My dad accidently found out Im the bottom of my relationship and is now distant a weird
I (19m) came out to my parents when I was 16. My parents were very supportive and made sure I knew that they still loved me and that I have their support.
I recently decided to introduce my boyfriend (22m) of a year to them, so we organised a dinner.
Once they met him they seemed a bit surprised. I pass as straight and I think they thought that I would be the more masculine one in a relationship and would date someone more fem, they probably also have the notion in their head that straight passing people couldn’t possibly be a bottom .
So I think they were quite surprised I brought home the masculine behemoth that is my boyfriend lol.
The visit was awkward and uncomfortable so understandably my boyfriend was nervous and in that nervousness, when my dad asked “how do you take your steak” my bf made a nervous joke and said “I dont take it, he does” while pointing to me and laughing nervously.
After that they definitely figured it out if they hadn’t already.
Ever since then my dad has been kind of distant and a bit weird. All i get are a few words out of him if i try and talk to him. Maybe im just imagining that this is the reason but i cant help but think it is since it all started after that. Idk what to do or how to feel. I thought i had my dads support but im second guessing that now.