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GIRL DATING A MALE GOLD-DIGGER, WHO MAKES HER PAY FOR EVERYTHING

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GIRL DATING A MALE GOLD-DIGGER, WHO MAKES HER PAY FOR EVERYTHING

A netizen shared how his/her sister is dating a guy who is a gold digger and making her pay for everything.

Here is the story:

“Is my sister’s boyfriend a gold digger?

Just for context, I come from quite a wealthy family meanwhile my sister’s boyfriend does not but they are definitely not poor.

My reasons for thinking he is a gold digger or the male equivalent:

When he comes over and they order food my sister is the one who pays I know this because they usually order through my account as I use my points to offset some of the balance, and still after the countless times of ordering for them I have never been paid back.

When we go out as a family and she brings him along he doesn’t bring anything and he doesn’t bother to try to pick the cheaper things in the menu, and its not like the restaurants we go to are exactly cheap.

When he comes over he is overly clingy and is quite distant from my parents, doesn’t bother to make conversation, just eats, responds to our questions and leaves.

However, around my sister’s friends, he becomes super active offers to buy them drinks and whatnot, and it’s not like he is unfamiliar with my parents as he comes over very often(3 times a week on average).

And my family usually calls my eldest sister (I have two sisters) every Saturday as she is currently studying overseas and while we were calling her my sis and her bf were busy showing each other tiktoks and laughing away.

My sister is a shopaholic so she goes to Mbs quite often and when she comes home I usually ask what she bought, and there will always be some branded item she bought for him.

I had previously attributed that to my sister being a spendthrift and while there was that I felt he was also manipulating her in a way.

For example, I tagged along on one of her shopping trips and he commented “What a nice wallet, its a shame I don’t have the money.” Followed by a deep sigh.

My sister looked at the wallet, told us to wait there, walked around some other nearby shops, then bought the wallet for him and the wallet was not cheap at all.

Usually that would be a normal comment to make, but she and him have been together for quite a while so he definitely knows her habits.

Lastly, we have a personal driver, but lately it has become my sisters bfs driver many times I have wanted to go somewhere but my driver is out driver him around or helping him buy something.

Like hello? I really want to tell my sister to break up with him but at the same time she is a very good sister and I don’t want to hurt her feelings since I am younger than her I also feel as though I do not have adequate experience to tell her but at this point I am honestly at my wits end on what to do about this whole situation.

My parents and grandparents dont like him but stay quiet as they are all generally quite softspoken.

Note: My sister and her bf are both currently university students so none of the money they are spending is their own, which makes his behaviour even more frightening”

Editor’s note: Call him out in front of everyone, embarrass him.

GIRL DATING GUY WHOSE MOTHER IS TOO KAYPOH, WANT TO BE A PART OF THEM

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GIRL DATING GUY WHOSE MOTHER IS TOO KAYPOH, WANT TO BE A PART OF THEM

A netizen shared how her boyfriend’s mother is very involved in their relationship and wants to be a part of everything they do, tagging along to their dates and even getting jealous when her son buys gifts for his girlfriend.

Here is the story:

“Seeking advice over bf’s mum who is too involved in our relationship.

I’m have been in a relationship with my 1st bf for about 4 years now. We used to have a lot of arguments and his mum would often be involved in it, to help us resolve issues.

Initially, I was grateful because someone was there to guide me through the tough times, but I realised after a while that she was way too involved in our relationship, even after it has stabilised. We have both grown out of the rocky phase and are now working hard for our future. For instance:

1. When I am talking to him in person, she would come over and ask what we are talking about

2. Sometimes when we want to go out on dates, she will get angry (We hardly go out on dates btw, only 1-2 times a month)

3. Threatening my bf that she will tell my parents about my secrets

4. Getting angry whenever we say no to her

5. Tagging along sometimes when we want to go out

6. When my bf buys me drinks or gifts, she would want them too, otherwise she might get jealous.

I love his mum, she’s very nice to me and my family. I appreciate all that she has done. But I just feel like this is a private relationship between my bf and I, and I’m also really scared to tell her how I feel.

My bf does not help me speak up to his mum and I wouldn’t want it as well as I don’t want their relationship to be strained because of me. Very often I would cry over the small things she does because I’m very stressed out about this and there’s nothing I can do.

She has told me about how her sons will always choose her and that she has the ability to break “us” up. (she said that indirectly though).

Please be nice in the comments and I really just wanna rant this out because I’m feeling really sad.”

Editor’s note: Let your feelings be known to her and at the same time give your boyfriend an ultimatum, tell him to speak up for you.

GUY BOUGHT GF A MACBOOK FOR XMAS BUT WANTS HER TO PAY FOR HIS $3K HOTEL BILL

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GUY BOUGHT GF A MACBOOK FOR XMAS BUT WANTS HER TO PAY FOR HIS $3K HOTEL BILL

A woman shared how her boyfriend bought her a Macbook Air for Christmas but expected her to pay for his $3k hotel bill.

They then got into a fight over it and in the end, he made her pay for the Macbook Air instead.

Here is the story:

“We are both investment bankers and bf is 7 years more senior than I am.

Over Christmas, he got me a Macbook Air but after an argument where he wanted me to foot his entire $3k hotel bill during our holiday, he billed me for the device.

I’ve always worried about his stinginess. Deal breaker?”

Editor’s note: Get out of the relationship while you still can – that’s not a relation-ship, that’s a sinking ship.

GUY SAYS WOMEN SHOULDN’T STUDY SCIENCE & ENGINEERING BECAUSE THEY ARE “NOT LOGICAL”

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GUY SAYS WOMEN SHOULDN’T STUDY SCIENCE & ENGINEERING BECAUSE THEY ARE “NOT LOGICAL”

A netizen shared how he thinks women shouldn’t study science and engineering because they are “weak in logical thinking”.

Here is the story:

Here I want to tell you one thing, that is, girls should not study science and engineering unless you are a strong woman. I will give an example of why girls shouldn’t study science and engineering, for reference only!

1. The learning process of science and engineering is very unfriendly to girls. First of all, we must all admit that science and engineering are filled with a lot of strong mathematics, strong physics, and strong science knowledge, and the learning intensity is high.

Of course, high learning intensity does not completely affect girls, but strong logical thinking skills will defeat many girls!

why? As we all know, men are far superior to women in logical thinking ability. This is an indisputable fact. Therefore, we rarely find well-known mathematician and physicists are men. There are very seldom women among mathematicians and physicist. At most, women are found among chemists and biologists who are weak in logical thinking.

2.The future job prospects of science and engineering are not friendly to girls. Except for science teachers, most of the employment prospects of science and engineering are given priority to boys, such as mechanics, electronics, civil engineering, and other majors are given priority to most men. They all refuse to recruit girls!

At this time, you may ask that girls who are physically strong are not dominant, but majors such as IT, telecommunications and other majors who are mentally based are not always patriarchal! The answer is that it may disappoint you.

Girls are equally discriminated against in these majors. Take the IT major as an example. The golden working age of a code farmer is probably between 25-35 years old. Why? One word “tired”. Because I have to “996” and “007” at every turn, it’s really tiring.

Even if a person can last to 35 years old, the hair of a programmer generally does not last until 35 years old. And the golden age of this decade happens to be the golden decade for girls to give birth. Just imagine that you, 24 years old, graduated with a master’s degree and entered a major IT company. It takes at least two years to become an apprentice, and there are nine years left.

And if a girl gets married at this golden age, she still has to help boys raise children with housework. How unfriendly to girls, how much energy and brain power do you have to focus on work!

Imagine if you are an HR in a company and you see so many bad external factors, would you still consider recruiting girls? The answer is no!

Summary: Girls really shouldn’t study science and engineering, they are really not friendly to you, unless you are a strong woman!

Editor’s note: You’re going to die alone aren’t you…

GUY SLEPT WITH MANAGER AFTER SHE INVITED HIM HOME FOR MORE DRINKS

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GUY SLEPT WITH MANAGER AFTER SHE INVITED HIM HOME FOR MORE DRINKS

A netizen shared how he just started work at a new company and went out for drinks with his manager, before bedding her after they got drunk.

Here is the story:

“Will you sleep with your manager?

Nope, it is not what you think. I just started work at a new company for about 6 months. My manager is an attractive lady who is 6 years older than me. She is very assertive at work and really demands for us to commit time and effort to our task. However, after work she can be very pleasant to be with.

A few of us had to work OT on Christmas to rush a report. After that, to reward us, she had suggested dinner and drinks. We had some alcohol and when it was time to leave, she suggested that I get a grab ride with her since it’s on the way. While in the car, she suggested that I could go up to her apartment for a second round, which I obliged, since it was still early.

After a few cans of beer, she said I could sleep over if I wanted to. We ended up being intimate. Is this considered a relationship? If not, what does it mean?

It seems so wrong to date your manager who is 6 years older, but I feel so attracted to her. Any advice?”

Editor’s note: Don’t poop where you eat and don’t eat where you poop.

SON ATTACKED ELDERLY FATHER FOR USING TOILET AT HOME, JAILED 3 WEEKS

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SON ATTACKED ELDERLY FATHER FOR USING TOILET AT HOME, JAILED 3 WEEKS

Mohammed Ariffin Tajuddin, 42-years-old, pleaded guilty to one count of voluntarily causing hurt to a vulnerable person on 28 December and was sentenced to 3 weeks imprisonment.

One more charge for breaching a protection order taken against him by his father was considered for his sentencing.

He had attacked his 75-year-old father for using the toilet in their home.

Using toilet

Ariffin was upset that his father used the toilet in the master bedroom, he then used his right hand to slap him in the face numerous times; as well as using a towel to hit his face.

Ariffin’s sister then noticed bruises on her father’s face during a visit and confronted Ariffin, who admitted to assaulting his father – she then made a police report on the same day.

M’SIAN LORRY CAUGHT BY ICA SMUGGLING 996 CARTONS OF ILLEGAL CIGARETTES

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M’SIAN LORRY CAUGHT BY ICA SMUGGLING 996 CARTONS OF ILLEGAL CIGARETTES

A Malaysia lorry was caught at Woodlands Checkpoint trying to smuggle 996 cartons of contraband cigarettes on 21 December.

Here is ICA’s statement in full:

“We don’t take things for “granite”

On 21 Dec, ICA officers at Woodlands Checkpoint foiled an attempt to smuggle 996 cartons of duty-unpaid cigarettes into Singapore via a Malaysia-registered lorry carrying a consignment of granite.

ICA officers suspected the lorry’s floorboard was modified and directed it for further checks. After the granite was offloaded, they uncovered the modified floorboard and extracted duty-unpaid cigarettes concealed within it.

The case was referred to Singapore Customs for further investigation.

Safeguarding Singapore’s borders remains the top priority for ICA. Similar concealment methods may also be used by terrorists to smuggle security items into Singapore. ICA will continue to conduct security checks to detect and deter smuggling attempts, to keep Singapore safe.”

MAN OVERHEARD SAYING HE WANTED TO “SHOOT” PEOPLE AT MRT, POLICE ALERTED

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MAN OVERHEARD SAYING HE WANTED TO “SHOOT” PEOPLE AT MRT, POLICE ALERTED

Two commuters were presented with the Public Spiritedness Award (PSA) after alerting a TransCom officer about a man who was mumbling to himself that he had a machine gun and was going to shoot everyone inside the MRT.

The incident happened on 23 July at Tiong Bahru MRT and they provided the officers with a detailed description of the man, leading to the suspect’s arrest.

Officers from TransCom and the Central Police Division conducted investigations using CCTVs and the witnesses’ descriptions and tracked down the man, before arresting him at his home.

However, the man’s threats weren’t credible and the police didn’t find any weapons at his home after conducting a thorough sweep.

The police said that they wouldn’t have been able to catch the man if it wasn’t for the two commuters being vigilant, and they were presented with the PSA.

GIRL LIKES GUY BUT NOT SURE IF HE IS PRETENDING THAT HE DOESN’T KNOW

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GIRL LIKES GUY BUT NOT SURE IF HE IS PRETENDING THAT HE DOESN’T KNOW

A girl shared how she likes a guy that she has confessed to before but isn’t sure if he is pretending that he doesn’t know she likes him.

Here is the story:

“Not sure how u guys are going to view this but writing this just to see other possibilities that I didn’t think of. 

I have been interested in the same guy for around six years. During the early years, i confessed and got rejected but i didnt ask why that time. After that i distanced myself from him although we are part of the same group or clique. After a few months or a year, we got closer again. Although i tried moving on after the rejection, when we got closer it was hard to control my feelings which resurfaced again. 

We have been going out together for meals or movies and at times he pulls me closer when we are crossing the road or walking on the pavement. He remembers my preferences for my drinks and walks me back sometimes although he lives in the opposite direction. He is quite introverted and private but recently he has been more open about his personal feelings and sensitive side too.  He has been over to my house to watch movies together and i am quite obvious about my feelings. He definitely knows about how i feel towards him as i have shown clear signs. 

I am not sure if he is pretending that he is unaware although he always goes along with everything or if he just sees me as a friend although he knows i am interested in him. He can be confusing sometimes and i was thinking if i should confess again or should i not confess and just move on??”

Editor’s note: Just tell him how you feel.

WOMAN HORRIFIED AFTER MOVING IN WITH FIANCE, WHO DOESN’T SHOWER AND IS LAZY

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WOMAN HORRIFIED AFTER MOVING IN WITH FIANCE, WHO DOESN’T SHOWER AND IS LAZY

A woman shared how she is sick and tired of cleaning up after her fiance after moving in with him, and that he doesn’t shower or helps with housework.

Here is the story:

“Help! I’m so sick and tired of cleaning up after my fiance and telling him to improve his personal hygiene.

We moved in together a year ago and my perception of him totally changed. He is so dirty, like he will not shower at all unless he leaves the house that day.

I don’t know about you, but given our weather I think it’s basic hygiene for people to shower at least once a day, whether you leave the house or not? Plus he sweats a lot, I can even smell his body odour on my sheets, yucks.

He leaves his dirty clothes and underwear all over the house, saying they are “still clean”. He never washes his feet properly and the resulting unpleasant odour often linger around the house. He spills snacks all over the couch and floor. Got many other examples but let’s just leave it here for now.

Unsurprisingly he also makes zero effort at housework so I’m now doing the 100% cleaning and laundry at home. I also feel upset as I’m always the one taking initiative and paying to replenish toiletries, detergents and cleaning supplies.

Many times I actually wish I live alone or back at my parents’ as I feel so exhausted taking care of this man-child, sigh.

Is it possible for someone like that to change? Is it silly to break up with someone over hygiene issue? I have talked to him many times about this but to no avail, he just dismisses me as naggy and OCD every time.”

Editor’s note: Yucks

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