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AIR STEWARDESS MOLESTED BY SUPERIOR WITH HER HUSBAND RIGHT THERE

A 51-year-old senior cabin crew member was sentenced to 3 weeks imprisonment on 20 June after pleading guilty to molesting a 31-year-old air stewardess on board a flight from Singapore to the Netherlands in November 2018.

This is after he was initially jailed 5 weeks back in March for molesting another 24-year-old air stewardess in May 2019 while on a flight from Singapore to Manila.

The man was the highest-ranking cabin crew member at the time as the in-flight manager during the flight back in 2018.

The victim’s husband was one of the pilots on the flight, which the man reported to.

The victim was in the galley area of the business class cabin on the plane, trying to retrieve a pair of shoes when the man came over to chat with her and her husband.

Later when she walked past him, he slapped her backside.

The victim was in shock and disbelief and didn’t confront him, and she also didn’t file a police report because the man had a young daughter and she didn’t want to cause him to lose his job.

Later, during another flight in 2019, the man molested yet another victim while she was speaking to a passenger in the business class cabin, and the victim then reported the incident to the flight captain.

The captain then called for a meeting in the cockpit and the man then confessed to molesting the second victim, swearing that it was his first time doing it.

She then reported the man to the police when she returned to Singapore.

The first victim then found out that the molester was caught molesting someone else and she too filed a police report against him.

GIRL CAN’T AFFORD CLOTHES OR MAKEUP FOR PAKTOR, ASKS IF GUYS ARE OKAY

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Would guys be ok with cheap dates and girls who don’t dress up ?

19F, didn’t really have much experience dating before so I’m asking on here. I’m low SES and due to my circumstances, I don’t really have the money to afford clothes or makeup.

Although I had sugar daddy offers I turned them all down as I felt it was degrading on my part to accept the easy money.

Thus, I just settle for t shirt and shorts with slippers albeit I’ve been told I have a pretty face which will look prettier if i doll up .

On that note, would guys be ok with a girl who can’t afford to dress up, I always see the well dressed tik tok girls on my FYP and can’t help but compare myself against them.

Also, would guys my age be okay with cheap dates such as to hawker Centers, I always see my friends going on cafe dates and nah can’t afford it. (I would prefer to split when out on dates)

Thanks and yes these are genuine qns T_T

GF SLEEPS WITH BF BUT ANGRY THAT HE TOUCHED HER NEH NEH POK

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Possibility of non-consensual touching.

This is pretty embarrassing for me to write, and I don’t feel safe asking for advice other than social media.

A few days ago, I spent the night with my boyfriend for the first time. We’ve been together for over a year but due to past experiences I was nervous to stay the night with him.

All was fine until at about 5am when I woke up and he was awake anyway. I spoke to him for about a minute but I was half asleep so turned over to go back to sleep.

He kept grabbing and squeezing my bottom and top, I kept batting his hands away and telling him to stop. He just carried on. He didn’t just do it through clothes either, he put his hands into my pants and bra etc.

This went on for about an hour until I decided to just get up, I left a couple of hours later. I’m confused because it has left me pretty upset but I’m not sure if I have the right to be upset since he’s my boyfriend and didn’t do anything more than what I have described.

He is completely loving to me all of the time, so this really shocked me as I wasn’t expecting him to do this. Am I right to be upset? Please could someone give me advice?

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GIRL SAYS SHE GOT DRUNK & “LOST HER BODY” AFTER DRINKING

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Im bipolar and currently unmedicated at the moment. I hate trying to hide behind my disorder, but I always put myself in the most horrible and obviously dumb situations. A 20-year-old (at the time) who took my V when I was 16, had stopped talking to me for about 3 years and sent me a friend request on Facebook about 5 days ago.

I didn’t really think about why he sent me a request but I had been going out and partying a lot in my manic state. He told me to call him and he apologizes for some things that happened in the past.

He had mentioned he had alcohol which was my sole purpose for getting together with him.

I thought it’d be okay if I told him I wanted to hang out as a friend. I was taking shot after shot and I eventually got tired and laid down. We were watching the movie he put on and he pulled me under him and started kissing my neck.

I started to consent while I was drunk, after a second I kinda wanted it to stop but didn’t say anything.

I ended up blacking out completely while he was on top of me but he told me he kept going until he decided not to anymore due to me blacking out the next morning.

If I were sober I wouldn’t have wanted to have sex and once I sobered up I started to comprehend more and more that he still had sex with me when I was unconscious. I’ve been a mess ever since.

I have more sense than to do this but I feel like my mental health just puts me in a state to make decisions like this one, and it messed me up even worse.

Has anyone ever been through something similar?

MAN USED TO LIKE MEN, DREAMT OF WOMEN & WANTS TO TRY CHANGING

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I could like woman too. I’m coming from an extremely conservative and homophobic family. Since I’m 11 I experienced the weird male attraction. I started to aim after the male attention because it was the only approval I got.

For my body, my appearance, and my “adult” behaviour. I got groomed so bad, that I just recently understood (I’m 24 now) why I felt secure around people who treated me badly and left me with guilt because “I could have known better”.

Till this day I am struggling so hard with setting boundaries and defending them, it’s ridiculous. But also understandable for me (therapy actually did something).

I never really had any closer interaction with woman. For the longest time my internalized misogyny caused just more pain for me and other woman. I got jealous so fast and I always feared that other woman would take away my place in a group.

That I’m going to be unimportant. This happened in the past with my stepmother, who wanted me out of their family and in the end succeeded. I ended up being alone without my parents and a lot of men took advantage of that.

Over the last month I frequently thought about women and how it would be. I don’t like to label myself, I just keep every option and see what’s about to come.

I don’t know if I can be in a relationship with a woman. I don’t think so. Last night I had a dream. I was getting close with a woman. We didn’t have S but I was touching her body and I really liked that. Now the thoughts of a woman are again fresh out of the oven. Maby in a couple of month, when I’m a bit more stable and grounded,

I’ll give it a try. Of course while being open and honest what I’m expecting and looking for. I’m looking for an experience.

My last relationships sucked. One was manipulative, the other one didn’t care about using rubber that much. I wanna see something new. My whole life I got restricted or restricted myself.

Just some thoughts. I’m going through a tough time currently and trying to find my own path.

RICH MAN TOLD THAT HE IS A GOLD DIGGER CAUSE HE WANTS A WIFE OF THE SAME STATUS

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I a 38y.o guy am recently divorced. I was hanging out with a group of friends on Saturday who I haven’t seen in a while, and my divorce was an inevitable topic of conversation. My ex and I split amicably with no nasty court case or anything, and most of the questions were about what happened, and why.

Eventually, questions came up about me dating again. I wouldn’t say that I’m ready to start dating yet, but the conversation was more about what I would look for in a partner.

One of the things I mentioned is that I’d ideally want someone who was career-focused, professional, and made good money. Most understood, but one person there in particular who seemed to take issue was Alice. She isn’t a close friend of mine and I’ve only met her a couple of times, but she was good friends with others who were there.

Alice tells me that money and career should never be part of the criteria when it comes to romantic partners. She continues that if I only choose to date people with money, then I’m no better than gold-digging women who marry for money.

For context, I’m a pretty ambitious professional with a career that I’ve been working very hard on for years, and make a little over 200k/year. My ex is a baker by profession and was pretty burnt out by the time we met. We were together for nearly 10 years, and I supported her financially for that entire time. She didn’t really have any career ambition which made it hard for her to empathize or relate to mine.

I tried to explain to Alice that it wasn’t the same, and that after the experience with my ex it was more about finding someone I can relate to, who I won’t end up having to financially support. She counters that rejecting someone who might be a lovely person just because they don’t make enough money makes me a bad person.

TWISTED EX-WIFE WANT GO COURT, AS EX-HUSBAND’S NEW GF HELP CUT HER DAUGHTER’S HAIR

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Background: I know i’m the bad one here. My ex husband and I separated in October 2019. We had three kids over the course of 14 years, but neither of us were happy, nor had we been intimate for almost a year.

My children, current ages 15M, 10F, 6M, reside with their father, even though we have joint legal/physical custody. Kids wanted to stay in their childhood home and not change schools. This is an area that’s completely unaffordable for a single person, so I had to move a few hours away as I am paying him child support.

I met and fell in love with a wonderful man, who I am still with today, but, yes, I did cheat as technically I was still married.

My children met this man in April 2020 approx. six months after we started dating. Fast forward six months to October 2020, my now ex-husband (quick divorce due to it being uncontested and during COVID), is dating my boyfriend’s ex-wife.

Eight months later, he moved her and her three children (10F, 8M, 6M) into the house with my kids. Just a bit of info, this woman received a cash settlement of $250K+ during the divorce, so no, she’s not hurting for money and gets another $2500 a month in child support plus in addition to the $1700 I pay.

The issues:

My ex-husband refuses to let me have my children for half of the June holidays, even though they WANT to come and stay with me. The new GF and ex insist that my boyfriend and I get our kids at the same time, even though my kids want to have alone time with me, without these kids. Ex and GFs excuse is they want to go on a vacation.

I feel like we pay them enough, that it’s not our responsibility to coordinate with them so that they can go on a trip (ex-MIL has lived in the house since 2017 as well). They can obviously afford a babysitter or drive/fly their kids to a relative for a week. My parents live 1 hour away and would be happy to watch mine.

I picked my children up at the airport on Wednesday and my daughter’s hair had been cut – probably 10cm off the back. My ex promised me many times via text during the past year that he would NEVER let his GF cut my daughters hair (as she cuts her own kids).

I was devastated as it looks awful (this is a person who shouldn’t quit her day job) and when I asked my daughter (I didn’t make much of the issue because I didn’t want her to think I was upset), she said it was because the GF couldn’t get her hair into a bun before the ballet recital, so off it went.

I confronted my ex, he said his mom was supposed to take her to get it cut, but didn’t, and since I wasn’t around, he said fine. My own mother went to this recital and drove my daughter back and forth.

A simple phone call and she could have taken her to a salon prior. If not, I picked my daughter up two days later… they couldn’t have waited? The ex MIL knew how upset I was going to be.. yet GF and ex did it anyway. I have many stories like this, but ex says I’m the person overreacting.

Should I go to court?

GIRL GOT BF BUT STILL WANTS MALE COLLEAGUE TO TEXT HER DAILY

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Male colleague texts me everyday even though I have a bf

I’m a female. Last year I was shortlisted by my boss to work on a few months project with other dept colleagues. During the project, I became close with a male colleague. Ever since we get close he text me almost everyday to chat. We can chat everything under the sun.

It has been 1 year already. Now I crave for his text, if I did not receive his text, I miss him a lot. I wonder why he did not text me that day, is it cos he is too busy.

Sometimes I wonder why he put in so much effort to keep the conversation going with me. I try to find out if he likes me. But I think the answer is no. Is he bored? I think yes, but he can always find another person to chat also right?

I wanted to stop the daily texting with him. But I have already enjoy his text so much that if I ignore his text, I will hurt myself emotionally. He is a nice guy. I will hurt him as well. I believe no one wants to be ignored when u text the person right?

The reason why I want to stop the daily texting is because he is not my bf, hence I do not wish to continue but I also enjoy his attention when he text me haha. Anyone experience the same thing? How do u manage?

MOTHER DEMANDS MONEY TO GO FOR PLASTIC SURGERY

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My mother is in her mid 50’s and she’s well capable of working. She hasn’t worked an actual job in about 13 years because she expects all of her kids to basically give her an allowance for her to do whatever she wants.

Every time I give her money she needs some more the day after and she always has “financial issues” she needs to fix. She even went to Korea last year in November to get surgery for her butt and waist(plastic surgery not medical) and expected all her children to send her a thousand dollars but none of us complied so she had to ask a friend to let her borrow money. (Which now she wants us to help her pay it back but we are still not falling for it)

Like I mentioned before she’s well capable of having a job but chooses not to.

She expects her 4 children to take care of her but we have our own responsibilities and financial hardships. It bothers me the most because since she is a narcissistic manipulator and knows I’m the easiest one to manipulate she loves to put all her burdens on me because she thinks I will help her do it.

But I am tired of her taking advantage of only me out of all her children and always asking me for money and favors. AITA for no longer allowing her to juice me and take advantage of me? For some context, I am 24 and married (and pregnant) My little sister is 17 ( but part time employed and studying) and my two big brothers are in their early 30’s and they’re married and they have children)

 

 

MAN TOOK PLANE FOR FIRST TIME, ASKED IF HE NEEDS TO BRING A PARACHUTE

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A netizen shared a story online after bringing his employee overseas for work.

He shared that the employee did not take a plane before and asked all sorts of questions that makes no sense or were just absolutely hilarious.

Here is the story:

This happened just as the borders start to open and I had to travel to the states with my employee who I hired about 6 months ago.

When I told him about the trip he said he had to seek permission from his mother, for context he is 27.

I told him “If your mother tells you, you can’t go your fired and you will personally get a 1 year supply of diapers from me”.

Yeah, I know I sound mean but we often joke like that in the office.

So he eventually got his mother to consent to the trip and he started to ask me what is allowed or not allowed in the luggage.

He then popped a question: “Do I need to bring a parachute?”.

His tone was not joking! I answered him “Maybe you can tell me where got sell parachute? Maybe you can try NTUC or Sheng Siong”.

He nodded as he had no idea I was being sarcastic, I quickly told him there are no parachutes and he started to panic.

I eventually cleared the “education session” of flying with him and we were on the plane.

When the plane was taking off, he wet himself and started shaking. I had to tell him several times that it is completely normal but he was going to burst into panic mode soon.

I ordered alcohol as soon as the service starts and I made him drunk asap. So I don’t have to watch him.

We eventually landed and the first thing he did was to change his pants, during the whole flight the smell was just unbearable.

He did try to dry his pants in the toilet but it only made it worse.