A anonymous female took to social media to complain that she is sick of the reality of online dating and the hook up culture that follows after online dating.
Here is what she said
“So many people these days are just looking for casual hook ups and want ‘no strings attached’… Like what does that even mean? It sounds so corny. I think people that are only looking for hookups are shallow who have a hard time being open with themselves and others, I say this because I have seen and heard this for myself from guys that they have trust issues.
It’s hard to find someone on dating apps, even in real life who actually has a personality to them outside of having relations with anyone they just can. I am not satisfied nor okay with being perceived as somebody who will give just give up their body and them self in exchange for nothing.
The amount of guys that ask me if I want to have a ‘smoke and f-’ in their car or even in public is crazy, so out of this I increase my likelihood of getting addicted to nicotine and having relations in public like a wild animal, yeah no I’m good thanks.
I also do not see myself worth a few sticks of cigarettes.
I am not saying you cannot have relations with someone you’re not in a relationship with but I do not like the idea of having relations with someone if there is no romantic or emotional connection, it would feel extremely superficial and as if I am giving up everything on the spot.
I know that I am a human who is unique and has beauty not only on the outside but within for someone to discover and bond with.
I honestly wish more people thought like this about them self, I feel as if so many people these days let their self-esteem and worth get approved by broken guys who see them as nothing more but a fling.”
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