I won’t lie, I’m a gullible person. Due to this, I’ve been in quite a few terrible relationships. And yes that includes being cheated on.

So you can imagine my thoughts when I woke up at 2:14 am hearing moans in the house.

Previously the night before my bf was very pushy about me going to sleep. To the point, he held me in place till I got bored enough and actually did.

Well back to the matter at hand.

I woke up in bed alone while hearing moans coming from outside the bedroom. I told myself not to panic until I heard.

“Yeah you like that.”

To which at that point I did panic.

As I opened the door I had a clear view of the room next to it since the other door was open.

All I saw was this man sitting in his gamer chair (the room next to our bedroom is the game room), head leant back, pants at ankles. He was going to town with a picture of me in his free hand.

Here’s where it gets sad because I walked in at the end I scared him so he couldn’t aim where the… the rocket would aim. It got right on his forehead all while he was trying so hard to hide the evidence at hand.

I now know the rotating pictures he keeps of me on his desk are for… fun time. I also now know the huge bottle of moisturizer he keeps on his desk is not for his hands.

He wasn’t cheating but the situation was too much for me so early in the morning I just went to the couch we keep in there and went back to sleep.

Now that I’m awake I still can’t process it.

We both decided to pretend I did not just walk in on him.

A girl shared how her boyfriend booked a hotel at MBS for them to celebrate her birthday but is afraid that he wants to have intercourse with her.

Here is the story:

“Hi! As my birthday is coming, my boyfriend managed to book a hotel for both of us at MBS!

Although I can’t wait for that day to come, I am also very nervous because I don’t know what to do with him!

Is it true that couples stay-cay in order to have intercourse together?

I am still evergreen and he is my first boyfriend, I don’t want to screw things up because I refuse to cater to his needs. Any advice?”

Editor’s note: If you’re uncomfortable with it, please speak up and let him know about it.

A netizen shared how he is married to her husband for 7 years, describing him as being loyal and doesn’t gamble or cheat on her.

However, she revealed that she had been cheating on him for 2 years with another man whom she calls her “soul mate”.

Here is the full story:

“I am in a marriage with a guy for 7 years. He is loyal and doesnt gamble or flirts or cheated on me before.

Before our marriage i had a conversation with him about how our marriage life is going to be. How we would work for our future together and how he would help out with chores and have savings and still spend quality time together as a couple.

He doesnt come from a very good background. Parents are just barely making it. But that doesnt bother me because i thought once we are married, we will work hard together.

He is also lazy and i have to constantly push him then would he do anything. More like how a mother would.

1 year into the marriage, i wanted to annul because he is not providing me with even the basic needs in a relationship. The emotional support, physical support.

2 years into the marriage i brought up divorce but he insisted he wouldn’t want. I gave him that chance.

3rd year i brought up divorce again and another episode happens again. I gave him another chance again.

In our 4th year of marriage and i am still thinking of leaving him. Everything that was promised, wasn’t delivered. Even if he did, it just wasn’t good enough because the basic needs are not even there.

As a married couple, we haven’t had S for 3 years straight!

I am in love with a guy who is able to provide me with everything i need from emotion to physical to s—-l needs.

We had been secretly dating for 2 years now and to be honest, we both are like soul mates.

But i am finding the right time to bring up the divorce. Or is there no right time for it? Anyone?”

So yeah, we were out drinking last night. She went to bed ~3 am, I stayed up until 4 (had to clean the house) and fell asleep blissfully next to her.

This morning we woke up & things got steamy, but I was noticing a dark residue forming at the base of my bird. I thought she was bleeding but she insisted it didn’t hurt and to keep going. I’m not one to say no, so we fooled around some more until we changed positions and I caught a whiff and looked. Definitely a large unwiped brown stain going from her butt down her leg. I told her she was definitely bleeding and we should stop, then she hopped in the shower to clean off. I noticed a large streak on my sheets and quickly bundled them up and threw them it the washer before she could see.

I’m not sure if she even knows she pang sai herself. Should I just sweep this under the rug and pretend it never happened? She didn’t go overboard with drinking so Im a little concerned this had nothing to do w that but I imagine it would be extremely embarrassing for her.

Both early 20s. I don’t wanna tell my friends about this for obvious reasons. What would you do?

Here are what netizens think:

• Tell her on your death bed

• let her know but re-i force the idea that it was no big deal. i think the biggest issue is that she may be able to get an infection from that though.

• she knows, she had to have noticed in the shower. i am pretty sure she is mortified. i honestly dont think it’s worth a mention unless it becomes a recurring issue.

• You really are a gem of a nice person. You’re handling it maturely and keeping a safe space for you and your partner. Kudos to you

A girl shared how she broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years after she found out he was cheating, they even had plans to get married and even had a BTO and ring prepared.

Here is the story:

“My bf and I just broke up 2 months ago and I still can’t get over it. We have been together for 6 years and I am always the one talking about future planning. He would just keep quiet and follow the flow.

Our BTO is ready next year so the plan was to get married this or next year. He already bought a ring (under my pressure because I wanna get married and the house is ready next year) then I realized he giving me cold treatment and doesn’t talk to me. I feel something is amiss and I always ask him if something is going on and if he has anything to tell me. But he always no, he said he loves me. That’s all he said. I take his reply at face value so I thought nothing is wrong.

Found out he was cheating

Only after I found out he is texting and going out on dates with his colleagues. He is flirting with her and bringing her out to eat and play. To my horror because I trust him so much and never thought he is a cheater. After I found out, he texted me to break up and we will not be the same as last time because trust is broken. He didn’t even ask for forgiveness and a chance to get back to me.

Thinking back, I guess he already cheated on me 1-2 years back but I was kept in the dark. Our s– life has deteriorated that I am the one initiated and got rejected. His answer is he has a low s– drive or he is tired. He doesn’t feel turned on or passionate anymore. So I think he cheated back then because he is getting s– somewhere else.

I feel that I am really dumb and took so long to realize something is wrong with us. He is a habitual liar and he lies without blinking his eyes. I only found out his true color after we broke up. The tone and attitude changed so much that I could not believe he is the one I love for so many years.

Why can’t men be loyal

So the lesson I learned is that when you feel that the s– drive change, it is a red alert that he is getting s– outside. Also if you feel that he doesn’t talk to you or reply to you as fast as last time. It is probably he is talking or texting other girls.

Never trust guys who can sweet talk and give promises easily. They know girls will be happy and believe them. They can stay in a relationship with their girlfriend but still have FWB and hookups with no strings attached.

Why men can’t control their little bro and be loyal to only one girl? Is it really so difficult for men?

Women’s youth is very precious and they are wasting their time by keeping her while cheating outside. Guys should be more responsible and be morally upright!

I can’t accept Hookups and FWB is it because I am too conservative? Should I be more open-minded and not judge? I have no idea is it my issue or society issue anymore.

Ethically I feel that s– is an intimate connection with the one you love. Am I am too outdated? Human nature needs intercourse, I can understand.

But with strangers I can’t, I feel it’s dirty and disgusting. I can’t kiss someone I don’t know let alone sleep together.”

A guy said that girls are confusing and ask why when a guy stares at a girl’s body, it is offensive; but when a girl stares at a guy’s body, it is okay.

Here is the story:

“Girls can be so confusing at times.

When a guy stares at a girl’s body, it’s considered offensive and inappropriate.

When a girl stares at a guy’s body, it’s considered okay since she’s just checking him out.

First date? Normally it would be the guy paying for both parties or they split Dutch. Unless she’s super-rich.

When a guy does National Service, the guy is expected to commit to one girl only i.e. hang out with her on weekends as if we don’t have a family and our lives revolve around her.

When a girl is on her period, for some reason guys are expected to be nicer and act as better gentlemen as if we can tell the time frame by instinct.

I’m so confused. Someone, please write me a guidebook.”

Editor’s note: When I stare at pretty Ah Lians, they always ask me “you stare what stare”.

A netizen shared how he was talking to a girl that he liked, then he hacked into her Facebook and found out that she was talking to another guy.

Here is the story:

“I have no intention to brag about myself, but the information I’m giving is gonna be relevant to the story I’m sharing. I’m from Vietnam. I studied and graduated from NTU a few years ago. I’m currently working in Singapore in a pretty hot domain with a respectable salary.

About 1.5 years ago, I got to know a girl in Vietnam through social networks. She is good-looking and smart. She is in her second year at the Vietnam national academy of music. She is from Hanoi (North of Vietnam), while my hometown is in Ho Chi Minh City (South of Vietnam).

We have been messaging each other a lot, almost every day. Most of the time, I’m the one who initiates. I shared almost everything about my daily life with her. She wouldn’t do the same if I don’t ask her to.

Due to the Covid 19 situation, I haven’t been able to fly back to Vietnam to see her. I’ve occasionally bought gifts and food for her and she liked those. She never accepted too valuable gifts, such as iPhone, though.

Earlier this year, I made an attempt to confess to her. She told me that she still got 2 more years to finish her degree, and it could lead to nothing because her family didn’t want her to get married to someone staying too far away.

I responded to her that I’m willing to relocate to her place. She still rejected me. I supposed that my attempt failed. I decided to give up and not disturb her anymore.

Sometime later, she initiates to message me again and I perceived positive changes in her feelings towards me. So I hacked her Facebook to know what was happening. I know that is bad, I apologize.

I discovered that she was having a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years now. He is a Ph.D. student in Japan and is doing a part-time job for his study.

His hometown is a small city in the South of Vietnam. I saw him commenting and giving heart reactions on my crush posts. From her Messenger, they were messaging and video chatting every day. She made birthday cakes for him.

They haven’t met but they had planned to see each other and to get married. I even found her sending to him sexy photos and, I can’t believe it, screenshots of my confession messages too.

I don’t know what to do. My heart crumbles. I know I’m silly, but I still hope for her change of mind. Appreciate help and advice from you guys.”

Editor’s note: Seems like you’re the appetizer bro, block her and move on.

A guy shared how he asked his girlfriend for permission to hang out with a friend and she said yes, so he went ahead but then she got angry because he went ahead with it.

He then asked whether women mean yes when they say no, and no when they say yes.

Here is the story:

“I asked my GF if she’ll get mad if I go hang out with a friend and she answered ‘No’, so I went ahead.

However, when I got back, she is mad at me.

I thought ladies always advocated for ‘No’ means ‘No’? So for my GF does ‘No’ mean ‘Yes’? Do I flip everything around?

So I feel like I am a dog now, ask me sit must sit ask me stand must stand. But no I worse than dog I told to sit I sit but i tio gan.

Editor’s note: I guess its true when they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus.

The title says it all but this started two days ago when I put my ring in my pocket like an idiot.

I was cleaning the license plate frame on my car but it’s currently covered in bugs from a recent road trip in Malaysia. Being the cautious person I am, I slipped my engagement ring into my pants pocket to keep it clean. I made a mental note to myself not to forget it when I put my clothes in the laundry. I was struggling to get the license plate frame on the car since it wasn’t well lit. So, I headed back to my house and completely forgot about my ring.

I’d gotten home late from work so I was tired and went about my evening. Sat on the couch, took a shower, and threw my pants with my engagement ring into the laundry hamper. I’ve been working 10-15 hours each day this week so I didn’t have any time to wash my clothes.

My fiancé has been staying at our place an hour away while I’ve been staying at my parents to take care of my sister after she had surgery. When my fiancé came home this weekend, he very thoughtfully woke up early to help take care of my dirty laundry. I was half asleep when he got up at 6:30am to get to the laundromat nice and early. I mumbled that he should stay in bed with me instead of going but he insisted.

My fiancé got back home and we spent our day together. We went to the park with my sister and I told him I’d leave the ring at home since he and I were going to play frisbee. Later on, we’re getting ready to go out for dinner and I look for my ring. Then I realized it was left in my now freshly washed pants.

We’ve gone to the laundromat and scoured my parents place. I’ve accepted my fate and I’ll be selling my soul to afford the replacement before the wedding.