My wife is a stay at home mom for our 2 kids and I work full-time as the sole income provider for the family. I am slowly working on paying back my student loans.

My wife recently received a relatively large inheritance, about 10x the number of my student loans.

A month after everything regarding the inheritance was settled, I talked with my wife about using the inheritance to pay off my loans. She refused to give me any of the money and said the inheritance belongs only to her. I told her that, yes, legally that’s true but we are a family and we should share our resources to make our burdens easier.

She disagreed and said my student loans pre-date our marriage and are my sole responsibility.

I felt like she was being unfair to our relationship and to us as a family, so the next day I told her that if she was not going to help me pay off her student loans, now that she has money I will not be paying for any expense that is solely hers (like clothes, eating out, flights, makeup, spas, new phone, etc.).

Instead, I will be putting that money towards my loans to pay them back faster. She accused me of being controlling with money and abusing my position as the income-earner but I don’t see why I should be responsible for all that when she has her own money now?

Here are what netizens think:

• Sometimes woman want an emergency fund. Especially if their husband is controlling, or other red flags.

• I agree with you. It’s been made clear to him by his wife that his debt is his debt and that he’s on his own — and of course he wants to clear it off as soon as possible. And if that means putting an extra $500 towards it instead of his wife’s non-necessities, which she can now afford herself — then it is perfectly reasonable for him to do so.

• But the money he’s putting into the household is essentially paying her in a way for childcare, cooking and cleaning, that’s how it works when one parent stays home.

A netizen shared a story about how he went to a Thai disco with his friends and saw his father inside, drinking with a siambu.

Here is the story

I went *club name redacted* with my friends at *location redacted* a few weeks ago to celebrate my one of my friend’s birthday.

We ordered about 10 towers for the 4 of us and planned to have a really good time, anyway all 4 of us were single and we were trying to see if we could hook up with a siambu at the disco.

We were about 6 towers in, and I had drank probably the most because one of my friends was spending the whole night trying to siam drinks.

Needless to say, I was floating a little bit already.

I looked around trying to check out the siambus and i glanced across a table that was probably 5 tables across from our table.

I saw my dad.

He was drinking with a siambu and I thought I saw wrong, so I stumbled across to his table to confirm and yep, it was indeed him.

Just for a little bit of context, my parents have what I thought was a happy marriage and I always thought they loved each other.

I asked him what he was doing there, and he just said he was unwinding after work. I even saw him hanging $100 flower for the siambu that was drinking at his table.

He warned me not to say anything to my mother, which of course I kept the secret.

Anyway the night went on and I figured screw it (plus i was also pretty drunk), so I asked my dad and his siambu to join us at our table.

We even asked his siambu to introduce some girls and my friend even managed to bring her back to a hotel.

They have been texting almost every day ever since.

What a night huh?

Editor’s note: Never jio your mother to come along next time also?

A netizen recently shared a story after travelling to Bangkok and doing something ridiculous in the heat of the moment.

Here is the story:

I was travelling with a friend who enjoys the red lights but does not enjoy drinking. I was having a swell time drinking as it was much cheaper in Thailand than in Singapore.

So my friend who was very hungry decided to go to Soi Cowboy to find the girl of his dreams…

There were two girls sitting with us and I didn’t mind buying a drink and chatting casually. My friend on the other hand is all about his “hands”. He stretches into the woman’s clothes and does what many men enjoy.

I’m no saint, I just don’t find them attractive.

Soon after the girl touched him back he was like a dog in heat and starts to strike a deal with the woman, the woman wanted 3,000 baht + 500 bar fine for the “shot”. My friend turned to me and asked me to negotiate with the woman as I could speak Thai.

I managed to get the price down to 2,500 baht.

After drinking we returned to our room and he began to do his “job” while I sat in the living room and continued to drink my beer.

After a couple of beers, my friend was out of the room and told me that the girl got drunk and got “on him” before he had a chance to wear the magical “umbrella”.

I asked if he stopped he said he was “in heat” like the mating season of some wild animal and he could not stop.

The day after he started to develop a rash around his neck and he insist that his “clothes” are dirty and its not some diseases.

I told him to go see a doctor if the symptoms persist.

I’m a guy so my best female friend and I have had some relationship problems in the past, but this might have been the tipping point for me.

We met when we were 15 and I knew that she was in love with me for a while, she asked me out and I said no, after that her feelings past (or so I thought) we remained friends. When we were 16 we became best friends and that was kind of the high point of our friendship.

When we were 21 is kind of when the problems started brewing. She had a very difficult time, she became kind of overprotective and possesive for a while. When I did something she thought was risky, she would call me a ton of times. When I started dating my girlfriend at the time, she said things to the effect of be careful she might be using me, she had a full on mental breakdown at a party when I told her I had S with my girlfriend because she didn’t trust her, she also told me that one of my friends who I was getting closer to might be using me. At one point she burned bridges with a lot of our friends, so I was one of the few she had left. Once we were on a festival and we shared a bed and she would get closer than was appropriate and that I was comfortable with, though I never said anything. We didn’t hang much for a few months after all that.

That brings us to this year, she seemd to have really grown alot and got herself together, she got herself some new friends. I kept myself at a little bit of a distance from her so that our relationship would flow back into healthier waters, but she really seemd alot better and I was super happy for her because I really did care about her.

Drunk

This last week, however, we had our last day of school and we all bought booze and went drinking in this park nearby. She got super super wasted fast and confessed to me that she had a boyfriend and I was happy for her. She then put her head on my lap which I was comfortable with.

Then she started saying how his boylfriend and me are the two most important men in her life and she started kissing my thigh, like light pecks on my thigh, but alot of them and I got very uncomfortable very quickly. I then got up and told her I was going to talk to some other friends and she begged me stay a few more minutes and then I did while she drunkely rambles and at one point asks me If she is a bad girlfriend.

I walked away later, 20 minutes pass and she’s throwing up for a third time and I decide i really need to take her home. We go to the edge of park, I order her a grab and we sit on a bench, she then puts her head on my shoulder which was fine, but then she kisses my neck. I kind of freeze in shock and thankfully the grab arrives. I get her in there and go back to the party. The next day I send her a text that she made me uncomfortable and she thought it was because she told me she had a boyfriend.

Don’t get me wrong, I really care about her and we’ve known each other for a long time and we have had some truly great times together, but this might have been the last straw for me. I gave her a second chance once before and I don’t know if I could do it again.

I’m confused and kind of sad and dont really know what to do now about her. Any and all advice appreciated.