A netizen shared how her boyfriend has been leeching off her and making her buy him things, using her debit card, and still demanding more.
Here is the story:
My boyfriend asks me pretty much daily to buy him things. Normally smaller things like cigarettes and etc but it REALLY adds up.
I know you may be wondering why am I just giving him this money, I swear I’m not.
I have tried to say no. But I literally feel like I can’t say no to him successfully — and what I mean by this is he’ll say things like “my day is ruined” or “can’t you just be nice this one time?” and it makes me feel really awful about myself if I try to say no.
One time when I didn’t wanna buy him something, he told me I didn’t care about him and kept spamming me at work until I started crying.
And I’m not kidding when I say its a DAILY thing. He’ll sometimes wake me up SUPER early in the morning wanting my debit card to buy what he wants and if I say no he’ll get really upset and say what I mentioned before and keep asking and I won’t get to sleep again until I say yes and it’s caused me to go into work incredibly sleep-deprived before.
He doesn’t have a job, I work full time, and I honestly think he doesn’t have a concept of money spending or making.
There have been times where I’ll save small amounts of money for emergencies, and then once he finds out it’s gone in a few days. I was so proud of myself for saving 100 dollars and literally, in 3 days it was gone because of him and I ended up crying in frustration.
Keep in mind, I don’t earn much. What really irked me though, is just recently he told me that I’m irresponsible with my money to be broke all the time, and that I have “no reason to be struggling with money.”
What bothered me, even more, is he brought up how I spent money on my exes and he said “You don’t owe me, I just feel like it’s unfair that the guys you dated got nice things but I don’t.”
I had felt like I’ve actually spent MORE on him than the two past relationships I’ve been in. So, I went through my credit card statements and my bank statements and I found that since August alone I’ve spent almost 5k on him and put all the transactions into an excel doc.
I want to show him it to prove that I’ve spent a LOT more than he thought (he said that I’ve “maybe spent $450”).
So I kinda want to keep quiet, but he won’t stop and I can’t handle the stress anymore.
Editor’s note: Please leave him as soon as possible, for your own sake.