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MAN HAVE PROBLEMS MAKING WIFE HAPPY IN BED CAUSE HIS “TOOL” GOT PROBLEM

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MAN HAVE PROBLEMS MAKING WIFE HAPPY IN BED CAUSE HIS “TOOL” GOT PROBLEM

I’ve been with my wife who was my GF for 9 years now and we are happily married. But as a guy, I have a huge problem. I have never been able to “satisfy” her and she has always had a good S drive and now it seems as the drive is starting to die down because of me which makes me feel bad.

Now the reason why I’m not able to satisfy her is that the skin covering the tool is tight around me and it’s really painful when even attempted to be pulled back a little, let alone all the way. I think the problem here is called phimosis? Yeah.

So my question is, is there others out there that faced this same skin problem and if you did, how did you get around it? Or should I see a doctor or something?

I have been trying to do other things to keep out romance up but I don’t think it will be a long term solution. Also feel free to laugh at a guy not being able to enjoy one of the best things a human being can.

Here are some advise from “internet doctors”:

  1. See a doctor. Theres meds to help you losen the skin to stretch, iirc. The doctor will teach u how to stretch out ur skin. Worst case scenario is you might need a circumcision, but that would be rare. This is nothing shameful. Many people deny seeking treatment because they are afraid of shame, but end up harming themselves and their loved ones.
  2. Just pull back and bear with the pain. No choice. You should have done it earlier.
  3. This one not guy, he ah gua so scare pain.

INDONESIAN ACTRESS CAUGHT WORKING PART-TIME “SELLING HERSELF”

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INDONESIAN ACTRESS CAUGHT WORKING PART-TIME “SELLING HERSELF”

An Indonesian actress has been arrested by police after she was found prostitution at a hotel. Investigations revealed that her rate was at 30 million rupiah (SGD$2.8K) for each service. 

The actress said that because of the pandemic she had a loss of income and she was forced to work such a job as she did not have enough money.

Jakarta police found Indonesian soap opera actress Cassandra Angelie naked in a room at the Ascott Hotel in the city center during a raid last week, Indonesian media Tempo Metro reported.

The 24-year-old actress had performed five such transactions prior to her arrest.

Police said Cassandra Angeli also admitted that the coronavirus pandemic had greatly affected her financial status and claimed that this is the only reason that she was doing this.

In addition to Cassandra Angelie, police have also arrested three men in the operation, her “agent” and a man who was caught in a prostitution site.

Police also confiscated several items belonging to Cassandra Angeli, including a mobile phone, an ATM card, and a set of black underwear.

WIFE LEFT HUSBAND FOR LOVER, BUT LOVER DIED AFTER THEY GOT TOGETHER

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WIFE LEFT HUSBAND FOR LOVER, BUT LOVER DIED AFTER THEY GOT TOGETHER

A netizen shared how his wife left him for another man, but he recently found out that the man had passed away.

Here is the story:

“Back in March I found out my wife was having an affair after 15 years of being together. Completely broke my heart. I wanted a divorce originally, but opted to see if we could “work on things”. Our version of “work on things” is always to move past things and pretend they never happened. Obviously not healthy, and I wish looking back we did something differently.

From March-August, things were okay. We pretended like it never happened, and since we never truly dealt with it, you could tell things were off, even though we continued to put a smile on our aces. In August she admitted that she still had feelings for this other guy.

August-December, we continued to live together but we were growing apart. She was texting the other guy, though claiming that she was not. She wanted a divorce, I was not ready to want that though deep down I knew that there was no way our relationship could ever return to normal. I was holding out for how things were in the past. She was prepared to begin moving on with her life, but also was trying to be there for me as I grieved (which in hindsight probably gave me some false hope).

I had finally come to grips with things over the past two weeks. A lot of therapy and talking to friends got me to a point where, though I didn’t want to lose my best friend, I understood it had to be over for everyone’s sake. My wife was planning on moving forward with the guy she had the affair with, he intended to move in with her so that they could be together. I knew it would be a tough transition for me, but I was slowly ready to do it, and began working on bettering myself for my future (job promotion, lost 10 kg quitting alcohol and going to gym).

The other day, I found out he unexpectedly passed away. I had always hoped that they would not remain together (out of pure selfish spite), but now seeing how broken my soon-to-be ex-wife is, I am completely devastated for her. I’m devastated that my marriage is over, but also devastated that her whole life is forever changed. I’m devastated that a person lost their life at a young age, regardless that he had a hand in my marriage ending. No one deserves that to happen. And as much as I wanted to hate this guy, he did seem like a good person otherwise, as crazy as that sounds.

I can’t even come to grips that this has happened to me, to her, to this guy. It feels like no one is winning or coming out better in the end here, it seems like nothing but sadness for everyone involved. I’ve tried talking to friends, but I can’t make sense of any of this anymore. People have told me I should cut off my ex and let her grieve, but she’s been my closest friend for a decade and a half – Regardless of our marriage ending, I can’t imagine not being there for her. I was finally getting to a place where I could see some sort of light at the end of the tunnel of my marriage being over, but now I just see a long road of everyone grieving for so many reasons, and everyone being changed forever, probably in a negative way, because of this.”

FIANCEE SUDDENLY BEING SECRETIVE OF HER PHONE, BF SUSPECTS HER

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FIANCEE SUDDENLY BEING SECRETIVE OF HER PHONE, BF SUSPECTS HER

my fiancee (she) have been together for 4 years and a half, we’re planning to marry each other in 2022 and we’re moving in our newly bought house this month. We’re used to use each other’s phone to look for things if for example mine or hers is charging and we need to quickly look something up, or chat with some mutual friend.

A couple of weeks ago she started being really possessive about her phone, not allowing me to use it, hiding notifications, not taking up calls while with me or hiding the screen with her body while seemingly typing stuff. She also changed her unlock code, she started setting it in “do not disturb” mode when she usually always had her sounds on.

When I tried to confront her about all of this she just told me that I’m paranoid, that nothing has changed from before and that I’m imagining things. She said she changed the code and hid notifications because someone saw her unlock code at work, and she usually leaves the phone on her table, and she doesnt want someone to saw her notifications.

I don’t know what to think, the change in behaviour was so sudden that I’m sure something is happening. Is it cheating? Is she in “danger” at work? Is something happening to her that she’s scared of? Please help me

MAN TOOK LIFT AT NIGHT, SEES WOMAN INSIDE BUT DIDN’T KNOW IT’S A PONTIANAK

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MAN TOOK LIFT AT NIGHT, SEES WOMAN INSIDE BUT DIDN’T KNOW IT’S A PONTIANAK

A netizen shared a story about his father encountering a female ghost (pontianak) inside a lift at night but didn’t realize it at the time.

Here is the story

“We stayed at one of the blocks just beside Clementi Ave 6 exit where the basketball court is now. it was wee hours in the morning and my father had just come back from night riding with his friends.

he pressed the lift and waited for it to come down. when the doors opened, there was a lady in white standing in the lift, right in front of the button panel. it should have been a red flag to him but my dad’s processor very slow la. so he didn’t realise at first.

he entered without wondering why White Lady didn’t exit the lift when it reached level 1. the kicker was when he actually asked White Lady to press the button for him. “level 10 please”. she didn’t move LOL. so he had to squeeze and slide his hand between her and the button panel and pressed the button.

it was only on the way up that he realised that the lady didn’t exit the lift, and that she’s in white, and that she has long black hair, and that she didn’t respond to him.

he bolted home the moment the doors open.

it’s a horrific experience but it ALWAYS makes me laugh when i recall the story. think the Pontianak was having an existential crisis when he asked her to press the button.”

HUSBAND GAVE WIFE STI AFTER FINDING “NEW EXPERIENCES” OUTSIDE

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HUSBAND GAVE WIFE STI AFTER FINDING “NEW EXPERIENCES” OUTSIDE

I’m married for almost 11 years, two kids. A few months ago, I went to the dr and found out he had given me a sti.

He watched me suffer in physical and emotional pain during that time. He said he felt rejected by me. It softened my heart towards him because sometimes I can be cold or uninterested. We both wanted to work on it so we started counseling.

Communication was better. I deleted my Instagram but a few days later, something told me to get back on. I got into his page (one of two which was private and I didn’t know existed). I found messages to multiple women starting back in 2018. The majority were casual. A few were “hey beautiful “. One was telling him how she found him on tinder, another one he was meeting up with while they were both working. Something happened at some point(she gave him new experiences).

At least two others, he was talking about taking them out. Another girl, he said he is somewhat married. When I confronted him, he said the same thing as last time… that it was just BS conversation. He said he is sorry for what he did. That he was immature. He just sorry he got caught.

If he had been honest about everything months ago when we started therapy. I have made the decision to leave next year. I want to give my kids this holiday season. Plus I got to figure out the finances. I’m not mad, not really sad. I’m excited about what my future may hold. Our relationship was ok but not what I would want for the rest of my life. Finding out about his lying, cheating made my decision to leave easier. I hate that my kids are going to suffer. But staying with him forever is not an option. I can’t trust him. I’m not trying to play detective forever. Just want a space for myself and my girl to be happy.

WOMAN WITH MONTHS LEFT TO LIVE, SCARED OF WHAT IS ON “THE OTHER SIDE”

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WOMAN WITH MONTHS LEFT TO LIVE, SCARED OF WHAT IS ON “THE OTHER SIDE”

A netizen shared how she had terminal cancer and has months left to live and is scared of what happens when she dies.

Here is the story:

“I have a cancer that can’t be cured, it’s been 2 months since I found out. My boyfriend and my parents are trying to make me as happy as possible while they can and I appreciate them for that.

I had never thought about death before, now I’m realising that.. I won’t be here in a few months..

I won’t be here in 10 years, I won’t be here in 100 years, just like I won’t be here in a 1000000000000000000000 years and the thought of this is honestly so scary.

Eternal nothingness.

I really hope there’s something else for us after we die, though I’m not too hopeful about that.

I don’t think I deserve this, I’ve tried to be a good person my whole life. I know karma does not exist, but I did nothing to deserve this.”

Editor’s note: It’s a comforting thought isn’t it? That life doesn’t end when we die but that there is something out there for us on the other side.

IS AN INCREASE IN SALARY WORTH A JOB CHANGE, NEW BOSS MIGHT BE BAD

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IS AN INCREASE IN SALARY WORTH A JOB CHANGE, NEW BOSS MIGHT BE BAD

Salary is the most fundamental requirement of any job. It is the principal consideration for an individual in the course of making a career choice. As a rule of thumb, the salary you are getting at the time of changing your job should be at least 30% higher than your current one. This will make you eligible for an increment. You can also use this 30% factor when negotiating your salary in a new job.

But sometimes the salary is not everything.

Some bosses might not be so good and here are a few stories.

A user posted on Reddit and question if salary is important

I feel like it’s time to move on from my current job, but I do not know how to tell my boss. He’s a good boss, doesn’t micromanage, doesn’t shout or scold. The initial job scope has changed but the salary hasn’t. I highly doubt the salary would increase but I have not asked for an increment yet. I don’t know how to ask lol.

Currently, I’ve been offered a job with about a 35% increase in salary. I want to leave but I feel bad about it because my boss has been great.

How would you go about it?

I just spoke to my boss, he said he can’t match the increment and the best he could do is an additional bonus at the end of every year. But he did say at the end of the day I have to think for myself and decide what’s best for me. He has no issues with me leaving.

So that’s good I guess? I told him I will give him an answer by Chinese New Year, he said he is okay with waiting. I offered to complete all current projects for him first before tendering my resignation. Which should be around March when all will be done. Thank you everyone for the encouragement!!

MAID REFUSE TO BELIEVE SHE IS BEING SCAMMED, WANT TO SEND $5K TO SCAMMER

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MAID REFUSE TO BELIEVE SHE IS BEING SCAMMED, WANT TO SEND $5K TO SCAMMER

A netizen shared how his maid is refusing to believe that she is being scammed and insists that her “lover” is going to send her millions of dollars.

Here is the story:

“Hey guys,

So the scam had not happened yet. But my helper is very insistent that her Caucasian lover is sending her millions worth of cash and jewelry and wants to pay $5000 to ‘retrieve’ it from customs.

I guess due to the nature of being a domestic helper, she is very unaware of scams and it is very difficult to explain to her given her grasp of English.

We have tried explaining that no cash exist and the photos are all fake etc., But she is rather convinced that it’s true.

We’re thinking of bringing her to the police but I’m not sure if they’re of any help. Does the police have Indonesian speakers or resources available to provide counselling?”

FATHER MOLEST MAID AND THINKS NOTHING IS WRONG AFTER CONFRONTED

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FATHER MOLEST MAID AND THINKS NOTHING IS WRONG AFTER CONFRONTED

Context: my wife and our 2 kids live in my parent’s place with our maid.

I witnessed him slapping her buttocks as he walked past her. He was smiling like it was a joking pat to a girlfriend. I asked my maid in private later if I saw correctly. She said it’s happened so many times and she’s told him to stop, and now she’s glad I saw it for myself.

My initial reaction was to suspect both of them were screwing each other, but after piecing some observations together, we came to the conclusion that she’s innocent and that she had been desperately trying to get our attention to it without actually saying it.

We got my mum to speak to my dad privately to save him some face. He claims that he did that because he treats her like a child. The part that pisses us off was him saying “if you want me to stop, then I won’t do it anymore lor”, because he is (1) completely unaware that what he is doing is wrong and (2) we are denying him some sort of twisted love and entitlement.

That was 2 months ago. Seems like he stopped slapping her butt, and we thought this blew over.

Then 3 days ago, my wife saw my maid crying quietly in a corner. She said my dad jokingly pretended to pinch her, but his fingers came dangerously close to her breasts. We verified with her if the pinch was on the arm (even that we wouldn’t approve) but she confirmed that if it was on the arm she wouldn’t be that upset.

She also said he has been making non-stop comments about her dressing when she is about to go out. “Wah today you wear long pants, so tight.” And “wah this shirt look sexy ah, where you going?” (It was just a Tshirt with a shorter frill sleeve).

Our maid has been absolutely amazing and we love her so much and think of her as family, but during the recent cry she said that if its not because of our daughter, she would have gone home. She can’t take it anymore.

Truth is, all of us are sick of the old man. He is the huge black hole sucking all happiness out. Every word he says is negative, about one-sided politics, and seeking attention. Nobody respects him anymore, and we just tolerate it.

Now with this crisis, we are almost forced to choose sides and its clear we rather the maid than him. So… what now?

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