GF HAS BEEN PRETENDING TO “FINISH” IN BED WITH BF FOR THE LAST 7 YEARS.

My GF (29F) said she’s faked her Os with me (25M) for the last 7 years.

Don’t really know how to handle to situation. It’s not the fact that she hasn’t that’s the issue, it’s the lying about it for so long. Just looking for some insight from people who’ve had similar issues.

She mentioned this about a month ago, mid argument, and we haven’t slept together since. I didn’t think it had that much of an effect on me until now, but it’s completely squashed my desire to be intimate.

Have started to feel like what’s the point in trying knowing that she doesn’t enjoy it? Knowing that I can’t satisfy her?

Edit: I know some woman don’t come from piv. This is about her lying about it

Netizens’ comments

1. I think everyone is missing the point. Having a conversation with her about what she likes in bed is logical ONLY AFTER the fact that she lied for 7 years and then tactically nuked his confidence and trust has been dealt with. Why in the ever-living hell would he want to sleep with someone he cant trust and thats willing to say stuff like that just to get a cheap shot in an argument? The problem is not his bedroom performance, the problem is the destroyed trust.
2. Yikes. This feels less like an honest reveal and more like a dig to make you feel inadequate. Remember that if she isn’t communicating her needs, the inadequacies fall on her, not you.
3. Time to sign her up for acting classes 7 years is a dedication to the craft of acting
4. That’s some dedication, I hope she’s nominated for an Oscar.
5. All these comments saying “at least she told you!” and “that doesn’t mean she wasn’t enjoying it” have my eyes rolling seeing as she said this mid argument, deliberately to hurt you. It’s hard to get over something like that when she said it maliciously.