A girl shared how she wasn’t feeling well and wanted to miss out on a gathering with her boyfriend’s friends, however, he lashed out at her.
Here is the story:
“Is it reasonable for a guy to prioritize his good guy friend over his long-term gf?
My bf, myself, and some other friends were invited to a gathering at his good guy friend’s house tonight.
However, this morning I woke up with a scratchy throat and chesty cough and felt slightly feverish, and the symptoms didn’t get better with time.
I did test negative for ART, but I told him I won’t be going to the gathering for prudence, thinking that his friend has a baby and also living with elderly parents.
To my shock, he actually lashed out at me, saying what’s my problem since the ART result is already negative.
Then he went on to nag at me about how he and his friends had already planned for this gathering since long time ago and we better go for it.
In the end, he insisted on going by himself while leaving me at home alone (I’m a foreigner so my parents are overseas and I don’t live with any relatives / other friends).
Is it reasonable that I feel very upset about this? Well, if I were him, in such a situation I would gladly choose to stay with my partner who is unwell.
Additionally, it’s not like he hasn’t seen his friend for a long time, in fact, he meets up with this friend once every weekend and I have no problem with that so far.
Am I just being over-sensitive or should I reconsider this relationship?”
Editor’s note: I think you need a new boyfriend.