A netizen shared how she recently got a new job and was sent for a CPR/AED course, and the male instructor lifted up her shirt and bra during the demonstration.

Here is the story:

“I recently got a job as an events organizer and the company sent me for a half-day CPR+AED course with 3 other newbies.

Near the end, the male instructor wanted to demonstrate how males can perform CPR and AED on females. I was 1 of only 3 girls present out of the 15 people in the class so he selected me.

The CPR part was ok, he was v professional in showing how to do it while having minimal contact with my chest.

But when it came to the AED, he stressed that it was very important to remove all clothing before applying the pads.

Then to my horror, he pulled up my shirt and bra, completely revealing my chest to the class. I was frozen in shock as he showed them where the pads should be placed and invited them to look closer, which many of the male students did.

I glanced at the other 2 girls and they looked equally horrified. He droned on about how “modesty is worthless if the person is dead”, “saving her life is the priority”, etc.

While I agree with his statements and concede that he did not touch me inappropriately, I still felt humiliated and wished he hadn’t done it.

My embarrassment intensified when I overheard my 3 male colleagues discussing me in lewd terms after the class.

So my question is, is this worth quitting over? It took me 6 months of applications and interviews to land a job so I really don’t want to, but I just feel miserable thinking about having to work with three creeps who have a twisted perception of me.”

A netizen shared how he feels that the media is portraying the opposite of genders – that men are violent and women are ladylike.

Here is the story:

“Hi, just wanna ask a few logical and thought provoking questions.

How come what the media portrays is the OPPOSITE of what we learn about gender stereotypes? I thought men are genetically wired to be violent, so men are the ones in gang fights and bar fights, and they settle conflict with a bloody punch to the nose and a few broken ribs.

If that’s the case, then why is it that it’s women who slap? If men cheat, it’s “acceptable” for women to slap them across the face, but if a man were to slap a woman, we say it’s domestic violence. So slapping, an act of violence, is ladylike and feminine, and thus attractive?

If men are generally seen as angry and violent, while women seen as gentle and empathetic, why do we never see men slapping women but always see women slapping men? Does that mean violence is more of a feminine thing than a masculine trait?

Also, assuming you support violence and you believe that slapping men is right, (you might have done it in real life before, I don’t know?) then why don’t you use the same amount of force to punch his stomach or face instead?

If you’re upset enough to slap, then wont stomach punching cause far more pain and injury than face slapping? You could dislocate his jaw or cause some serious bloodshed if you condone violence through slapping?

Someone explain this paradox because I don’t understand.”

Editor’s note: How much have you drunk.

“I’ve been crushing on this guy for over a year, but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate at all and only treated me as a friend. Luckily we remained as close friends and I still get to see him frequently.

However, my urges were so strong that I couldn’t resist imagining myself being in a relationship with him.

Just last month, I came across a forum where someone allegedly put a “love spell” onto a guy by letting the vapour of steamed rice sit onto her private parts and then letting it drip back onto the rice.

After the guy ate the rice, the girl mentioned that he showed gradual interest in her and that she’s now in a relationship with him ever since.

That is why I decided to try this spell onto my guy, but I don’t know how to cook rice. I had to try something else so I eventually used hot water instead and I collected the vapour that was dipped onto my private part.

I brought the residue to school and once he was away, I poured a little of it into his bottle and gave it a good shake to make sure the spell will work properly.

That was just last week and I swear to God he started replying my messages more frequently and even flirted with me a little bit.

Time will tell whether the “love spell” truly worked but at this point I am just overjoyed. I know this isn’t ethically correct of me to do this but I just feel that sometimes in life, if you really want something, you have to put in your all and make it happen.

Being passive just doesn’t cut it!”