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MAID CAUGHT SNEAKING BF HOME WHILE HER EMPLOYERS ARE SLEEPING

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An Indonesian maid was caught red-handed sneaking her boyfriend home every night while her employers are fast asleep.

A 32-year-old woman known only as Ms. Wang said that she hired an Indonesian maid in November to take care of her 3 toddlers as well as clean her home at a Bukit Timah condominium.

She said that the maid had previously worked in another home for about 2 years and they thought she was good as she had experience.

The maid usually wakes up at 6 am to prepare breakfast but on the day she was caught, the family didn’t see her even at 7 am and the husband then went to her room to wake her up.

But when he opened the door, he found a strange man in his underwear in the bed with his maid.

He then shouted at him and demanded to know who is he before calling the police, after which the woman confessed to bringing her boyfriend home every night for the last 2 weeks after everyone was asleep.

Contraceptive pills were also found inside her room.

WOMAN KILLED AFTER CONCRETE SLAB FELL ON HER IN FOREST @ UPPER BUKIT TIMAH

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A 48-year-old woman was found lying motionless in a forested area along Upper Bukit Timah Road on 19 December.

According to The Straits Times, the deceased was a woman named Melita Dollah and she had died after a concrete slab fell on her opposite Bukit Timah Hill, on the state land near Bukit Batok Nature Park.

The woman’s body was discovered by the authorities.

The Singapore Police said that they were alerted to the incident on 19 December at around 12.42 pm and the woman was unconscious when conveyed to Ng Teng Fong General Hospital where she was later pronounced dead.

The SCDF also said that they received a call for help at Bukit Timah Hill.

The police said that based on preliminary findings, they do not suspect foul play and that investigations are ongoing.

SALES OF TICKETS VTL FLIGHTS/BUS INTO SG SUSPENDED

Earlier today the Ministry of Health reported that due to the number of imported COVID-19 cases, the country will stop the sales of travel VTL tickets into Singapore which includes both airline flights and land VTL (Malaysia).

The suspension will last from Thursday (Dec 23) to Jan 20, 2022.

Those who have previously purchased the VTL travel tickets will still be able to enter the country.

The Ministry added that imported cases has reached a new high after the Omicron variant.

“We are picking up more Omicron cases because of the rapid spread of the variant across many countries/regions. Thus far, our enhanced testing regime for travelers has helped us to detect 65 confirmed Omicron cases.”

“With aggressive contact tracing and ringfencing measures, we have, for now, been able to limit onward community transmission. But it is a matter of time before the Omicron variant spreads in our community.” said the MOH in a press release.

MARRIED COUPLE SHARING A GF IN A GUY-GIRL-GIRL RELATIONSHIP, DON’T DARE TELL PARENTS

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A netizen shared that he is married and that he and his wife are dating another girl together, in a “male-female-female” relationship.

Here is the story:

“How do I open up to my conservative friends and family about our girlfriend in a polyamorous (MFF) relationship?

My wife and I have been happily married for 4 years. Six months ago, we both found a girl (I’ll refer to her as C) who melted our hearts. We both went on separate dates with C and eventually she moved in with us.

My wife isn’t mentally prepared to have children yet, but C recently got off contraception after a consensus decision.

We never felt a need to talk about our relationship with others, and many of them think we are just close friends, but we realize it has become somewhat pressing that I inform those around me about our relationship.

When we first started dating, I was able to open up about all of the ups and downs to my best (male) friend. But one day, his fiancee audited his texts and told her that she didn’t approve of him talking to me about polyamory – which I thought was quite petty and insecure – and so I lost that pillar of support.

Many of my close friends are in very committed marriages that motivate their normative views of what makes an acceptable family unit. I tried to steer conversations towards this topic a few times, but no one seems to take it seriously.

The most frustrating response is when you can tell that they think it’s some form of infidelity or fetish.

I also tried to gauge my parents’ opinion on this and asked casually if they were OK if I sought a second wife.

But my mother was vehemently against it with all kinds of non sequitur reasoning, such as “You don’t have enough time to take care of both wives.” (I’m usually the one being taken care of!)

This ended in an argument when I pointed out that it was unfair that they didn’t oppose our Muslim family friends for having second wives.

I already had a hard time years ago when I first introduced my wife as they weren’t expecting her to be Caucasian.

And now that my parents have warmed up to my wife and really dote on her, I feel they’ll be even more outraged if they knew I was about to start a family with C.

My wife and I want C to feel co-equal in our relationship and don’t want her to have an awkward introduction to my friends or family.

It’s quite frustrating that everyone is accepting of the relationship in my wife’s and C’s social circles (my wife is American and C is Dutch), but it is only my Singaporean side that comes across as dogmatic and intolerant.”

Editor’s note: Wow, you have a huge appetite.

THAILAND REINSTATES QUARANTINE FOR FOREIGN VISITORS

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The Thailand government has announced that all visitors who visit Thailand will be required to serve quarantine once again with the exception of Phuket.

Previously, the Thai government said that they will stop accepting registrations for visitors who are under the Test & Go Scheme after 21st December 2021.

Travelers who have previously approved for travel will not be affected, those who are in the midst of waiting for approval will have to check.

Visitors who are traveling under the Phuket Sandbox scheme will not be affected

This comes after more than 60 cases of the Omicron variant were detected in Thailand.

The Thai government will be reviewing this restriction after Jan 4, 2022.

PARENTS MOVED INTO SON’S HOME TO “KEEP HIM COMPANY”, THEN CONTROLS EVERYTHING

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A netizen shared how he got a new place and his parents then came over to keep him company, but then they started controlling the things he does and his home.

Here is the story:

“Re: Guilty about not living with parents

I recently got my new place. As I’m single, my parents decided to come over and their best intent to keep me company since there is more than sufficient space.

I felt that my freedom is lost as I no longer have my whole space to myself.

I don’t fancy things not in their place the way I like it, neither do I like the choice of music and tv program.

I know I sound really mean and selfish as I was Ok when I was much younger and living at their place but when I grew up, I didn’t even want to share my space with them. To be honest, occasional visits are fine with me like 2-3 overnight stays.

I just cannot stand every day and every night and have to listen to their comments and opinions when I decide about my choices.

It really makes me mad when what I get decided gets vetoed off as a lousy decision, for example, during the renovation phase.

It’s not that they have bad opinions but it’s just, I have grown up. I confided in 2 friends about this and one says it’s my place so I should have the full decision and the other suppose I’m really not an easy person to live with.

I do agree I’m not the best accommodating person when it comes to living together. I just want to know: Am I really mean to think like this or is this normal?”

Editor’s note: It’s your house isn’t it? Stand up for yourself.

GUY NOT HAPPY BECAUSE OBSESSED FRIEND COPYING HIS PERSONALITY

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A netizen shared how he has a friend who is obsessed with him and copying everything he does and “stealing his identity”.

Here is the story:

“Hi all. Need some advice regarding a friend who is obsessed with me. Let’s call him A.

Been close friends with A for a really long time. However, A is starting to creep me out by copying every little thing I do, from the words I use in my speech to my personality (he originally had a personality that is a complete opposite from mine). He also pretends to like my hobbies and behaves like me.

This is getting disturbing. Feels like A is stealing my identity. Have brought this up to A before but it is still happening. Would love to continue this friendship. What would you guys do??”

Editor’s note: I think he likes you more than a friend.

GUY GIVES PARENTS 20% OF SALARY BUT MUM NOT HAPPY, ACCUSE HIM OF BEING UNFILIAL

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A netizen shared how he gives his parents 20% of his monthly salary but then his mother accuses him of kicking her aside after he told her about his financial planning.

Here is the story:

“[How much monthly allowance do you give your parents?]

I give my parents 20% of my salary (>$700) ever since I started working two years ago, and 20% of any bonuses when I get them too.

I learnt that I give the highest percentage amongst my friends, but I’m okay with that as I can afford to and somehow this 20% proportion has been ingrained in my mind since young.

Recently, my partner and I secured a BTO. Somehow, this got me to start thinking about finances seriously. I feel that I should save more for future uses such as the wedding, honeymoon, house, renovation and any emergency spending.

I’m not engaged yet, but just generally thinking about the future and making a mental note that I have to start being more financially savvy now that we have a home (yay!).

I innocently shared this with my mum but she got angry instead and started ranting that kids nowadays only care about planning for their own future and kicking their parents aside.

I clarified that I have no intention to change or withdraw the 20% of my salary that I have been providing.

I only wanted to save a higher proportion of the remaining amount after setting aside the monthly allowance.

However, she insisted that I have become stingy ever since getting together with my partner and that I only cared about my own future.

Honestly, I feel quite angry at her accusations as I have not once given anything lesser than 20% of whatever I have. She also commented that I could rely on my partner and need not plan to save so much, which I do not agree with.

We should aim towards being able to support ourselves regardless of whether we have someone to rely on, isn’t it?

I really don’t know what’s wrong with children planning for their future as the point of planning ahead is to avoid having to take parents’ money for our own expenses next time.

Furthermore, I am still giving the 20% without any intention to stop, and I don’t know why she’s so defensive every time I talk about my own financial planning. Sigh.

Just wanted to get this off my chest. Thank you for hearing me out.”

Editor’s note: Your mother is afraid of losing her golden rooster to another woman.

MOTHER-IN-LAW ACCUSE WOMAN OF “STEALING THEIR SON” AFTER MOVING IN

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A netizen shared how his girlfriend moved into his home to stay with him and his mother started making her do housework, among other things.

The mother then accused her of “stealing their son” and the guy then had enough and moved out the next day.

Here is the story:

“I faced similar issues as you guys as well. But instead, I am the son whose mother treats my room like storage.

It didn’t help that my then-girlfriend (now wife) was moving in to stay with me. We had wanted to stay together whilst working from home. I have never seen my own mum clean and mop the floor at 7am in the morning yet she had started demanding my wife to do so!

This carried on for 2 weeks, and of course, I helped her out. But it just got to me that my mum was using my wife to force me to do whole house chores! Normally we would split the work and I would just settle my own room, but what the heck, suddenly me and my wife need to do the whole house??

Just because my wife is “freeloading” and not paying bills? But hey! My wife did give a lot of gifts and we even forked out for family dinners every weekend! My wife had never talked back to my mum before. I warned my wife that I came from a toxic family and they will not appreciate any of these gestures.

The last straw was when my family scolded her for “stealing their son/brother”. I was fed up and we packed our bags and left home the next day for a rental flat (while I am waiting for my own resale flat).

All these happened during the covid period and I am glad we had managed through it.”

Editor’s note: You did the right thing standing up against a tyrant.

HIT-AND-RUN DRIVER CRASHED INTO CAR IN FRONT, THEN FLEES THE SCENE

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A hit-and-run accident occurred along Loyang Avenue on 14 December involving a Toyota Prius, who rear-ended the cam car.

The cam car was seen in the video coming to a halt when the offending driver failed to slow down and rear-ended the car.

After the accident, the cam car then drove forward and the cam car driver then alighted from his vehicle to assess the damage done to his vehicle.

The hit-and-run driver was then seen turning his vehicle, looking like the offending driver was going to alight, but instead, the driver then fled the scene.

Potential penalties

It is a punishable offence to leave the scene of an accident, which is considered a hit-and-run – upon conviction, first-time offenders face a fine of up to $3,000 or a jail term of up to 12 months.