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GUY SINGLE ALL HIS LIFE & ONLY BEEN ON 1 DATE, ASKS HOW TO ACCEPT HIS FATE

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I have been single for all my life (25 years, male). I have tried dating apps for around 2 years now, and while I do get some matches (one per month on average), I think the problem is me because I can never seem to get out of the talking stage.

I have only been on 1 date my whole life. The pandemic did make finding people outside of apps difficult, but even now as I try social groups etc the people there just aren’t in my age range.

How does, or should, one acquiesce in the fact that one may never be able to find a partner?

A lot of people tell me being single is great: I have freedom, I can save money etc, that I should just wait for the right one and she will come eventually, that I should embrace my singlehood, that I should love myself more and all the typical things that people in a relationship will tell their single friends etc etc.

I just feel so lonely and sad. But the reason why I desire a companion is because I’m not close to my family and my friends rarely entertain me anymore (due to school/work/presence of girlfriend etc).

I suppose in life, there are some things that one just cannot have… For a good education at NUS and a stable, high-paying job in the civil service, I seem to have traded all that in in return for not having a love life (or rather, an ugly face).

My job is highly demanding and stressful and I’m just so afraid I’ll go crazy if I don’t have an outlet/supportive network to seek.

So I guess my main questions is: How would/should one acquiesce in not being able to find a partner for emotional support?

Editor’s note: For the readers, “acquiesce” means to accept something reluctantly.

MAN’S LAST WORDS TO HIS DYING MOTHER: “I WISH YOU WERE NOT MY MUM”

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A netizen shared a story about how he brought his boyfriend to visit his dying mother, but she apparently disapproved of him and his last words to his mother before she died was “I wish you were not my mother.”

Here is his story

“My mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer about a year ago, and in the weeks leading up to her death, she always expressed her interest in meeting my girlfriend.

She knew that I was attached but didn’t know that I was attached with a guy, she doesn’t know that I am actually into guys but since she was already on her deathbed, I thought it’s time to come clean to her.

I brought my boyfriend to see her, and her eyes lit up when she saw me, and she seemed to have found the strength to smile somehow.

She asked me who the guy beside me was, and I told her, “mummy, i want to introduce my boyfriend to you, this is Ayden.”

Her smile then slowly faded away as she became very visibly upset, and even as she struggled to breathe, she still managed to tell me “i asked you to bring home a girlfriend and you bring home a guy.”

At this point Ayden felt uncomfortable and left the room, as I tried to explain to my mother about my secret for all these years.

She told me that this is unacceptable and that she wouldn’t accept him, and in a fit of anger, I told her “I really wish you were not my mum” before storming off.

I went over to my boyfriend’s home to spend the rest of the day, trying to explain the situation, when I got a phone call from my auntie that my mother had passed away.

And now a whole wave of different emotions hit me – anger, sadness, desperation, helplessness.

I was still angry at my mother but it subsided so much after she passed, and it was taken over by regret and overwhelming sadness.

I really wish I hadn’t said that to her before she died, and now I can’t do anything to take it back.”

Editor’s note: I’m sure your mother knows that you didn’t really mean it and still loved you right till the end.

SCAMMER PRETENDS TO BE MAYBANK STAFF, ‘PAY $50K OR I CALL POLICE”

I received a call from “Customer Service Officer” Eric Ho (62351981) from Maybank Jurong Point branch. He told me over the phone that he is calling to remind me that I have not made any payment to my loan that I applied with Maybank.

I told him that was not true as I have not applied any loans at all. He further assured me that I did opened a (current account: 5304 8322 1190) on 16 Feb 2022 at Jurong Point branch and that I have applied $50k loan (Loan Account: 779 000 4489) thereafter and the loan was approved on 20 Apr 2022. I then informed him that this is fraud.

He told me he would submit my request to his department to make a Police report at the Commercial Affair Department. He then told me that he was going to transfer me internally to their CAD emergency line and advise me to wait for the transfer call to be linked, I agreed. During line transfer, I hung up the call. straight away “CAD” called me back (62354037 & 62353360).

2nd Story: ONLINE FRIEND HURLED VULGARITIES AFTER I REFUSED HIM MONEY

Meet this guy via okc, he claimed he working in jurong island, from Canada, only sons in the family, 42 year old.

After talking on WhatsApp’s for about 3 weeks and we decided to meet up, he suddenly said he have cash flow issue for his workers, he needed sgd4.8k for his business, else he will lost his entire project.

After I rejected him on his request, he started to insult me on text and scolded me with vaulgar words.
Below are his contact details:

name: steve b d
contact: 8104xxxx
email address: [email protected]

3rd Story: MY ACCOUNT WAS HACKED AFTER I GAVE MY OTP

Game account hacked, I was selling my cod mobile account as I was getting bored of the game,and my dad strongly advised me to take back the money I spent via Carousell. Anyways, the scammer approached me under the status of an interested customer when he requested letting him take a brief look in the account,i agreed, however, he said he had trouble logging in due to a “2-step verification” feature, and that I send him the OTP. Thinking nothing of it at the time, I sent it to him, and before long,

i had received a notification stating that my email and password had been changed to another one. I was extremely shocked, and went back to the app to confront the scammer. However, he simply laughed and belittled me,before blocking me. I have attempted to make actions by contacting the help centre of the platform my account was in, as well as Carousell.

A friend of mine also attempted to threaten him into returning account, but the scammer was suspended before he could make actions. Now, I have no way to reach him.

2.it happened just today, 1st june

MAN KICKED AND PUNCHED IN FACE IN PUNGGOL BY RAGING STORE OWNER

On 25/05/2022 at about 11.30AM, I was at Nibong LRT station and proceeded to a convenience store that was on level 2 to purchase cigarettes and some groceries. Subsequently, I realised that the cigarette price increased and further enquired with the cashier on the price.

The cashier confirmed with me and I mentioned that it doesn’t matter, and I will pay the difference. Subsequently, I asked her to check with the management on the price difference and her husband who was the owner did confirm that the price is intended SGD$9.90 for the pack of cigarettess. She told me that I had an attitude and that if I didn’t want to purchase. I didn’t have to. Immediately after, she told me and my wife that she was not going to sell anything to us.

I agreed to her and left the store. As I was leaving the store, the cashier threw a bottle of coke in our direction, but it did not hit either one of us. I ignored her and continued to walk away. As I was heading down to level 1, I bumped into the husband.

I would like to mention that I frequently buy items from her store and recognize most of the staff that’s working there. The husband was agitated and told me what happened and why I smashed up the store. I denied that I did and only wanted to enquire about the price difference.

Subsequently, in the midst of talking, the husband gave me a punch on the right side of my face and continued to punch. The glasses that I wore broke. I could not remember how many punches he gave me. I told him to stop and walked away but he followed me and kicked me on the stomach.

Afterwards, he requested me to follow him to his store and I did. We further talked in his store and there was no damage to be found.

Only a few lighters dropped off the shelf. I did mention to him that I could pay if there was any damage to be found but he told me that it was not a matter of money. I would like to State that he kept threatening me to go down and fight. I did not talk back to him and left afterwards. My wife called the police afterwards but as I was in a rush for work.

I told her that I did not require any police assistance. I did not visit any clinic and have Panadol at home. The right side of my face is still swollen, and I feel slightly giddy.

FB LIVE SELLER FINED $3K FOR NOT WEARING MASK AT HER SHOP REPEATEDLY

34-year-old Niki Han Jiayi, a director of a fashion store, was fined $3,000 on 2 June for not wearing her mask at her Far East Plaza Shop on several occasions during the pandemic.

She was seen in her Facebook live videos without a mask on, interacting with customers, as well as modelling a dress in September and October 2020.

Han pleaded guilty to three charges under the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) Act, with 18 other similar charges being considered for her sentencing.

Han is listed as a director and shareholder of Nimisski Fashion, as well as 3 other companies with the name Nimisski.

The fashion shop sells women’s clothing and accessories and has outlets at Suntec City and Paragon.

Han was hosting a Facebook live stream to sell her products on 29 September 2020, and was seen interacting with customers in the background without a facemask on sometime between 3pm to 4.15pm

She did the same thing again on 6 October 2020, between 3pm to 5pm.

Han was once again seen interacting with customers without a face mask on 17 October between 3pm to 5.50pm, while modelling a dress and promoting it verbally.

Enforcement officers from Singapore Tourism Board conducted online checks of Facebook live videos that were streamed from the premises and she was observed through the videos to have not worn a mask on several occasions.

Han also had an unrelated previous conviction of selling counterfeit products in 2018.

Images source: Nimisski on Facebook and Google Maps

GIANT PYTHON SEEN OUTSIDE BEDOK FLAT, AREA CORDONED OFF BY ACRES

A resident living at a HDB unit at Bedok Reservoir Road, received a surprise visit from an unexpected guest when he was trying to leave his home.

A huge python was spotted outside his unit slithering around his window.

The incident happened on 2 June at about 6.30am, and residents noticed that a huge python was hanging outside a first floor unit at Block 126 Bedok Reservoir Road, according to Shin Min Daily News.

Just chilling

The snake was seen chilling on the window, which was closed at the time, and it was also seen slithering across the window panes.

A cleaner had apparently spotted the python and reported it to the council, and the police were then notified.

The area was then cordoned off by the police and the tenant of the affected unit, said that the police officers told him to stay inside his flat.

ACRES to the rescue

Officers from the Animal Concerns Research and Educations Society (ACRES) then arrived at about 9am to remove the reptile.

The snake was then grabbed safely and placed into an enclosure to be brought away.

Snake likely came from nearby drains

CEO of Acres, Kalai Vanan S/O Balakrishnan said that their officers were not able to get to the affected unit immediately due to the morning traffic jam.

He thanked the town council and the police for ensuring the safety of the members of the public, and that the public was very cooperative and kept a safe distance from the snake.

He added that the python had very likely come from nearby drains and claimed onto the window pane to “feel safer”.

Images source: lanaEyzana Budi Ryzale and Khairin Ruzain on Facebook and Denskie TV26 on YouTube.

M’SIAN MAN FINED $5,000 FOR SMUGGLING PYTHONS INTO SG VIA TUAS

A driver attempted to smuggle two pythons into Singapore and was caught by immigration officers at Tuas Checkpoint.

51-year-old Malaysian Pulenthiran Palaniappan was fined SGD$5,000.

The snakes were later discovered that they were suffering and they there in poor health condition due to poor handling.

Background:

On 7 April 2022, officers from the Immigration & Checkpoints Authority (ICA) at Tuas Checkpoint conducted checks on a Malaysia-registered lorry transporting cement and uncovered a styrofoam box of live snakes.

The styrofoam box, which was hidden in the lorry’s cabin area, was found to have multiple perforations on its sides. The Malaysian driver had initially claimed that the box contained food but upon further questioning, he admitted that it contained live snakes.

As the driver did not possess valid import permits, he was referred to the National Parks Board (NParks) for investigation. NParks examined the snakes at its Centre for Wildlife Rehabilitation. The snakes have been identified as Reticulated Pythons (Malayopython reticulatus), which is a species protected under Appendix II of the Convention on International Trade in Endangered Species of Wild Fauna and Flora (CITES), and are around 4.8m and 3.8m long.

AIRLINE FINED AFTER UNTRAINED PILOT LANDED PLANE IN INDIAN CITY

Vistara, an Indian airline that is a joint venture of Singapore Airlines and Tata group, was fined after a passenger plane was landed by an untrained first officer who didn’t complete the required training.

A senior official of India’s aviation regulator said that the incident; which happened during a landing in Indore, India last year, was a serious violation, endangering the lives of the passengers on board.

Captain and first officer didn’t complete training

He added that the captain of the flight was also not simulator-trained on how to guide a first officer during landings.

The plane was reportedly landed safely and no injuries or casualties were reported.

Vistara, had 49% of the airline owned by Singapore Airlines and 51% by Tata Group, was fined 1 million rupees (or SGD$17,700).

A “regrettable violation”

Vistara had reportedly voluntarily reported the incident to regulators, with the airline calling it a “regrettable violation”.

They had given take-off and landing clearance to the first officer without any training.

According to the official, both first officers and captains are required to train on flight simulators before they are allowed to land or guide colleagues to land a plane with passengers on board.

MAS – MEASURES INTRODUCED TO FIGHT DIGITAL SCAMS, SUCH AS “KILL SWITCH”

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The Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS) and the Association of Banks in Singapore (ABS) said on 2 June that they will be introducing a “kill switch”, which is an emergency self-service measure, to help fight digital banking scams.

It is one of a few additional measures against scams that are being implemented by the banks progressively, and they will be in full effect by the end of October.

Kill switch

The “kill switch” allows customers to suspend their bank accounts swiftly if they think that their bank accounts have been compromised.

Other measures to be introduced include requiring additional confirmation to process significant changes to customer accounts and other high risk transactions.

Default transaction limits for online fund transfers will also be set at $5,000 or lower.

Anti scam centre

The rapid account freezing and fund recovery operations of the banks will also be co-locating their staff at the Singapore Police Force’s Anti Scam Centre, where fraud surveillance systems will also be enhanced to take into account a wider spectrum of scam scenarios.

They also encouraged bank customers to use mobile banking apps instead of web browsers to reduce the risk of navigating to fake, scam websites.

Customers are also advised to refer to official sources for hotline numbers and website addresses, turn on their in-app notifications of their banking apps, and never reveal their banking information to anyone.

They said that while the enhanced measures may lengthen the time for customers to complete online banking transactions, this is needed to achieve a greater level of security.

NEXT WAVE OF COVID-19 COULD HIT US IN JULY OR AUGUST – ONG YE KUNG

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Minister of Health Ong Ye Kung said that the next wave of Covid-19 infections would hit Singapore in July or August, and that healthcare institutions must be prepared.

He was speaking at the MOH annual work plan seminar on 2 June, and he said that Singapore cannot afford to do what it did during the Omicron wave, where many infected people were taken to public hospitals because the facilities where they were being cared for couldn’t manage them properly.

Need to be ready

Ong added that “every healthcare setting needs to be Covid-ready, to be able to handle your own infections, take care of them. because with vaccination, most will recover uneventfully.”

Singapore is getting itself prepared for another wave of Covid-19 infections from the BA.4 and BA.5 Omicron sub-variants that were first discovered in South Africa.

Ong added that the good news is that the cases there peaked at a lower level than the original Omicron wave, without a sharp rise in deaths and hospitalisations.

Build up defences

Ong highlighted the need to build up Singapore’s defences in three ways, namely the rolling out of home care services by hospitals which frees up beds while allowing patients to receive care at home.

Secondly, many long term patients are waiting for places in nursing homes and if the number of nursing home beds can be increased, the patients can be moved there.

Third, community treatment facilities need to change how they work – they were set up last year to receive elderly Covid patients who were stable but required closer monitoring.

They must now be redesigned to take in any patient that doesn’t need acute care of hospitals, regardless of the ailment.

Third booster shot for seniors

Ong also highlighted that seniors above 60 need to be convinced to get their booster shot because they are the most vulnerable.

Around 12% of those in that age group have yet to get their third shot yet.