My friend and I went overseas for a short holiday and I told my gf this and she was ok.
We went for a couple of days. The phone service was non-existent as we practically drove all the way to Thailand and I let my GF know beforehand.
I don’t want to buy multiple sim cards going Malaysia and Thai etc as I think it’s a waste of money and only my friend had the data sim, we kind of shared
I always leave a credit card at home just in case. This is for me if I ever lose my wallet I have a card. She knows this but I have the trust she does not use it (I told her to never uses it).
We do not share finances. Apparently, over the weekend her brother had a serious asthma attack and had to be hospitalised. Her family did not have the money to pay for the hospital so they rang up my GF who used my credit card.
When I was driving back I saw that I had a bill for 2k. I was damn exhausted on the way back so let it slide. When I reached home my GF explained the situation. I understood and was totally alright she did it.
My issue was why did she not use her money. It’s not my brother. My GF works as a waitress and has massive student loans but I know she has some savings. She told me she thought it was ok because I was not in debt. She did not want to pay me back. I told her that was not okay.
She has been pissed since then. I told her I was changing all my personal information and that she will no longer have access to any of my money. She has been pissed since it was an emergency situation. I also told her I expect to be paid back or I would file a police complaint (empty threat).
She and I have both been at odd with each other since. Should I mend the fences or let her do it?
Here are what netizens think:
- I can understand the emergency. She had no options and had to act fast but someone still needs to pay off the debt. It’s not ops responsibility. It’s her and her family. I would be mad too if she told me she had no intention of paying it off.
- Sounds like your girlfriend is a spoiled brat, get rid of her.
- Run away asap, sounds like her family did not teach her logic. Run now.