My wife is 32 weeks pregnant. She’s been vegan for the past 5 years.

We switch cooking duties on alternate days.

Usually, I eat vegan food and when I crave meat, I eat one of those vegan alternatives. My wife doesn’t like me eating meat so I try not to eat meat most of the time.

Today, I was craving seafood so my wife offered to make vegan alternatives for seafood. However, I like the texture of seafood and that cannot be replicated using vegan ingredients so I told her I’d be eating lunch outside. She protested but I stood my ground. I prepared her a meal and then went out for lunch.

When I came home, my wife said I was inconsiderate and rude and that I shouldn’t have eaten seafood knowing she’s vegan. She is now refusing to speak to me.

Here are what netizens think:

• Correct me if I’m wrong. Your wife is a vegan, you however are not. You’ve been considerate enough to change your diet for her sake.? She is now manipulating you by giving you the silent treatment as punishment for doing as you will and what most people in life do on a regular basis.

• She needs to grow up, she cannot force you to do what she feels is right or whatever reason she’s a vegan. You are allowed to do as you will with your diet because YOU know your body and what it likes and dislikes.

• My wife has an allergy to fish, not a dietary choice, a medical condition. She doesn’t stop me from eating fish, we have some in the house right now. Out of consideration I now stick to tinned fish on crackers, so I’m not getting fishy fumes in the apartment, or risking fish residue on the cast iron.

• She is though for forcing her dietary choices on you, and for essentially throwing a tantrum when you didn’t want to follow her diet for a solitary meal. You were considerate in how you did so even, by not eating it in front of her.

I (27m) proposed to my girlfriend Ellie (28f) and she said yes. We’ve dated for 6 years, lived together for 3, raised two cats together, and talked about marriage and having children for a long time.

My fiancée is bisexual. Before we started dating, we were friends in uni. When I met her, she identified as a lesbian, which wasn’t a problem for me, I even met a couple of her ex-girlfriends and supported her through her breakups. Later she realized that she was bisexual and again I supported her, then we started dating and I’ve never been happier.

From the start of our relationship, I made it clear to her that her sexuality wasn’t an issue for me and that i accepted her for who she is. However, she’s not “openly” bisexual, as she doesn’t feel that her sexuality is anyone else’s business. For that reason, I never felt the need to tell my mom about her it,,, as I never considered it a problem or a topic of conversation, just a fact.

When I went home for dinner, I told my mom about the engagement. She was very happy since I’m an only child and she sees Ellie as the daughter she never had. A couple of my friends who know about Ellie’s sexuality went over to the house and we had a few drinks. Drunk, one of my friends commented “How does it feel to marry someone who slept with more girls than you?” in front of my mom.

After my friends left, my mom asked me for an explanation and I revealed my fiancee’s sexuality to her. A little confused, she said “Well, now that she’s with you she’s not like that anymore, right?” and I denied it. “No, she’s still bisexual,” to which my mom got a little mad. “How can you marry a lesbian?” she asked me. I explained to her that bisexual is not the same thing, but according to her, “If she has been with women she is a lesbian.”. I decided not to argue with her and went back to my house.

The next day, Ellie showed me a voice message she received from my mom telling her horrible things and refusing to have a daughter-in-law who uses her son as a “screen” to hide that she’s a carpet muncher. I saw red and called my mom. Instead of apologizing, she was offended that I wasn’t on her side and outed my fiancée in front of our entire family. Now some religious relatives are opposed to coming to our wedding, even though my cousins and a couple of uncles and aunts are on our side.

This has been very stressful and hurtful for my fiancée since her sexuality was always a sensitive issue for her (her mom still doesn’t accept it and kicked her out for it) and all this hate towards her makes me fear that she might decide to call off the wedding.

My mom is not generally homophobic, so this new attitude of hers surprises me and makes me think that if I’d told her before, maybe she wouldn’t have reacted this way. So AITA?

When I was 13 years old, my mother found out my father was having an affair and he got the other woman pregnant.

After this came out, my father confessed he was in love with the other woman and wanted to leave my mother. She obviously heartbroken and didn’t know what to do. We had moved to and since my father was the breadwinner of the family I had to move with him.

But it was like his never there, He attempted to keep a relationship with me, but ultimately his new family was “his priority” as he said. Tough to understand for a 13 year old, but whatever. If he didn’t want me, I wasn’t going to need him so my mother and I moved on.

But the only way we were able to move on was with the help of my grandmother. My father’s mothers. She always loved us and was appalled with what her son had done to us. He stopped seeing her as well for the most part. We became very close over the years. Seeing each other for special occasions and holidays while her son was nowhere to be found. She even helped my mom out monetarily when we needed it too.

Unfortunately, the years caught up with her and she developed colon cancer. Advanced late stage. Her decline was rapid. Within a few months, she was in hospice. Days before she passed, she asked me to call her son to come to see her as she knew her time was coming. He’d only been to see her a couple of times since she had gotten sick. When he came by, I was visiting as we did every few days and he acted like I was some random person.

Grandma asked him to come back tomorrow, but he said he’d be back in a few days. She passed 4 days later without him coming back despite my calls and texts to come.

She went peacefully with me and my mom by her side. That was hard. I miss her every day. She was my guardian angel most of my life and I know she continues to watch over me.

After the services, (where my father did show up and made a big scene and made it about himself) we were contacted by her lawyer. Unbeknownst to everybody, she left me her house and a good amount of money. $200,000. No idea she did that, but in the will, there was a note to me from her that said: “You are worth it. Love Grandma”

She’s amazing.

Also in her will, she left my father exactly $1 as his inheritance.

When he found out, he went ballistic. Blowing up my phone all the time. Demanding I give him “his house and his money.”

His new wife and his son were messaging me a lot and his son was writing on social media that I manipulated my grandmother.

My father apologized and said he was under a lot of stress because he’s in debt. That made me feel bad. Like maybe I should give him something.

I’ve thought about it a lot and I don’t think I’m going to share anything with him and I kind of think that makes me a jerk because it seems like they really do need it. But on the other hand… he reap what he sow.

I don’t know…. What should I do