So I was getting nasty with my girlfriend in bed and the condom slipped off while we were doing it, and it got stuck inside her.
She’s so mad about it I don’t know what to do. We were switching up positions and when I pulled out there was no condom on me anymore.
I didn’t really notice it was gone but thinking back it did feel a bit different. So I tell her it’s gone and she freaks out at me where is it. I looked around in case it was in the bed but it wasn’t.
I had to dig around inside and it took some time but I pulled it out. It was like jammed up there. So now she’s mad and we didn’t finish.
This is like literally the first time this has happened and wondering what I can do to make sure it doesn’t again?
Like do I really need to keep an eye out for it to make sure it’s always on? Am I 100% at fault here? I never came in her so we should be good right?
Netizens’ comments
- You’re not at fault but find a better fitting condom 🙂 Try one until it works well
- Use cling wrap next time.
- But seriously, I think they should be glad not mad at each other. Imagine how he would have framed the question if they didn’t change positions and he came as though the condom was still in place.
- This happened to me with my boyfriend. I didn’t get mad, I did freak out temporarily because I couldn’t reach it myself and he had to fish around to find it but it happens!
When you’re in the moment, sometimes you’re not paying attention to things like that. We’ve also had the condom break but my boyfriend will immediately stop because it “feels too good to be true” when that happens. No reason to be angry though! - Wait. Is she mad at you because of this accident? I’d understand being upset at the incident, but it sounds like she’s upset with you, and that… doesn’t really make any sense.