A netizen shared a story of his encounters with a butch and said that the butch was unhappy as he was close with her girlfriend and tried to make him drunk.
Here is the story:
I was drinking with my female friend recently and I met up with a female friend who is not exactly straight. I’m a good friend of hers but we are just friends and nothing more. Let’s just call her ‘Janice’ to avoid confusion
We are the kind of friends that share whatever we want and have a lot to talk about. When I went to meet Janice, she was with her butch girlfriend which was the first and last time meeting her.
I have not met Janice for so long we ended up chatting none stop for around 30mins, Janice’s girlfriend felt that she was left out and keep asking me to drink.
She continuously asks me to finish my glass and ask me to “tah” together with her and it took less than 30 mins to finish the bucket. We ordered the 2nd bucket of beer and she continued in her futile attempt to make me drunk. (not bragging here, I used to work as a bartender)
Janice tried to stop her but failed to do so, the girlfriend started to get drunk and kept touching Janice, She even tried to behave “inappropriately” with her in public(if you know what I mean). Well, that’s not my business I’m just here to drink. But she made it my business.
Shortly after, she started to get violent and started shouting at Janice and asked what is my relationship with her. After we calmed her down she started to vomit uncontrollably over the table and started crying.
Janice was so pissed off with her she pulled me and exit the pub and left her alone there. I told Janice it was not right to leave her girlfriend alone, she said that it is not the first time her girlfriend had problems after meeting her guy friends.
A 34-year-old man was arrested following a harrowing incident at his 9th floor residence at Block 218A Boon Lay Avenue.
He had reportedly locked himself in a room and threatened to hurt his 2 children, a 6-year-old and a 8-year-old, following a suspected argument with his wife.
According to Mothership, the police received a call for assistance at around 6.45pm on 20 August.
The SCDF, SOC and officers from the Crisis Negotiation Unit were deployed.
2 safety life air packs and rescue nets were also deployed by the SCDF and rappellers from the DART team were also on standy.
The man was finally arrested at 121.40pm for criminal intimidation after the police successfully entered the home at 11.40pm.
Having met more than 10 different guys within the span of half a year, I just wanted to share some observations that hopefully may be helpful for you if you’re using apps!
#1 – never trust a guy blindly until he proves it with his actions over time. If a guy tells you that he is looking for something serious, give him the benefit of doubt but don’t fully trust him until he proves it.
I’ve mistrusted the wrong guy who told me that he wanted to settle down but turned out he was just looking for FWBs. And his game was damn solid, the way he talked to me, treated me and planned our dates was NOT the typical trajectory of how a FWB relationship would usually look like. He would even spend hours talking to me on the phone everyday. In the end, he put out after I revealed that i was not that keen to proceed too fast physically.
#2 – Don’t ever dupe yourself into thinking a guy is interested in you if he texts you every day BUT doesn’t proactively initiate to meet you. Most likely, this guy is just looking for a text buddy ???? Sometimes, us girls will try to cling on to the hope that if he carries on the convo, or even double/triple texts us when we didn’t reply instantly, he is interested. sure… but I think most importantly if he doesn’t actively tries to meet you, most likely he isn’t THAT interested.
From my experience, I have been texting this guy almost everyday for about 6+ months. During this 6+ months, I’ve dated others, some consisting of only 1-2 dates and two of them I’ve dated 1-3 months. Funny thing is, this 6months + guy was so-called the longest standing “date” but we have only met once ???? Ever since that one time we met up, he did drop hints on meeting again but never proactively plan a date. And a few times when I did not reply him, he will double text me again.
In the end, I decided to ghost for good cos’ I was too lazy to reply and I wasn’t interested enough either. But yes based on my experience, it’s quite absurd to me that someone can bother to keep tabs and text another person consistently for 6 entire months without even wanting to meet the person!!! But I guess the world is full of strange people with strange motivations.
#3 When they say that dating apps allow you to expand your social network and meet people you don’t usually encounter in your daily life, it’s true.. in a good or bad way depending on your luck.
I know I’ll get roasted (especially by guys) on the point below but i am sure most girls will agree with me
What I meant in my previous post about lowering my standards was because
1) honestly speaking, the amount of good looking girls on the apps way surpassed the amount of good looking Sporean guys who dress well on the app. I honestly don’t think I’m very picky already in terms of choosing someone based on his looks but the ”quality” of Sporean guys on the apps is really quite appalling. To the extent that out of 10 profiles, only 1 is average looking with a 5/10 rating looks wise. Sometimes it’s 0 out of 10 profiles who are average looking lol.
2) I think I’ve a bad habit of always trying to convince myself that maybe the person will look better in real life as compared to photo only to feel disappointed most of the time. I think part of me is just tired of restarting the whole process so I would rather meet this person I’ve been talking to for x number of weeks first and reevaluate from there.
so my naïveté & the fact that there’re so few decent looking guys on the apps prompted me to give guys I won’t even give a second glance, a chance. And I think most girls might be able to relate to this.
Just want to bring awareness to those who are using or are planning to sign a plan with TPGTPG Singapore. Please stay away from this company, go for other telcos but not this. I have used several telco services before, this is the worst I have encountered so far. It’s just ridiculous.
Initially, they marketed themselves to be a telco with affordable plans and had some early bird promo for senior citizens in 2020. Hence, my parents were keen and I helped them to sign up for it.
The first SIM card I collected was in July 2020. Was a faulty SIM card, no mobile connection at all from the first time we used on a phone. So, a few days later, I went down to the station to check with the staff.
The staff told me that the SIM card’s chip was defective. So I asked if I could get a new one. He told me he will help to cancel our current line with them first and asked me to re-register for a new line to get a new SIM card. And told me they will refund me back the first SIM’s card registration fee in 14 business days.
So I did what he shared with me. But the first line’s refund didn’t come in even after one month. I emailed in for help, no one responded. So I went down to the booth again to try to check on the status of the cancellation of the line (besides the refund of the registration fee, I wanted to make sure if they really cancelled that line and will not charge further monthly fees from my card).
At this point, it’s August 2020. The lady at the booth helped me check and told me the refund was not put through yet. Maybe the guy who attended to me forgot about it. And that she will put through the request again and asked me to wait further.
I waited further till September 2020 and I gave up on using their service. I emailed in to cancel both of the lines. But, still no refund or responses. The emails I’ve been sending in got no replies other than their auto-response saying that they are overwhelmed with customers at the moment and will get back to me soonest possible.
And by October 2020, I gave up about the refund and everything. Cancelled my card to make sure they don’t make further charges to me.
Then… Surprise surprise~ 19 August 2021. ALMOST 1 YEAR LATER. They replied to my email asking me for details for the refund I requested. And also stated in their email “Should we not receive a response within 7 working days, we will close the matter on our end.”
WHAT. A. JOKE.
I waited months for their assistance and replies. None. And I really gave up and literally forgot about the whole case coz I felt it’s just $10 only, I don’t wish to waste anymore of my time.
But they emailed me ONE YEAR LATER, and ask me to respond back to them within 7 working days, if not they will close my case.
HUHHHH??? I thought the case closed long time ago since they practically ignored me for about a year. Now, they want me to respond back to them ASAP if not they will close my case?
Please TPG, get a grip. You can keep my $10 and used it to pay your customer service team to respond back faster. Or have some common sense that if it’s been a year of no response, then don’t go and email the customer and cause the customer to remember what had happened.
Seriously, ZERO customer service efficiency & ZERO common sense.
A woman started to film a monkey instead of closing the window.
She thought that it would be a smarter idea to start filming the monkey instead of running to safety. She could have lured the monkey out with a piece of bread.
A video emerged online showing an uncle giving an impassioned speech on board an MRT about politics.
He mentioned something about corrupted governments, the Singapore police, the president of China, something about Putin and how the people in Singapore will suffer.
Commuters could be seen moving away from him as he walked about giving his speech.