How do I bring up the breakup topic tactfully with my bf to have a chance with another guy?
My coursemate has shown strong interest in me. He is extremely smart and comes from a rich background. He has confessed once in Y1 but I rejected him due to my relationship but still he continues to be close to me. He is there whenever I need help with homework and when I’m down. He buys me whatever I want. I think I want to give him a chance but don’t want to be labelled a cheater or slut.
I’m with my bf since JC and now just entered Y2. I initially liked him because of his drive. Being in NS, he hardly has time for me. He keeps complaining about how hard army life is and on weekends wants to spend more time sleeping at home instead of meeting me. He does not have any drive anymore.
What should I do…
Here are what netizens think:
- When you don’t want to be with a person, you’ll find all the flaws in that person. This is not love. Just to tell your bf the truth that you’re no longer interested in him so he can move on.
- If your new guy knows you are attached and still goes for you, what are the odds of him doing it again with another girl
- I stopped reading after.. “He is extremely smart and comes from a rich background”, “He buys me whatever I want”
- Aiyoh. No need to be in a dilemma. Just open your heart (and legs) to the new guy. Everything else will fall into place for you honey. You’ll get the life you deserve.
- “You know that apocryphal story about how an NSF boy will usually lose his girlfriend to a richer, older guy in university, but who will then survive the PTSD, harden up, and become the ruthless player that then swipes the next generation of NSF boy’s girlfriend? Turns out the story is true because you are going to experience it first-hand”.