My husband was accused of sexual harassment. A female relative in his family accused him of molesting her for years.

I find it hard to believe because she has always been quiet and kept to herself when I see her. And there is no way to verify the incidents, locations and dates that she mentioned. I don’t understand why she took years to say it if it were true. The worse thing is my parent in-laws actually believe her when she doesn’t even have proof.

I asked my husband and he has denied all accusations. He said she dreamt it all up. I don’t believe she liked my husband she had never even talked to him much when we are around. I only know she avoids my husband a lot. It’s like she disliked him already. I also know she had been dealing with some issues in her life for a period of time. I try to confront her and clear the air but my parent in-laws forbid me to talk to her and she has also blocked me from contacting her.

I believe she may be crazy. My husband has been very depressed after this accusation and took a long time to recover from it. He couldn’t accept that his parents believed her over their own son.

I thought it was over after I know she will no longer show up for family events. But some relatives found out and spread it to everyone in the family. Everyone believes her story just because my husband is the least liked person in the family. Now my husband refuses to meet these relatives because he cannot stand being wrong. Because of this lunatic, we lost 1 side of the family. I cannot even describe the amount of anger and unjust I feel whenever I think about this crazy accuser.

Not everyone accused is guilty!

I will break up with my girlfriend because she’s poor

I understand that some people need to vent about financial problems. But it became a bummer whenever I hung out with my girlfriend because that’s all she’ll talk about.

Sometimes I just want to sit and chill after work. I feel like she does this to pressure me into helping her. Sometimes she’ll say “maybe we should marry and you can pay for my tuition” then she’ll brush it off and say she’s “joking”.

I believe she wouldn’t be struggling with money if she stopped giving her family money to help with bills. They’re dragging her down and I feel like she is trying to drag me down with her.

I worked hard to get a full scholarship and graduated and got a good job. I don’t want my lifestyle to go backward.

Netizens’ comments

• You don’t seem in love with this girl, as I read through your text I felt nothing. So better leave while she’s not pregnant and you don’t have responsibilities with this person. Go forward on your path to happiness, wherever it might take you.

• This is the thing with poverty, it is a vicious cycle. What is she gonna do? abandon her family? I understand if you don’t want to help her financially op, but to judge her like it is her fault she is poor is not fair if she is actively trying to focus on getting a good career. Clearly you do not love her, otherwise you would be more sympathetic and this would not be a deal breaker.

I don’t have a lot of friends or family to share or vent to. What happened took place last year.

I (26m) lost my wife (25f) last year of April. She died in a car accident.

I know this has happened to many people, I know I’m not alone but most days I truly feel alone and feel an empty hole in my heart. Only a hole that she filled.

We went to school together. We got married when I was 22 and she was 21.

This woman- oh my God was she magnificent. Beautiful, caring, funny, intelligent, goofy. She had the best qualities. She was my first girlfriend. She was a hard worker, she always was the type to help others and give the shirt off her own back if needed. I loved that she was so passionate and caring to every human and living creature she’s met. She loved animals, she regularly fed strays, donated and volunteered at shelters when she didn’t have work.

In April of 2021, she got hit by a drunk driver. She died on scene. When she didn’t come home that night, I knew something was wrong. She didn’t answer her phone, her work place told me she had left hours ago. It was unusual that she wasn’t home the time she normally was. I panicked and began calling hospitals, jails, her family, her friends, everything I could think of. I called the police and they told me they’d get back to me. 30 min later, I get a call saying that she was in an accident and did not make it.

I have never felt heart break like this. I have never felt my world crumble around me like this. She was my best friend, my wife, my everything. We had so many memories and experiences together, we had so many plans to travel. Explore. I felt broken. I still feel broken, the pain has gotten easier but it’s still there. I haven’t even thought of dating or looking for someone else.

I miss her, every day. I’ve had dreams where I see her, she kisses me and disappears. I constantly think of our wedding and how gorgeous she looked. I keep thinking about what our kids would’ve looked like and if they would’ve gotten her beautiful hazel eyes or her stunning smile.

We rarely argued, I think I can count a total of 5 times we’ve had an argument in the almost 10 years we’ve been together. We never went to bed angry with eachother. We had so much in common, so many interests that were alike and also differences that we worked on and grew to overcome.

I don’t have anyone to vent to, I don’t go on social media often, and when I do I don’t want to vent because I don’t want people to see how broken I am inside. I’m not here to get pity or anything, I just wanted to get this off my chest and feel a little bit of relief sharing what happened.

I miss her. I miss her so much. The one thing that has been keeping me going is her cat. Since she’s been gone, her cat has grown to be attached to me and is my only companion. I think she senses the pain and loss.

Please hold on to the ones you love. Tell them how much they mean to you and how much you love them. I thought me and her were going to grow old together, and in an instant she was ripped away.

I just bare ass farted directly on my husband’s crotch after he fell asleep spooning me.

I know if he were awake he would be grossed out. I have terrible gas right now. I selfishly did not want to move from this comfy position.

I feel kinda guilty about it and at the same time I find it hilarious.

Normally I am all about fart etiquette (fartiquette) and I will get up and move to a different location to fart and spare the people around me the agony.

I got lazy and figured what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him… I just let out another one before the end of this post. It was loud and I am shocked it didn’t wake him, however, he was stirred enough to roll over.

Thanks for reading my confession.

Netizens’ comments

• Gas is expensive bottle it up and sell it

• My gf does this literally every day. Whether I’m asleep or not

• Every cutie with a booty has to tootie

• I would have zero problems (not that i would in general, i think farts are hilarious) with that if i had someone to spoon in exchange

• My other half farted on me in his sleep a few night ago and said ooooooh that’s nice. It gave me a giggle. I would do the same to keep that lovely comfy spoon.