I met my ex-boyfriend when we were both 18 years old and had just graduated highschool, was about to start an internship and he was currently working at a supermarket and we just had a connection. At the time i was overweight at over 100Kg, it was hard to breathe, walk or do any activity without feeling extremly tired and sweting almost instantly. Also i couldn’t lay on my back as my own weight wouldn’t let me breathe.
He still would often tell me how sexy and beautiful i was and that was all i needed back then.
He was also overweight at about 150-175 Kg, and i didn’t care, i just loved his how he made me laugh and made me feel.
Things started changing about 1 year ago when we were 21 and i started to loose weight and looking back i see how the more weight i loose the more he would “avoid me”
I went from over 100 kg to 58 kg,so needed to buy new clothes as mine were now all baggy and my pants would fall off my body. When i happily showed my clothes he started saying how “weird” it was for me to buy and wear clothes that seem to only fit kids. That hurted but took it as a joke.
Some time after i bough a fanny pack and he said it was “gross” that i have to set it in the smallest adjust to feel comfortable wearing it, still took it as a joke.
The last few months we were barely talking or seing eachother, he would blame his work but stopped sending me his schedule as he used to for me to plan time for us…
Finally about one week ago i confronted him and said he just wasn’t attracted to me anymore and that he hadn’t been for some time and that’s when it all made sense.
He has always been attracted to BBW so he wasn’t happy when i lost weight and just lied saying he still loved me and…we even talked of getting married so i guess he lied about that as well.
It’s hard to think that once i shared everything with him and now all that link us is our shared Spotify account…
If you read all of this, thank you for bearing with me. Might not seem much for most but i just feel destroyed now and it will be very difficult for this to heal.
So me (24M) and my gf (22F) are on holiday in Spain, first time away in a long time and the weather is amazing. There’s a nudist beach and she asked to go as we have never been to one before. I don’t see the appeal but she has always been spontaneous and adventurous, one of the things I love about her, so I said okay let’s go.
When I think of a nudist beach, I think of old people. Very rarely do you get a younger demographic. Sadly this time I was mistaken.
Everyone seemed younger than 30, in incredible shape with a tan, and a lot of other things which I don’t need to spell out but you can probably guess.
I kept hearing my gf gasp and whisper “oh my god”. I made up an excuse so we left as my ego was getting battered, but she is annoyed and is now saying she will go back tomorrow without me.
A huge FU. Don’t go there if you’re even a tiny bit insecure.
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Pretty sure this was the plot of several movies where the girl ends up marrying the surfing instructor.
What no one has mentioned so far is that girlfriends behavior is incredibly unwelcome at any nude beach I’ve heard of.
The prefrontal cortex, which governs impulsive behavior, isn’t fully developed until age 25. That goes for men and women, who are equally likely to engage in stupid immature behavior. Men tend to exhibit their stupidity in more spectacular fashion, but some women these days are not to be outdone.
I’m 25 and my husband and I went to a nude last summer and I loved it. Until a group of 18 year old boys (fully clothed) walked through, whistling at every woman they saw. Until a few men, my husband included, “gently excorted them” off the beach.
Divorce laws can’t do anything to you. But I can show you how I survived the year of betrayal, torture, and devastation… I can’t do anything to you because of the law. But, face you don’t want anymore. Why should I keep you… Nine years of marriage, you smashed everything for a Chinese worker. On your side with divorce laws… I’ve been in a beating situation.
Why have I been home for my children for nine years. Fight for your life. In exchange for that it is… Depression… When I tell you that I can’t accept all this and suffer from depression, I’m afraid I really can’t think about it.
You said to me in cold blood. “So many people are going to die, why don’t you see you die?” I walked around the ghost door and came back. I knew I had to live for my children. I threw the lifeline desperately, but fortunately, someone really caught it. No one has a way to understand, just like that, completely withdraw the pillar of my life. Crushed… I’m glad I was able to leave that little bit of sanity and go to a psychiatrist to help myself. Why should I live so stubbornly? I am to you, to the family, to the children.
I’m not ashamed I try to be a 100% husband, 100% dad. In exchange for a merciless betrayal…
My heart is dead… I only ask you to raise your hands high and all the benefits of your children. Can be spread out to talk about and discuss… But you brought the dog bastard third party to me in front of the child and provoked.
Family ugliness must not be publicized. Pui…. The home is gone, what an ugly. I’m petty. Why don’t you stand in my shoes and take a look… Why should I swallow all my grievances into my stomach?
I’m for my family, I’m for my children. Desperately a man broke in… A lot of times when others are sleeping, I’m already working outside. When you just gave birth. I line up to work so that you can rest assured that you can recuperate.
After the birth of the child, I worked very hard to be a 24-hour filial piety father.
Be a new dad, learn how to bathe your newborn and take care of everything… Learn to cook for you to cook a healthy meal… Stewed red date water.
Accompany you to get up every two hours to feed… In the past nine years, I have done my job as a breadwinner, although you have quit your full-time job since you got married.
I take you all over the world, and when I have a work trip, I bring my family with me, so that my family can see different places, and different cultures. I did something wrong that left me alone with the pain of losing everything… Why.
The little dog bastard should be glad he was in Singapore and not here…
Otherwise, I might have beaten him, but I chose to be rational and take the legal route… In order not to want the child’s father to bear the legal responsibility of beating people, the Singapore Ministry of Labor has been pushing me for lack of evidence.
All I want is justice… All I want is for those who violate labour laws to be sanctioned… I was wrong about something. There are pictures, there are conversations. The grounds for divorce are also clearly stated on the divorce vow and are approved by both parties.
“She’s having an improper association with a third party and causing the breakdown of the marriage” and her transcription of the conversation also makes it clear that this disruption of the existence of a third party in the family… M.O.M ignored the evidence again and again, and let this criminal guy continue to be arrogant.
Thank you to those ex-wives’ pig friends. Let me know to treat them like my own friends. In exchange for a few more stabs in the back. Let me know for sure. It’s not like you can exchange a heart for a true friend.
I’m also thankful that I have a long class of true friends, family, who know me. Help me get my life back. Accompany me all the way down… Cry with me on the video call, drink with me… I really, live this life without regrets.
Don’t think the law is just… Because of this, I deeply feel that my children and my rights and interests have been completely eroded by the law. Adultery is not guilty.
For mothers, there is no need to prove anything to have a near advantage in child custody. For the father, in terms of custody, it is necessary to prove that the other party is not worthy of motherhood.
the injustice of divorce,
The divorce argument you made to me is something that I can completely overturn with evidence. But I still swallowed it all in my stomach… In order not to let his son be involved in the affairs of adults anymore
Deliberately destroying my family’s call PRC man, work permit holder
Worked as a delivery driver at woodlands Lee X noodle factory. I made it clear to him that he was taking wp to destroy the family in Singapore. In fact, the employment ordinance has been violated. But he brazenly challenged me to call the police. As seen in the screenshot, the other party was even bold enough to provoke me.
He said he wouldn’t mind buying two more plane tickets if he was sent home. The metaphor is to take my child with me. I have already called the police for the record. I really don’t want to give it all up like that. But was forced to have no choice. I know things are going to get awkward. When you choose to put your child in a mentally hurt situation again and again. I have to stand up. To be positive.
Earlier today, SCDF reported that a man was trapped under a large metal pipe between a trailer and a lorry.
Although SCDF successfully rescued the man, the man passed away later in the day at Tan Tock Seng Hospital.
The Ministry of Manpower reported that this is the 25th fatality case this year.
Background:
[Rescue @ 18, Defu Avenue 2]
At about 1.05pm today (27 May), SCDF was activated for a rescue incident involving a man that was trapped under a large metal cylindrical pipe between a trailer and a lorry.
Arriving first at the scene, SCDF firefighters and Emergency Medical Services from Paya Lebar Fire Station immediately conducted an assessment on the trapped man and promptly rendered medical assistance to stabilise him.
Rescuers from the elite Disaster Assistance and Rescue Team (DART) were also activated, and working together with the fire station crew, they used two air lifting bags to lift the pipe.
An air lifting bag is a thin and lightweight piece of rescue equipment that can be used in confined spaces, where bulkier rescue equipment would not be able to be deployed. When compressed air is filled into the air lifting bag, it expands and enables rescuers to lift, spread or create space between two objects, thereby facilitating the rescue operation.
Once the man was freed, an SCDF ambulance conveyed him to Tan Tock Seng Hospital.
On 19 May 2022, a worker was on the roof of a factory preparing for cleaning works when he fell through a skylight and landed 9.5 metres below. He was sent to the hospital, where he passed away. The worker was not wearing fall arrest equipment.
Working on sloping roofs is an inherently dangerous work activity as they may have fragile surfaces that a person could fall through. A similar accident involving fragile surfaces happened on 2 May 2022, where a renovation company owner fell through a false ceiling board. To prevent similar accidents, consider the following measures:
• Roof hazard assessment: Before starting work, confirm that the roof surface is able to support a person’s weight and identify if hazards exist (e.g. open sides, roof openings, fragile surfaces). Start work on roofs only after risk controls are in place.
• Identify fragile surfaces; communicate them to all: Any fragile surface found must be identified and clearly marked. Display warning signs at all entry points to work areas containing fragile surfaces. Install additional warning signs at the specific location(s) where fragile surfaces are found. Instruct workers never to step on fragile surfaces.
• Safe work method: Where possible, avoid stepping directly on sloping roofs. Consider working under the roof (e.g. using a tower scaffold) or above the roof (e.g. using a mobile elevated work platform) so that there is no need for workers to step on the roof. If work on a sloping roof is required, the use of roof ladders, gangways, crawl boards and roof brackets is recommended.
• Fall Prevention Plan (FPP): Implement a FPP and a Permit-To-Work system for work activities where a worker could fall more than three metres. Provide workers with fall arrest equipment and ensure they are 100 percent tied-off to a secure anchor point or horizontal lifeline when working on sloping roofs or near a fragile surface. Safety nets can also be installed under the roof as an additional fall protection measure.
• Worker training: Deploy only workers who have successfully completed the Workforce Skills Qualifications (WSQ) Perform Work at Height course to work on roofs.
Sometimes we go online to find the cheaper deals and most of the time that are often no issues with the product.
But sometimes, the product could turn out to be a disaster.
A netizen went on Carousell to look for a birthday cake with a train design and what she received is of subpar standards. It appears that the cake’s design did not satisfy the customer and it looks kind of ridiculous.
Here is what the netizen said:
Hi all, sharing ANOTHER HORROR baker story from carouHELL experienced by my sister. She decided to order a cake from this seller on carousell and requested for a train cake (as pictured) for my nephew’s 5th bday and what arrived today was totally unexpected, plain CRUEL AND NOT TO MENTION A JOKE! She paid $125 in TOTAL and for that TINY size, it’s RIDICULOUS! We were not expecting a super realistic grand high end cake but would you all serve this for your guests at a children’s birthday party?????????
Update: seller still has yet to give us an explanation
While the cake’s listed on the sellers profile seems to be perfect looking, the one that the customer received seems to be too expensive for $125.
A netizens commented that he would pay a maximum of $12 for a cake of this quality.
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Are those images of nice cakes on carousel the bakers actual cakes? Or did they get them from somewhere else? Hard to believe it’s the same baker!
Singapore Minister of Health Ong Ye Kung said in a Facebook post addressing the emergence of monkeypox cases in over 20 countries.
He said that “in the coming weeks, we should not be surprised if it is detected in Singapore, as our people travel widely and we are a commercial and international hub.”
Here is what he said
Over 200 cases of #monkeypox have been detected in over 20 countries. It is a virus that has likely jumped from animals, such as rodents, to human beings, in certain regions of Africa.
It has generated much interest, including at the World Health Assembly that I recently attended, as the disease is no longer a rare disease confined to certain places in Africa, but is being passed from humans to other humans in many parts of the world.
In other words, the cat is out of the bag.
In the coming weeks, we should not be surprised if it is detected in Singapore, as our people travel widely and we are a commercial and international hub. Thankfully we have in place the necessary protocols and public health measures, triggered by an imported case in 2019.
Monkeypox is very unlikely to be a pandemic like COVID-19. It is transmitted mostly by close physical contact, and not airborne like COVID-19, which transmits more quickly and widely.
For example, if you are very close to someone with rash lesions due to monkeypox, you can be infected.
The incubation period is about 1-3 weeks, and symptoms can last for 2-4 weeks. It usually, but not always, starts with a fever and chills, headache and muscle ache, and swollen lymph nodes. The typical monkeypox rash lesions then develops around the face/mouth or genital areas, before the rash spreads all over the body. It may look like a common chickenpox rash to the layperson and therefore review by a doctor is important. It can cause severe illness and deaths in a small percentage of patients.
Anyone with a new unexplained rash, even if you have not travelled recently, should see a doctor immediately to be examined, so that a diagnosis can be made and early treatment started. Most often it is due to another common disease like chickenpox, but if you have monkeypox, then you can receive appropriate care and prevent spread to people around you.
As for the general public, avoid close contact with individuals who are unwell with fever or have a pox-like rash. It is always good to maintain high standards of personal hygiene at all times, including washing of hands with soap before touching your face.
Images source: Ong Ye Kung Facebook and Nigeria Centre for Disease Control via World Health Organization
I know this guy for 6 years dated and all, planning to get married. Hais just recently, while we were in heated argument, he accidentallysaid “I will never forget my ex even after we married” and “My ex is better than u in 2 years of knowing her than u can ever do in 6 years” “She knows how to take care of her man, sweet, caring unlike you”. It hurts me so much and even while I was crying he never stopped saying all these hurtful things.
Alreadyin rs for 6 years, still haven’t moved on from his ex of only 2 years they dated. From then on, I already felt like want to just end it all but hais 6 years wasted gone to waste just like that… tbh, he’s not even my type but yeah there must be love to last till 6 years right? The most painful part is that he’s My first love… yes his ex is prettier than me and she is his type.
I know should just let go after being compared with ex all. Haisss… actually felt like we both dragged this rs way longer than it should be… hais cuz First love I guess. Hard to let go… but I know deep in my heart, if I were to end up married with this guy, it will be a loveless marriage just cuz first love. Hard to let go n forget… hais
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You both just having each other to pass time and not being alone. If a guy can say such things to you, no point staying anymore. It’s only pathetic, and more hurt will come your way.Is it only me who gets irritated at “hais” instead of “sigh”?
Hmmm….Sorry to burst your bubble but this r/s isn’t build on love. It’s build on “put up with”.
I don’t think guys would ‘accidentially’ says things like “I will never forget my ex”, “My ex is better than u” during an argument. Deep down he still miss his ex and compare her with you.
He is only with you because he has reached a point where he just want to accept someone who is willing to stick with him.
Same for you….You mentioned he is not your type. But you “put up with” him for 6 yrs because he is the one willing to stick with you.
Having said all that, my advice is to have a real heart to heart talk with him. Find out what he wants in a wife and you tell him what you want in a husband and work your issues out from there.
Like you said, 6 years is long time to just quit. At least try to salvage and hopefully start building the r/s based on love.
6 yrs is a fraction of a lifetime. Don’t see it as time wasted, see it as time spent learning. Move on and find someone who can love u as u are with his whole heart. It’s just silly to stay with someone u don’t love.
Singapore national Silat coach, Mochammad Ichsan Nur Romadhon, has died following a car accident in Bali, according to the Singapore Silat Federation earlier today.
The 33-year-old died earlier today in Bali, where he was on holiday with his wife and two children.
Romadhon was traveling in a car on a highway from Bali to Surabaya when the accident happened. His wife suffered head injuries and was conveyed to the hospital, while his children sustained minor injuries.
Here is what the S’pore Silat Federation said
It is with great sadness and regret to inform that we have lost a very valuable member of the Singapore Silat Federation family, National Coach Mochammad Ichsan Nur Romadhon.
Well-loved by everyone in the Silat community, Coach Romadhon has contributed tremendously to the team’s achievements.
Our sincerest condolences to his loved ones. We share in this time of grief, but also share in all the love and memories.
A video emerged online showing a hit and run accident involving a Honda Shuttle, with the driver hitting a parked car and leaving the scene.
The incident happened on 25 May at about 9.13pm somewhere along Jalan Pemimpin, and it was captured on the dashcam of the car that was hit.
The Honda Shuttle could be seen in the dashcam footage reversing and hitting the camcar, before performing a three-point turn and driving off.
The driver didn’t leave a note or anything to the car that he hit, or alighted to assess the damage that he caused.
Potential penalties
It is a punishable offence to leave the scene of an accident, which is considered a hit-and-run – upon conviction, first-time offenders face a fine of up to $3,000 or a jail term of up to 12 months.
