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BF EXPLODES ON GF AFTER FINDING OUT SHE HAD A NOSE JOB

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I’m 26 and my boyfriend ‘James’ is 28.

So, I was born with a wide nose. I was insecure of my appearance because of it – so when I was 22 (4 years ago), I got a nose job. It helped 100% with my insecurity, and I love my new nose.

Fast-forward to 6 months ago – I got together with James. I didn’t think I needed to mention I got my nose done – because it’d be weird to randomly “Oh by the way, I had surgery for my nose!”. Also, it didn’t matter – as I got it done long before I met him.

Yesterday, James was talking about nose jobs. His best friend’s wife was looking for a good plastic surgeon and he asked if I knew of any. The doctor I went to was amazing (professional and friendly), so I recommended him. James then asked me how I knew this doctor. I said “A few years ago I got my nose done at his clinic”.

He looked at me in shock for several seconds then blew up. He yelled saying that I had no intention to tell him, and that I was lying to him for all these months. He was so hurt – saying “So when will you tell me that you got lip-fillers? Or botox? Or lipo?”.

I was shocked and said I only got my nose done. It wasn’t even that drastic, but he seems to be unable to trust me anymore. He said he needs some time to think about ‘us’ – and I can’t believe it went this far. To me, it’s pretty trivial, but I feel bad for ‘keeping this from him’ (even though it wasn’t my intention). 

Here are what netizens think:

  • Who care? as long end of the day he gets his B job.
  • Seriously. They’ve been dating 6 months. Is she supposed to have somehow filled him in on her entire life during that time? It’s not as if he had previously asked her if she’d had plastic surgery and she denied it.
  • i genuinely dont understand what he’s so upset about. Like who cares if you got a nose job? Its not really his business anyway since it was so long before you got with him. Rethink ya relationship with that dude he sounds unstable

GF TELLS BF TO HAVE “TALKING PHASE” BUT GOES BEHIND HIS BACK TO FIND SAUSAGES

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My gf had S with other people during the talking phase of our relationship and it bothers me.

People say “the talking phase does not mean exclusivity” but that does not mean it doesn’t hurt :/

It hurts more knowing that she liked me but didn’t want to say anything because she was too shy/nervous but wasn’t nervous enough to go f a guy she knew was only using her for piak piak. She did this for months while talking to me.

I also recently found out she blew some guy who slid in her DMs the night after she told me that she liked me. This really sucks for me, but there’s nothing I can do about it now.

Here are what netizens think:

  • If it bothers you that much, either get over it or break up with her. If you cant get over it but dont break up, you’ll resent her and never be confident in your relationship. You’ll hold it against her and it’ll mess you up emotionally.
  • Yeah I get it, there is nothing worse than feeling swoony and romantic for someone, thinking things may be special and then finding out you were just one of many. Some will say be happy you made the cut but it can mess with you and cause resentment. There is literally nothing you can do though other than communicate this and if you can’t get over it, leave before resentment sets in.
  • Yeah it’s clearly a difference in excitement for the developing relationship. When I met my wife, she was instantly all I thought about, and I would have certainly been hurt if she didn’t feel the same. I mean, she didn’t do anything wrong wrong, but sometimes just bring ourselves hurts others unintentionally.

MAN HEAR NEIGHBOUR BEATING GF, TRIGGERED CHILDHOOD TRAUMA

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I’m pretty sure I heard my neighbour beating his GF. I could hear him yelling and her screaming “stop” and “get off me”. I called the police but I felt really guilty about it because I don’t want to be seen as a “Karen”.

My fiancé said, “well we don’t know for sure if he was hitting her”. He made me feel even worse. I hate him right now.

My neighbours fighting triggered my PTSD. My mother was a victim of domestic violence, and I watched her getting brutally beaten up when I was only five years old. There was one occasion where my mother was screaming for help and her boyfriend placed a knife to her head and threatened to chop off her head if we called the police.

I wish I was like everyone else and I could just mind my own business, But I couldn’t live with myself if he killed her or put her in a hospital. I know it’s not my job to save everyone but stuff like this bothers me.

Here are what netizens think:

You shouldn’t beat yourself up over something like that. It’s better safe than sorry. If you were able to hear all that – more than likely you were in the right to get involved.

You may have saved her life. Even if you didn’t, it’s better to be wrong in that situation than right and she ends up with a concussion, at the very least.

Don’t feel bad about calling the police or being a “Karen.” A Karen intervenes for her own ego, not to help others. You did the right thing for your neighbour, even if you misinterpreted what you heard.

As someone who was once a victim of my ex and no one called, I think you did the right thing. The Police will intervene and they actually did help me once they were involved

44 Y.O ARRESTED FOR STEALING MOTORCYCLE FROM CHIN SWEE ROAD

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According to the Police media release, A 44-year-old man was arrested for his suspected involvement in a case of theft of a motor vehicle.

The incident happened on 1st March 2022 at around 4.30 AM. The Police received a report stating that a motorcycle was stolen from a multi-story carpark along Chin Swee Road.

Through investigations and reviewing Police CCTV, the man was arrested two days later (March 3) and the stolen motorcycle has been recovered.

The man was charged in court earlier today for theft of a motor vehicle under Section 379A of the Penal Code 1871. The offence of theft of a motor vehicle carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years and a fine.

Prevention:

Here is what the Police advise all motorcycle owners:

  1. Park your motorcycle in well-lit areas;
  2. Install an anti-theft alarm for your motorcycle;
  3. Use a motorcycle canvas to cover the motorcycle, securing both ends;
  4. Use additional locking devices such as disc brake locks or install a suspension guard;
  5. Remove the ignition key and lock the motorcycle, whenever it is left unattended; and
  6. Do not leave spare keys inside the motorcycle storage box.

PRC OFFICIAL SCAM: 46 VICTIMS LOST OVER $12.3M SINCE JANUARY 2022

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According to the officials, 46 people has fallen prey to the China Official scam since Jan 2022, the total amount of monies lost is over $12.3 million.

How its done?

Victims were typically contacted by fraudsters posing as representatives of official bodies such as the Ministry of Health, China Offcials, Investigation officers and many more variations.

After convincing the victim, they would transfer the phone calls stating that they are Police from China and state that the victim is under investigation for money laundering.

Fake reasons the scammers provide includes:

  • Investigations for opening a China Bank Account
  • Investigations for money laundering
  • Investigations for illegal importation of goods

and many more…

The victim will be told to provide information which is used to fabricate fake documentations to convince the victims further. The victim will received documents containing Singapore official’s logo such as

  • Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS)
  • Attorney-Generals’s Chambers

and many more

Convincing

After convincing that they are on a investigation they will follow up with the victim and start to ask for personal information such as banking login credentials, Singpass and one-time-passwords.

By the time the victim realised that transactions were made, the money will be long gone.

S’PORE RED CROSS AID HAS ARRIVED IN UKRAINE, DONATIONS HIT $2M

The first tranche of humanitarian aid from Singapore Red Cross has arrived in Ukraine, following the Russian invasion of the country.

The Singapore Red Cross shared an update on their Facebook page.

Here is their full statement

The first tranche of aid from Singapore Red Cross’ earlier US$100,000 commitment has arrived in Ukraine, and is being distributed by the Ukrainian Red Cross Society (URCS) and the International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies (IFRC), as part of their ongoing response.

The SRC has been in active contact with the Ukrainian Red Cross and the IFRC on the ground situation. The URCS, with the support of the Red Cross Movement, has provided lifesaving assistance as follows: 

  • More than 30,000 people have already received humanitarian aid from the Red Cross emergency stockpile: including hygiene and food kits, warm clothing and medicine.
  • Ukraine Red Cross Rapid Response Units are
    • providing support to fire brigades and State Emergency Services in repairing damage to civilian buildings and infrastructure. More than 50 lives have been saved during this time. 
    • on duty at congested border crossing points: arranging places for mothers and children; providing water, food and hygiene items; supporting people with first aid and psychological first aid on a 24/7 basis.
    • assisting in evacuation of civilians from places where shelling takes place.
    • organising collection points for essentials in the regions to be handed over to those who need them now: clothes, food, hygiene items, drinks, bed linen, blankets, etc.
    • distributing food and water to 8,000 people taking shelter in Kyiv’s metro stations and 4,000 people staying in shelters in Mariupol.

Red Cross Societies in neighbouring countries such as Poland, Romania, Lithuania, Hungary and Slovakia have provided humanitarian support at the border, distributing food items, water, non-food items, hygiene products, and communication services, where over 500,000 people have fled Ukraine. 

Mr Benjamin William, Secretary General and CEO of Singapore Red Cross, said, “I am heartened to see the outpouring of support from the people of Singapore for our humanitarian response to the crisis in Ukraine. It is a show of solidarity with the communities suffering heavy casualties in Ukraine.”

“Our team has been working closely with the Ukrainian Red Cross, IFRC and other National Societies to provide assistance to address the most pressing needs. Much of the focus will be on the vulnerable, including children (many who are unaccompanied), single women with children, the elderly, and people with disabilities. The combination of an active and bloody conflict, extreme cold weather and Covid-19 means that for the people in the conflict regions and those who have been displaced from their homes (already exceeding 1 million), the days ahead will be a struggle for survival. The essential needs continue to increase day by day. Only through the collaborative effort of many parties, including we in Singapore, can we effectively reach out to meet the needs of the affected persons and communities.”

OVERWHELMING SUPPORT FROM COMMUNITY

In Singapore, donations to the SRC fundraising appeal have reached about S$2 million. This includes the Singapore Government’s contribution of US$100,000 to the humanitarian operations. 

Corporate organisations including Credence and Frasers Property have launched employee giving initiatives; Frasers Property has also made an outright donation. Revolut is making it easy for their community to donate via its app. Home-based bakery Little Beauties Bakes is donating sale proceeds of baked goods, whilst some students are selling accessories in school to raise funds.

The key challenges in delivering humanitarian aid include logistical limitations and disrupted supply chains. Unsolicited in-kind donations for Ukraine remain a challenge for the Red Cross Societies on the ground to handle, exacerbating capacity to store, transport and distribute it. Red Cross encourages monetary donations as cash can be used to purchase items more quickly at nearby unaffected regions, thereby enhancing flexibility in the Red Cross response coordination at this time of need.

The Red Cross reiterates our call for unhindered access to civilians for Humanitarian Aid. In line with universally accepted International Humanitarian Law, the Red Cross has called for the protection of non-combatants and critical infrastructure such as water and power systems in Ukraine, so that all humanitarian actors, including the Red Cross, will be able to have access to civilians needing help. 

The Singapore Red Cross has activated its “Restoring Family Links” (RFL) service to assist Singapore residents to locate their immediate family members who may have been affected by the disasters with whom they have difficulty in contacting. For assistance, please contact SRC

TEMPORARY CEASEFIRE IN 2 UKRAINE CITIES FOR CIVILIANS TO EVACUATE

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A temporary partial ceasefire has been declared earlier today in the Ukrainian cities of Mariupol and Volnovakha by the invading Russian forces invading Ukraine, to allow for civilians to evacuate from the cities.

A statement was released by the Russian Defence Ministry, saying that they have agreed with the Ukrainian forces to allow the evacuation of Ukrainian civilians from the two cities at 10am Moscow time, according to the Associated Press (AP).

According to the BBC, the ceasefire will last from 9am to 4pm local time (7am to 2pm GMT), and the evacuation will commence at 11am local time (9am GMT).

The evacuation route will be from Mariupol to Zaporizhzhia to the west, with buses leaving three locations in the city; private transport will also be permitted along the route.

Straying away from the agreed upon evacuation route is forbidden.

The decision for the temporary ceasefire came after Mariupol was blockaded by Russian forces just hours prior.

MAN FROM CATHOLIC ORDER ACCUSED OF SEX ACTS ON TEEN BOYS

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According to a media release, a man is accused of committing sexual acts against two teenage boys.

The victims were between the ages of 14 and 16 years old. The incident took place between 2005 and 2007, due to the nature of the content the description of the crime will be metaphorically described.

Due to the age of the boys, none of the names will be reported due to a gag order.

2005 – 2006 – The man uses his mouth on the boy

2007 – Did the same thing on another boy

Between April 2007 December, another boy

The man is also facing two charges having carnal intercourse against the order of nature.

The Archbishop’s Communications Office of the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Singapore told Straits Times that they will not be commenting as the case is still pending.

It is unclear what is the title of the man in the Catholic Order, Straits Times reported that the accused is not a priest.

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Image Source: South Park Studios

Penalties:

Under the Child and Young Persons Act, the man can be jailed for up to 2 years and/or a fine of up to SGD$5,000.

For carnal intercourse against the order of nature, anyone found guilty can be jailed for a maximum of 10 years and face a fine.

MAN NARROWLY ESCAPES FROM SCAM JOB OFFER CLAIMING HIGH SALARY

I received a message from a woman via Telegram chat. She introduced herself from “Hudson Global resources” 

She introduced a job that I could do during my free time which could earn me between $3,500 to $3,800 (Full Time) and Part-time: $80 to $120.

She requested my name and what’s app to proceed further than her client would show me more details on the job description. I gave her my name and what’s app number on 25 February 22.

On 26 February 22, Saturday, I received a what’s app message from Christina from telephone number +65. I could see a lady’s face with her daughter. She never called me. she only communicated with me via chat. She sent me company details of a company, Digimind Pte ltd, It’s about digital marketing, some concepts to google Ads.

It was about working from home and indicated that the minimum weekly basic is $500.

Phishing Link

She started an account for me through this link http://www.c-digimind.com/index/user/register/invite_code/DPH42j.html (Note: Fake website, do not click) She trained me and showed me how it was done. After that, she showed me how I had earned $62 within an hour.

On 1 March 22, Wednesday, I ask her if the concept whether it is multi-level or not. She informed me that it is a membership and she has 4 members. She informed me that when I join I would be a bronze member which is free.

On 2 March 22, Wednesday I tried to log in but saw the scam alert but I did not tell her about it. I messaged her and told her i cannot log in she then gave me the new link which is http;//www.o-digimind.com (Note: Fake website, do not click). I did not go in to try out on this and report this suspicious activity.

I wish to state that I did not lose any money in this but wanted to share my encounter to prevent others from getting scammed.

MAN STRANGLES DOG AND PULLED HIS COLLAR INHUMANELY

A video went viral on Facebook after a man was seen choking and pulling the dogs leashed roughly.

Confronted but he continues

The netizen who filmed the incident said that she confronted the man but after he left the scene he continued strangling the dog.

Here is a rough translation of what the woman said: “he strangled the dog’s neck, it choked all the time at first, more than that, I went back to ask him, so he left and went away and still did the same again.”

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Netizens were outraged and told tagged SPCA in the Facebook post, with some netizens saying that this footage should go to the media and the man should pay for his actions.

Some netizens said that the man does no deserve a dog.

A netizen claimed that she has since reported the incident to the Police.

Potential Penalties

Offenders found guilty of animal cruelty are fined up to $15,000 and/or jailed up to 18 months for first offences, and fined up to $30,000 and/or jailed up to 3 years for subsequent offences.