing.

MOH’s full statement

The Ministry of Health (MOH) has confirmed one local case of monkeypox infection in Singapore. The patient is a 45 year-old male Malaysian national who resides in Singapore. He tested positive for monkeypox on 6 July 2022. He is currently warded at the National Centre for Infectious Diseases (NCID) and his condition is stable. He is not linked to the imported case announced by MOH on 21 June.

2.             The case first developed lower abdomen skin lesions on 30 June, and subsequently experienced fatigue and swollen lymph nodes on 2 July. On 4 July, he developed fever and a sore throat and sought medical attention where initial tests for other possible medical conditions were done. When these tests returned negative, he was subsequently conveyed to NCID on 6 July, where he was isolated for further assessment.

3.             As of 6 July, three close contacts have been identified, involving two housemates and one social contact. All close contacts will be placed on quarantine for 21 days from their last contact with the case. Contact tracing is ongoing.

4.             Monkeypox is typically a self-limiting illness where patients recover within two to four weeks. A small percentage of those infected can fall seriously ill or even die. Those particularly vulnerable to complications are young children, pregnant women or immunocompromised individuals. Given that transmission requires close physical or prolonged contact, the risk to the general public remains low.

5.             MOH will continue to monitor the monkeypox situation closely and calibrate our preparedness and response measures as needed. Members of the public are encouraged to exercise personal responsibility by monitoring their personal health and maintaining good hygiene, especially during travel. They should also avoid close contact with other individuals known or suspected to be ill with monkeypox infection.  

MINISTRY OF HEALTH
6 JULY 2022

Images source: Nigeria Centre for Disease Control via World Health Organization & Google Maps (Images used strictly for illustration purposes only)

CONTRACTOR TELLS HOMEOWNER “OUT OF MONEY”, WANTS MORE MONEY TO RESUME WORK

Contractor holding my house as hostage?

Hi, I am just here asking for advice on my situation. Currently I have a place being built however, currently the contractor is taking his own sweet time and little to no work is being completed. Im left with the carpentry and tiling.

The stipulated date of completion was on 2019 and because of covid has dragged till now.

Right now the issue i am facing is that the contractor claims that he is out of money and is unable to continue to job and require an increase in payment to continue working.

This is violating whatever was agreed on. He is currently making my life difficult but not answering my calls and also avoiding me.

Because of this I am just paying bank interest for no work, does anyone have any advice for me for this matter? I really am growing frustrated.

Any advice would be most welcomed

Netizens’ comments

Typically in such construction contracts you have “Key dates” that the contractor needs to hit with regards to works in order to qualify for progress payment.

If the contractor goes beyond the date of the contract you hit him with LD (Liquidated Damages). The key is to NEVER PAY THEM UNTIL THEY HIT THE PROGRESS REQUIREMENTS.

There is also a novation clause in contracts so that in the even the contractors go bust like the one you have, you are contractually allowed to hire a new contractor to resume the contract.

You have essentially been ripped off by a bad contractor sad to say. If you want any money, you need to sue him to either get it back or force him to complete the work.

ONG YE KUNG – ONLY RESTRICTION FOR THIS OMICRON WAVE IS TO WEAR MASK INDOORS

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Minster of Health Ong Ye Kung spoke at the Nurses’ Merit Award evenent held at Suntec on 6 July, as he spoke on the current wave of Covid infections.

He said that Singapore has not introduced heightened measures despite the increase in cases, and that “the only thing we have implemented is for you to wear your masks indoors.”

Ong Ye Kung’s statement

When the Delta wave subsided in end 2021, it was a relief, but the respite was short-lived. Soon, we heard of a highly-mutated, more transmissible new variant from Africa – called Omicron. We delayed its arrival through border restrictions and domestic social restrictions, but by February 2022, we were confronted with a massive Omicron infection wave.

Fortunately, the symptoms of Omicron infections were less severe compared to Delta. The burden of care then shifted from the ICU to the Emergency Department (ED) and normal wards. Once again, nurses took on the high surge in patient load. While we could discharge many patients every day, more patients would arrive the next day. Every week, we hoped the situation would ease, but it went on and on, from one week to the next, and lasted for about 12 weeks.

To ensure hospitals could still cope, we intensified the medical care provided at previous CCFs and converted them to COVID-19 Treatment Facilities (CTFs) and expanded their capacity. In fact, nurses from all over Singapore – from both public and private institutions, from acute and community hospitals, from specialty centres, and even from the Health Promotion Board – all came together to run the much-needed CTFs.

We are now in the middle of another wave. As I have always said, going through a wave is like riding a bicycle downslope. If you do not do anything – you will accelerate faster and faster, until you crash. So, we always have three things with us to control this bike going downslope – left brake, right brake and cushion at the end. The left brake is Safe Management Measures (SMMs) to reduce transmission and infections. The right brake is vaccinations, so that it also reduces transmission and more importantly, if you are infected, you are less likely to fall severely ill. But that will still make the bike go down at quite a high speed. When you go down and hit the road, you have the cushion, which is our healthcare capacity. You are the last line of defence when all else fails. When patients appear before you, you take care of them.

What is happening in this current wave is that the left brake – SMMs – there are almost none. The only thing that we have implemented is wearing masks indoors. This is such an important juncture in our journey towards endemicity, because it is the first time since the pandemic that we are going through a wave without a circuit breaker, without heightened alert, not even with group sizes of five, and no capacity limits – none of that. We are trying our best to avoid doing that, because that is an important mark of living with COVID-19.

Our right brake – vaccinations. We are still vaccinating, but our coverage is already very high. So on the left, we try not to do; on the right, there is only so much we can do. What is left is the cushion at the end, which is our healthcare capacity. In other words, in this Omicron wave, by and large, the burden falls on you, on our hospitals, on our nurses, on our medical personnel.

As the rest of Singapore goes through a wave like this, and people go about our lives normally, I hope you all remember who is carrying the burden. Who is carrying the burden to make sure that the rest of Singapore, businesses, students, people who enjoy themselves – recreation, sports – everything goes on, because our hospitals are working and our nurses and doctors are working flat-out.

I believe there are good reasons, looking at the numbers, that the trajectory of the wave has almost peaked or is at its peak. I really hope from here, things will get better.

MAN’S FEMALE BOSS SAW HIS SECRET LUPSUP IG ACCOUNT & LIKED HIS POSTS

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Today my boss wanted to show me a picture on her Instagram. We talked for a bit and at the end I told her I’d send her a friend request.

Stupid me, forgot to switch back to my normal account and sent a friend request from my ultra weird and kinky account.

I didn’t realize my mistake until I clocked out for the day. When I checked my Instagram I saw that she had liked some of my posts but not accepted my friend request, and reasonably so. I immediately freaked out and sent a friend request from my normal account.

I might be overreacting because that account is completely anonymous. It doesn’t have a single picture of me on it.

The issue is that it’s very lewd and has photos that turn me on. It’s flooded with countless lewd drawings of women of all shapes and sizes. They’re not real graphic but some of the captions I wrote certainly are. I’m also a great artist and writer so it doesn’t look like a strange kid’s MS paint project.

I don’t know what to do. The account can’t be linked to me in any way. I’m nervous because I literally told her I’d send her a friend request and that was the account that sent her the request immediately!!

As I mentioned she did like a few of the posts on that account which makes it so much worse. She 100% saw my posts.

It’s possible she only saw drawings of beautiful pregnant women? My boss is a MILF and was pregnant a few years ago which means she might have liked them haphazardly and didn’t realize what the account was?

It’s hard to miss though. I’m hoping she doesn’t connect the dots and thinks it was some random account. Ahhhh!

NETIZEN SHARES “HACK” ON HOW TO REDEEM NS55 CREDITS AS CASH

If you are a national serviceman who is eligible for the NS55 Recognition Package, you need to pay attention now.

A TikTok user, @kpherluke, shared a “legit hack” on 5 July, showing how he redeemed the $100 NS55 credits as cash at a Sheng Siong $TM (Simple Teller Machine).

He was seen in the video choosing the “PayNow” option on the machine, and keyed in $90, before collecting it in cash.

He explained that you cannot withdraw $100 as there is a 20 cents convenience fee, thus the reason for only withdrawing $90, leaving him with $9.80 in credits.

The credits can only be accessed with the LifeSG app, and the user will have to press on the “benefits and support” button, before choosing the “scan and pay” option.

Then just scan the QR code at the $TM and you can get your money already.

Other netizens who have presumably tried @kpherluke’s “hack” have purportedly also succeeded in getting their hands on the cash.

It is not clear if the loophole has been discovered yet or not, and @kpherluke urged others to quickly withdraw their cash before the loophole is discovered.

Another netizen shared that the loophole has yet to be patched as he had just tried it and succeeded in withdrawing the credits as cash as well.

You can check the locations of Sheng Siong outlets with $TM machines here.

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Source: @kpherluke on TikTok