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GUY DOESN’T TRUST GF, WANTS HER TO REPORT LIVE LOCATION & TAKE PHOTOS TO SHOW HIM

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A girl shared how she is dating her boyfriend who doesn’t trust her and that they have been breaking up and patching back together multiple times.

Here is the story:

“Sorry this is gonna be quite long. I need some advice and needed some ranting.

So i have this bf, we met on dating apps and we’re together for 2 years now. I have been staying with him at his place ever since. We have been breaking up and patching multiple of times, and his problem is that he got trust issue with me, so everywhere i go i have to take photo for him.(with who, where i am at), live location, He will also have my whatsapp web on his phone. Mainly because when we “break up” i would download dating apps and use it thinking that we “break” and could never patch back again every single time. I did meet new people from the datings apps here n there. But JUST MAINLY to eat, nothing else i swear on my life. But my bf he don’t believe, therefore he thinks that I cheated on him etc etc. In between those “break n patch” i’ve move back to my own place.

But now is that i’ve given birth to a baby with him. Things still happen.

Firstly, his house is like a zoo. There’s BIRDS, FISH and DOGS.

The hygiene isn’t there at the first place. Well when you think thats maybe ok. His dogs (2 dogs) are not properly trained. They pee and shit everywhere in the living room. The birds take over the balcony and kitchen. Could you imagine cooking with the birds? Everything in the kitchen is covered with cling wrap all etc. And cmon how worst could it be right? THE ONLY WINDOW IS AT THE BALCONY. Can you imagine the smell?

Before i even give birth i’m staying in his room all day like IMH patient. Now my baby do basically the same things as me. WAIT before yall say what why didn’t i talk to him all. I SPOKE TO HIM BEFORE. His dogs very smelly, train his dogs all wait baby come out already whr to learn to crawl walk all. I told him i wanna move away or at least get a rental or sm shit.

He told me. “Now i don’t have the money. I also going enlist already. Cnnt wait meh?” Ya enlist. He’s 23. Say he don’t have the time to shower his dogs all come back take care baby. Guess what. Dogs belongs to him his but his mom  taking care for him buying food for the dogs all. Wow. Nvm i told him i’ll go find jobs, there’s people willing to help me take care baby. He say he don’t trust me therefore i’m still here in his house. Waiting for him to bring back money when he didn’t even have the responsibility, he work as delivery and only 4hr a day.

I tried moved away, but he ended up threatening me. He going suicide all, baby is his everything (his family rs not good), I don’t want my baby noy being able to see his father. At that point of time, i still do have feelings for him and i don’t wanna lose him so i went back. but when i’m preg he kept claiming that baby not his all. FORCED me to abort, didn’t really contributed when i’m preg. But wants everything.

Secondly, his mom has the very traditional thinking. So everything that i do is WRONG TO HER. I’m now a shm. I gave my baby pacifier, his mom started nagging “why give pacifier, now baby so hard to take care. Last time i could just hug her and she’ll sleep.”

Cmon, your THIS SON DIDN’T YOU FEED HIM PACIFIER TOO? YOU’RE THE ONE TAKING CARE OR ME. Also she say don’t speak things about baby infront of baby. Like for example “baby very cute, she very guai, her hand very small.” HIS MOM ownself say those infront of my BABY.

I mean this is my baby, i know my baby best and his mom would wants baby to sleep with her sometimes, then when baby gets fussy, she’ll starts to indirectly says me.

“Why give pacifier, see drop cry drop cry. This baby very hard to take care, keep crying. Baby dw sleep i wan to sleep.”

All nvm, i hand washed my clothes and baby’s. Washing machine spoilt. When i see she’s not drying any clothes. I went to soak my clothes going wash the next day, but instead. She wash her bedsheet and dry it. Till now my clothes has been soaking there for 4 days. I have been re-wearing my clothes for past 3 days.

Thirdly, my bf, me and baby went out on xmas day to buy all of ours cny clothes, cause he going ns right. Guess what, he got me a shirt, i just take one from the shelves cause he were bout to pay for the clothes. If i didn’t take any, he wouldn’t probably rmb getting for me. He spents HOURS LOOKING at his clothes and baby’s but mine?

P.s. he didn’t give me any money, i’ve talk to him before MANY times.

The money that i’ve earned when i’m preg is all used up. Buying baby’s crib all, diaper all. I tried getting from other’s but his mom said very ‘pangtan’ but them taking it from his relative?!?? So? I really don’t get it, but i couldn’t say anything. At least baby could still have it.

I’m slowly getting really exhausted, mentally tired, i really don’t know what to do. For your information, i’ve been disowned by my own mom because of him. He’s been sending message to my mom like “How do you teach your daughter to become a slut.”

And messages to me always “No wonder your father deserve to die because of you.” My father passed way before i met him. I couldn’t complete my studies and my dreams, i’ve got no one left. Friends all drifted because of him ya.

For my baby, i really need some help i guess? I really don’t know what to do anymore…

Thanks for listening to my story “

Editor’s note: Wow how did you even get together with him in the first place… This guy is a villain…

GIRL HATES HER FATHER FOR BEING TOXIC, BEATS HIS CHILDREN & SHOUTS AT WIFE

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A girl shared how she envies her friends for having a loving family and that her father is very toxic and always thinks he is right.

Here is the story:

I needed a place to rant. I have always envied friends with loving family because I felt my family is a huge chaos.

My parents quarrel almost every other day, for the simplest thing you can think of. Their quarrels are so loud that I always felt my heart thumping fast and loud.

I really hate myself for feeling this way, but I really hate my dad for his extremely toxic character. He is a big chauvinist, he always think he is right, if things didn’t go his way, he will be very angry and started shouting. He always feel the whole world owes him, and would express his unhappiness for people who are successful. Because of his character, he has not been working for the past 20 years, when he was in his early fifties. My elder sis was the one supporting the whole family expenses. Back then I was still in my primary school. I always recalled him scolding me when I switched on the lights at night to study. So, everyday I have to wake up very early, when he was still sleeping, on the bathroom light to study. I understand his concern was to save on electricity bill because his income had stopped. I just cannot understand why didn’t he put in effort to find a job then.

My dad’s temper is so bad that his family members had not keep in touch with him ever since and he did not have any friends.

Since young, he had always physically abuse my brother by punching him. My brother dreaded coming home and was a secondary school dropout. He learnt smoking, steals from people, and got easily triggered temper too. I always feel my dad had the biggest role to play in my brother going astray.

Fast forward to today, dads temper had not improved a single bit, if any at all, it’s worsened. I really hate the way he talked to my mum, always finding faults at her and thinking he’s the right one.

He is old now. Everytime I looked at him, tears will start to well up in my eyes. I really wanted so much to be filial to him, but I resent him so much. I feared him so much too. I know he is ageing, he lost weight, started having issues with eyes and legs. But everytime he shouts, it is still so loud and so vulgar. It’s as though the whole world owes him.

I pray for the day when he starts being less toxic, be more grateful and with a better temper. So that his family will start caring for him.”

Editor’s note: Tell him he’s getting older and ask him what kind of legacy does he want to leave behind when he eventually leaves the world? Does he want to be remembered as a toxic man or does he want people to recall him fondly?

WOMAN WANTS TO BREAK UP BECAUSE BF ALWAYS CANCELS DATES, MEETS 2/3 TIMES A MONTH

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A woman shared how she only meets her boyfriend 2/3 times a month and he always excludes her from outings and cancels their dates.

Here is the story:

“My current boyfriend (30 y/o) and i (27 y/o) have been together for more than 2 years and i started to grow tired of this relationship.

We stay far away from each other (i live in west while he live in the central. ) Henceforth we only meet only 2 to 3 times per month. Sadly, I always have to travel all the way from jurong to his place just to meet him and go back home by myself. So far, he only drove me home twice in this two years. The first time is when he need to borrow my ipad so he drove me home to take it. The second time was when we went to jem for a midnight movie.

Whenever we spend time together, he would be using his phone playing mobile games or checking his stocks the whole time.

He always treats his friends and their girlfriends better than me. I always got excluded whenever his friends invite to play poker, sing k, mj and even their wedding. Oftentimes, he would last minute gave me lame excuses to cancel our dates.

All my friends are encouraging me to break up and should not be wasting my time on him. Are there any ways i could improve the relationship or i really should break up with him? I have tried communicating with him about this but he always avoid the topic.”

Editor’s note: Wait, you think west side and central is far?!

GUY CHEATED ON HIS GF AGAIN, SAYS HE CAN RELATE TO WANG LEEHOM

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A netizen shared how he cheated again on his girlfriend and that he “really feels” for Wang Leehom, Sylvia Chan and Ryan Tan.

Here is the story:

“I just cheated again…..

I know that there are many out there who are strongly against cheating and would shame those cheaters out there. Unpopular sentiment here, but I really feel for my man Wang Leehom, Raeesah Khan, Ryan Tan, Sylvia Chan and so on…

As a guy, as a young person, as a human being, I feel that it is only normal to make mistakes in life. Of course, committing a wrongdoing at the expense of another’s happiness is bad and I am not condoning a cheater’s, liar, or any criminal’s offences.

But if we take a step back and realise that all of us are bound to sin and fall off our path of righteousness one day, wouldn’t we hope that there would be people, or at least someone out there who would not only forgive us, give us a chance but guide us back to the road towards dignity and normalcy once more?

I hope these simple thoughts of mine would inspire others to not immediately jump on the bandwagon to cancel, shame and ridicule those who have done wrong in their lives.

How about trying to take on a different perspective and imagine that the person who have sinned is your loved one, your partner,  your parent, your sibling, your friend, your idol, your teacher, your senior, your child, or even…. yourself?

How would you react? Would you still post mean, nasty, sarcastic jokes and comments about this sinner? Would you continue to share their mistakes to people around you and turn them into the next meme and laughing stock?

Or would you do your best to speak out on their behalf, give them the benefit of the doubt, or if the situation is rather unmendable, would you forgive them and give them a chance to climb back up onto their feet to prove themselves and live a life they desire again?

Thanks for reading. Have a good day.”

Editor’s note: Stop disgracing men.

GIRL’S BF CHEATING ON HER WITH 10 GIRLS, BUT STILL REFUSES TO LEAVE HIM

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A netizen shared how she hacked into her boyfriend’s phone and found him talking to “tens” of girls, and read through all of his messages.

Here is the story:

“Confessions of a crazy jealous gf.

I’m not easily jealous to be honest. Usually I will give my man all the space and privacy that he needs but one day I just felt like smthg was ‘off’.

We would be getting intimate and he just looks disinterested and wasn’t getting hard or wasn’t finishing and I didn’t understand why when it was all his favourite spots. Or I’d be saying smthg and his mind is elsewhere and obviously not paying attention.

One day, I decided to ‘fish’ info out of him and asked him “who do you love the most?” Of which he said “oh, i don’t know, it’s hard to choose. I like all of them.” (Oh so there’s more than just me?)

I couldn’t sleep. He didn’t wna talk. But I knew smthg was amiss so I did the unthinkable: I hacked into his phone to see his latest pictures (if anyone had been sending intimate pictures). Then I went through his Instagram and Tinder and WA. Whilst I thought I’d find 1-2 girls, I found… tens!

I was horrified.

I was horrified bc just the night before he was telling me how much he cares about me and how I’m the only one and how he hasn’t dated anyone as long as he has dated me (coming to about 1.5 years now).

The worst part is, I got so crazy jealous that I actly downloaded his WA onto my computer and went thru all his messages. I know where the girls stay, where they work, how many kids they have, what they look like, their phone number etc.

One girl with a tattoo down her leg actly stays across me. She supposedly went to his house multiple times for “english classes”. Of which I found she had ‘accidentally’ left her notebook at his place. I know it’s her bc she signed off with her real Viet name and my boyf is not Viet so that can’t be his notebook. One day, I’m out at the mall and I see a girl who looks like her. I secretly took her picture as proof. I contemplated going up to her to bash her face up but I just had my nails done and didn’t want to ruin it on her.

Another night, we had just gone out for a date and on the way back, someone kept trying to call him at 9.30pm. I saw her name and recognized it as one of his “fave” girls to text. He saw that I saw and tried to play it off cool, “well I’m definitely not picking ‘that’ up right now”.

Anw, I confront him one night over the notebook. As expected, he tries to gaslight me back and says I’m fretting over “small things/scrap evidence that doesn’t matter”. I can’t tell him that I know all this bc his phone has all the evidence we need. He admits to me he had a girl come over for English classes but she “sat outside” and they didn’t get intimate whatsoever.

I play dumb and go along with it. He doesn’t need to know I’m still logged in to his WA. I know his every move, his schedule, where he’s going to meet who and when and why. Is it wrong? Absolutely.

The other day, during Christmas, his “fave” girl blocked him on Whatsapp. He sent a message to her that was single tick. I felt so happy inside! Yay, that bitch finally had the sense to back off my man!

He didn’t tell me about it, but I could tell from the way he was treating me in bed that he wasn’t texting somebody else anymore. He was letting me stay over longer, we were going at it more frequently and longer.

I don’t think I’m crazy to think that I already knew smthg was up from the way things were in the bedroom.

I’m still logged in to his WA but I think I’ll log out bc… well, he’s been a good boy and I can tell he ain’t texting anyone else anymore. For now.

So girls, if ur man is not showing much affection but suddenly spending a lot of money on you during dates then it’s probably in compensation for him cheating behind your back.

And guys, if a girl finds out you’re cheating/wandering around but she doesn’t scream her head off at you, you should be afraid, you should be very afraid.”

Editor’s note: And you’re still with him and not doing anything about it? You’ve got issues…

SBS BUS BEATS RED LIGHT, ALMOST RAN OVER FATHER-DAUGHTER CROSSING ROAD

A video emerged online showing an SBS Transit bus beating the red light and almost colliding with a father-daughter duo who were crossing the road.

The incident happened on 28 December at about 6.10pm, at the junction of Jurong East Avenue 1 and Jurong East Street 31.

The traffic light was red at the time in favour of the pedestrians, and the bus was seen beating the red light.

A father was seen crossing the road at the time with his young daughter in hand and almost got run over by the bus.

Thankfully the father was alert enough and stopped just in the nick of time to avoid becoming a tragedy, as the bus sped past them.

Potential penalties

Under the Road Traffic Act, the penalty for not conforming to the traffic light signal for heavy vehicles in Singapore is a fine of $500 and 12 demerit points.

YPS WITH BLATANT DISREGARD FOR THE LAW, GATHERING IN VERY LARGE GROUP

A video emerged online showing a very large group of youths gathering illegally at an unspecified underpass to mingle and drink.

There were about 20 of them, as they sat around in a circle and created a ruckus and inter-mingling with each other.

Potential penalties

First-time offenders who breach safe distancing measures are fined $300.

For non-compliance with safe management measures under the COVID-19 offenders may be jailed for up to six months, fined up to S$10,000, or both.

If they are caught by the Police for not wearing a mask or not wearing a mask properly they can be charged under the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) (Control Order) Regulations 2020.

Penalties include a fine of up to SGD$10,000 and jailed for up to six months.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

GRABFOOD CYCLIST HIT BY CAR @ ANCHORVALE ST, SENT FLYING ONTO GROUND

A video emerged online showing an accident between a GrabFood delivery cyclist and an unspecified car at a zebra crossing.

The accident happened on 29 December at about 11.45am, along Anchorvale Street and Sengkang East Road.

The video was cropped by the uploader so we couldn’t see what happened at the start that caused the accident.

The cyclist was seen being hit by the car which sent him flying onto the road, with his slippers being torn from the impact.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

Source: SGRV

30 Y.O MAN ARRESTED FOR ALLEGEDLY BEING A SECRET SOCIETY MEMBER

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The Singapore Police’s Criminal Investigation Department (CID), the Secret Societies Branch (SSB), and seven other police land divisions conducted joint operations alongside safe distancing enforcement officers from Enterprise Singapore, from 17 December to 27 December.

The operations targeted public entertainment and nightlife establishments, F&B outlets, and shopping malls.

A total of 177 people and 56 outlets were checked during the operations and a 30-year-old man was arrested for his alleged involvement in secret society activities.

Three F&B outlets at Golden Mile Complex were found to have allegedly contravened Covid-19 (temporary Measures) (Control Order) Regulations 2020:

  • Angel Bar Beer
  • CY Bistro
  • Thong Lor

The police reiterated that they will continue to carry out enforcement operations at various public entertainment and nightlife establishments and popular congregation hot spots and will not hesitate to take stern actions against people who associate with gangs and disregard the law.

Images source: Singapore Police Force

GUY STARTED SLEEPING WITH GF, BUT IS TOO NERVOUS UNTIL CANNOT “STAND”

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A netizen shared how he started getting intimate with his girlfriend recently and that he is too nervous to the point where he can’t “get it up”.

Here is the story:

“Recently started to get intimate with my GF. And I realize that I may have an issue of getting it hard with her.

It’s not that I’m not attracted to her but I think it’s got to do with the nervousness that I have when she is being intimate with me.

Do y’all have any tips about this issue? Thank you in advance for reading this”

Editor’s note: I suggest a trip to the doctor, or Tongkat Ali.