I think I need to break up with my gf
That’s it, I’m exhausted, I’m done.
Yesterday we fought again, twice. We were texting and I was trying to convince her to meet up with our mutual friend’s new gf, but she didn’t want to, as our friend is known to always date low-quality girls, and thus always change gf, so she didn’t want to get acquainted with her as she felt like its wasting time, so I was trying to tell her that if never meet she will never know if she’s better than the last.
Things get a bit heated when she started saying that I’m affecting her and I should not disturb her as she is ‘resting’ at home. Then she started words like “we should live our own lives then” and “fine, no contact”. (her exact words)
Of course, I’m upset by this so we stopped talking for about 4hrs when I asked her if she had calmed down, she said yes, but I told her I haven’t and I’m very deeply affected when she threatened our relationship, and I asked her to not do it again, but she said she did it for a good reason, and she felt that she didn’t threaten me, and told me to stop “projecting on her”. At this point, I am really exhausted, and I cried. I tried to tell her that under any circumstances, she should not use these words if she want a relationship to be healthy, and I am really very negatively affected, then she said I need to deal with issues better, that I need a woman to live, and that I am acting like a “below average man”. Needless to say, the argument felt like it was not going to conclude and the words she was using is getting worse.
Things got repetitive for a while, where she kept saying there was no problem so I shouldn’t create more for her, insisting that she didn’t threaten the relationship. Throughout the entire time, I’ve been trying to tell her how her words had been affecting me, she began bringing up our past fights, and that’s when I realise, that the fight was not going to end, she was never going to care about how I felt, and I stopped replying
Thanks for reading about my pathetic relationship life