No troll answers please, I’m seriously lost.
My bf and I have been together for a year. His libido is extremely high, but he is a really decent gentleman who knows his boundaries like stays away from other hot girls, responds to girl’s text messages in a rather formal manner without sounding flirty, doesn’t respond to his junior’s initiative when they didn’t know he’s attached.
However recently he asked me for a favor that made me doubt if he loves me or just my body. I’m 1.55m, 32E and has always been suggested by friends to join the influencer career route, but I’m just not that type of girl who dresses in skimpy outfit. I mean yea I do find it hard to hide my cleavage in most of my clothes, but I still try my best to avoid exposing too much. So what he did was asking me to wear tight or more revealing clothes as well as bra that have better pushup effect whenever we hangout together, something like those local influencers, cos he likes seeing girls in such outfit but he wants to focus just on me. He also emphasized the fact that we only meet once every 1-2 weeks due to his busy schedule, so he would like to see me in a more s**ually pleasing outfit.
I know he loves me, and so far I don’t see any red flags in him, and I also thought it’s quite normal for girls to do anything that makes their man happy. Shall I go ahead with his request?
Here are what netizens think:
- So many red flags and you still don’t see it ah… please love yourself!If you’re uncomfortable in revealing clothes just say NO! Men who love you will want to protect you like a precious jewel not put you on display like Crown Jewels at the museum.Please open your eyes big big k!
- Having you wear as such, means exposing you to many other guys as well. If he really loves you, he wouldn’t have such ridiculous request. Esp when you’re not someone to dress that way. Be how you like yourself to be. Be comfortable. No need to entertain such dumb request.And that meeting frequency? Nah. End this.
- For all the guys who told me they loved me, none of them ever asked me to reveal so much of my body. And none of them, no matter how busy they were, tried harder to see me once every 2-3 days, not every 2 weeks. And under the proper or more conservative outfits, they could still find me sexy. So…you have to consider his request carefully. Take care sis.
- Meeting once every 1-2weeks as a couple of 1year is a red flag.He can have the request and you can wear those occasionally. But well he probably meet his colleagues more than you and how would you know he is who he is when you guys only meet maximum 52 days out of 365 days?To me this is a big red flag.