It’s hard to cut ties with your own sister and girlfriend.

The title says it all, a guy I’ve always had a problem with had a one night stand with my sister and girlfriend of 5 years when I was out of town.

The absolute betrayal is seriously, seriously unbelievable. I’m still processing it even now.

For now, I’m just looking for a bro to discuss it with. Thanks in advance, I need advice.

Here are what netizens think:

• It’s not tricky in the slightest! One is related to you by blood and one is not. One is committed to be an adult relationship with you, the other is family. One promised to be monogamous, the other would never even remotely consider that as an option. One you’ll see for holidays for the rest of your life, the other you never have to see again.

• Just because she the other one is your freaking sister she has to get a pass? Exactly because she is your sister she needs to go as well. But well your choice at the end of the day…

• Drop the gf, if the sister sincerely apologizes MAYBE have some kind of relationship. I’m the forgiving kind so I would keep the sister in my life, unless she was otherwise toxic.

• Damn cut both of them out of your life bro. I wouldn’t even acknowledge her as your sister anymore

• The gf is the easiest part of the equation – just cut her loose, your sister , it depends , did your sister know that the guy was your enemy, did she know your gf was still in a relationship with you ? , if she did , cut her loose too, go low / no contact.

A guy said to me, “why are you here alone? Have no friends?” and I nearly broke into tears because he was right

I went to an event yesterday for fun, by myself, because I had no one to go with me.

A lot of people liked my attire so I had a few conversations, but then I was chatting this guy who seemed fine at first, but then he just said THAT.

And it was awful because he was right. I lied and said my friends were in the bathroom, and excused myself. (I should add that this guy had some buddies with him and I don’t think he was awkwardly offering companionship, but maybe he was, I’ll never know what went through his head after all. )

It ruined my afternoon and I think I’m going to stop going out to events like that because it’s just going to make me feel like a more of a loser than I already am with that comment in the back of my head.

Netizens’ comments

I know you may not be looking for any responses given this sub, but I am perfectly happy going to any events alone and there are many people who are the same. If you are enjoying yourself that’s all that matters. Don’t let anyone get in the way of you having a perfectly good day enjoying things alone!

Also he could have been joking in order to try to talk to you. Anyway, don’t stop going to events alone, it’s perfectly normal to go solo!

Alright… This didn’t happen today but since I only learned about it today I think it counts.

A couple months ago my bf n I were in a LDR. I flew out to see him for a week, and when I left I accidentally left a pair or my underwear at his place. It had fallen under his bed so I hadn’t noticed it when packing. He told me a couple weeks later that he had found them and had put them in the wash. No problem right? Wrong. God… I am mortified by what he told me today… I tend to discharge quite a lot after my period, and this was the case with said underwear.

BUT CHRIST ALMIGHTY I did not expect him to tell me there was a WORM IN MY DISCHARGE. I know he loves me simply by the fact that he washed them, and said nothing to me until 6 months later. I’m embarrassed, don’t know how the worm manifested it’s way into my underwear.

A little drunk rn while typing this out so hopefully, it makes sense. Strangers of the Internet enjoy this story as there is no way I’m telling this to anyone IRL.

Here are what netizens think:

a fly probably laid eggs on your underwear while it was chillin’ under the bed and he found them when a maggot hatched.

I highly doubt that there were worms in the underwear when the OP was wearing them. Fruit flies and regular flies love to lay eggs in decomposing proteins and fruit fly maggots do look a lot like little tiny worms.

Pinworms are tiny. Months later, they would be so dried and small it would look no different than a fiber.

There was some show i saw that was people telling stories(with re enactments) of parasites they caught. I think it was called…. the thing inside of me? Or something about as unsettling

My sister gave me a sign from beyond

My sister died in a car accident 5 years ago & some change. It always bummed me out she didn’t get to see me graduate.

Around two weeks ago I graduated with a degree. I was super bummed that she did not get to see me earn my degree, but she always knew I would do great things in my life.

I was laying in bed thinking about her, & i silently communicate with her in my mind. I just sometimes say hello & that I miss & love you. I’m not a religious person by any means, but while I was laying in bed I extended my hand out & told her if she’s here to give me a sign.

My cat was laying at the end of bed. I had my eyes closed waiting for some miraculous sign. Then all of a sudden I felt my cats nose touch the tip of my middle finger & went right back to laying down at the end of the bed. This is unusual because once he gets up he really doesn’t go & lay straight back down to the exact same spot.

I think my sister got the cat to boop his nose against my finger to show that she’s actually listening, & that she’s here with me. Also, it was kind of difficult to breathe. It was like the air was thicker. I honestly think she came & visited me tonight.