Serious question to middle-aged ladies, would you ever date a younger guy? I have a female colleague that I work with and for some reason despite our age difference ~10 years, we became sort of best friends as we have a lot in common and share the same views about a lot of things.

We kept our relationship strictly professional up until now but I am seriously considering asking her out on a date.

My friends advised against this as she has 2 kids but I think I’m willing to look past that.

Her husband cheated on her but they did not want to get a divorce in order not to affect the kids. I feel happy when I’m with her and I feel that she understands me very well.

I don’t think age and kids should be a barrier. Should I ask her out officially?

Here is what Netizens think:

• As long as she never divorce, you will forever be just a 3rd party. Are you sure you will be okay if her husband is still living with her while you guys date? Also to the kids you will always be seen as the house-wrecker, not the dad, since you are the one openly asking her for dates. All that assuming she has the same feelings for you.

• Personally I won’t. I have dated before and can feel a gap in our thinking and behaviour. I end up with a guy my age.But that’s just me. I think for your case, just leave her alone as she is still married. Unless she decides to divorce and marry you – still unlikely because if she marries you, her ex husband can stop paying alimony.

• Wait until she divorce. If not kena charged for adultery by husband.. No need to pay for the kids.

• The problem isn’t the age barrier. It’s the fact that she’s married with kids bro

Hi all, this is my first time posting here.

I am posting because I do not know where to do the official complaint about my case but I just want more people to be aware and don’t become the next victim.

I am engaging a private agency named “Sgdrivinginstructor” for my driving lesson at the woodland area and was assigned to a driving instructor named “*************” , his car is black Honda jazz, CarPlate is SKA 6***.

It was such a terrible experience after 2 lessons.

So to summarise what I have been through.

First lesson, I give it a miss as I see that he is old and tired and I am practising at the small road. He fall asleep numerous time.

Second lesson, same thing happen, fall asleep numerous time. Ask him should I turn left or right , he ask me follow the arrow on the road

If there is only 1 arrow from the road, why do I need to ask.

When he wake up halfway, he will just curse, say no Brain , better stay at home , dun learn driving. Nvm, I know I make mistake , some scolding is ok , but I am freaking paying you guys for THE SERVICE to help me learn and so that I can get my car license not to sleep in the car and scold for no reason.

Instructor is suppose to be there to make sure student is safe and is learning and not endangering other road driver.

With an instructor sleeping, i might be able to basic driving but listen, I HAVE NO OFFICIAL license and yet there is no safety supervision on the main road. I find it ridiculous.

The agency is also not responding to my message and I think they are not going to do anything as they already collected my enrollment fee.

So please, if you are looking for private instructor for your car license, when you see this name or car plate numbers, i suggest you refuse and reject the offer if not you will be throwing your money into the sea for nothing.

I’d like to rant. I have troubles communicating with my boyfriend. His first language is not English and his English is extremely bad (he never went to English school).

I don’t understand 50% of what he says and when we talk about important topics, it makes it even worse. In the beginning of the relationship, I told him nicely that it’s better if we communicate in our mother tounge (we both have same mother tounge) so that there’s no miscommunication. That didn’t work. I switched to being blunt and told him I could not understand his English at all.

That didn’t work either. Now I just yell if I don’t understand. It’s been like this for many years. I’m so fed up!

There’s been SO MANY miscommunications because of his English and yet he doesn’t care. It’s so tiring having to decipher his sentences and it’s like I have to read minds too sometimes.

Here are what netizens think:

• U r a funny person. why do u want to start this relationship with him in the first place?

• You can send him to primary school. Every school a good school. He will look cute in the uniform.

• So simple. You go learn his mother tongue, he go learn English la. If not you guys can sign to each other forever…

• The realisation of a r/s that probably started not by real communication.

• “It’s been like this for many years”??? How long have you seen with this person?? How have you all been communicating for so many years??

• This was what happened at tower of babel i wonder how many lovers or families got separated.