An old flame returns…
We were in a long term relationship that ended in early 20s. 20yrs later we reconnected out of the blue. Both happily married with kids but agree that we still think and thought about each other and why we failed previously due to being young and rash and it led to a decisive breakup then.
We were first loves
It was really a true 1st love… However, it was unfair to our partners that picked us up at our low point. We knew meeting would be risky as the messages brought back the fire in us. A couple of meetings and a kiss….
Its not right and not fair to go further. I cant see a future without my kids. Deeply love the other but should we be harbouring past failed love that never died?
Cant forget and cant stop communicating now that we connected. We wish the best to each other but deep down its a regret we didnt stay together. We try to stay light but always gets emotionally loving…
A dilemma that we know shouldn’t hurt the others and also don’t want any scandalous affair. … haiz…
Here are what netizens think
- Commitment between 2 person (father of your kids) is choosing each other everyday. No matter what challenges life throws at you. No 2 ways about this.
- yea im married and i still regularly meet up with my ex gf and we travel to batam and stay in hotel and errr do couple stuff la. like shopping and massage and ahem… my wife doesnt know all these.
- You say you don’t want a scandalous affair, but you have already started it. You say you are both happily married yet you both started this scandalous affair. You have the right to follow your heart but don’t disrespect your wife by cheating on her and don’t be a disgusting role model for your kids. There is no two ways about it. Choose one path (yourself or your family) and accept the consequences.