My girlfriend is cheating on me ! I found her texts with another guy because I had been seeing they were talking for a few weeks. This is the first time I’ve checked her phone since we started dating over 2 years ago.
Yea she’s been seeing this man and talking to him about how much she regrets sharing a place to stay with me. I confront her the first she didn’t say anything, I go the second time she gets mad at me then apologizes shortly after. Couple days go by and she acts like nothing happened, then at the park while we’re with her mother I see his notification pop up. I act like I don’t see it, I check it again and she gives the man our new address. I confront her and she just gives me a million reasons why she can’t talk. There’s so much more I wish I can add for you guys to better understand my situation. Either way I’m not sure what to do now!
She soon got pregnant and I had this gut feeling that it was not mine, I went to the doctor and found out that if I were to do a maternal test before the baby is born there will be some risk involved.
So I waited till she give birth and I refused to marry her even then. So finally after giving birth I decided to do the test and found out that kid is not mine. I was kind of bluffing myself hoping that its not true and I have since gone MIA on her.
She belongs to the streets. I have a Career, school to finish and life to live. She made her own decision it’s time for her to go.
Talked to her this morning again she doesn’t know what she wants apparently and doesn’t seem willing to co-parent and wants to dump the child for me to take care as the guy she slept with has a family.
She won’t really acknowledge or respond with anything so it’s basically talking to a brick wall. I’m just trying to figure out what we do with our during this situation she put us in.