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I’m a female, 23 and just started working full time. Recently, I got curious about Sugarbaby/Sugardaddy stuffs. I contemplated to download the Sugarbook app which I did eventually. A sd then matched and eventually, we called and talked.
He guided me as to what I should look out for in the app, what to be careful of. We then exchange pictures etc. He’s not exactly handsome but I feel he can take care of my needs and guide me since I didn’t have much experience. Im not sure whether I should be looking for a sd but it seems so tempting to get my needs satisfied and even getting paid for it.
Should I proceed to do an arrangement with him?
Here are what netizens think:
- Throw a coin? Heads is yes and tails is no. Works everytime for life’s difficult decisions. Ultimately many would suggest you don’t as they think they living on some moral high horse.. but many ladies date men for money, or cheat around with men who have more money, or marry to have a comfortable and stable life, or date for benefits or to advance in a company, etc.. I somehow don’t see the difference la.. just that yours is an upfront transaction about it and theirs is more like trickery for the men to belive they are sincerely in love haha. I actually know a woman who dated for rental payment and allowance but did not term the arrangement as sd la.. they state they are in a relationship.. hahaha.. its a joke. Take away the rental payment and allowance, see whether she still want to be with him sia. Its all about positioning isn’t it.
- honestly, unless you have a plan you must not be suck into it , cos once we are into something and suck in too deep there is no turning back because that’s where your comfort zone is, the thing is as you grew older and if you next have someone that you really want to spend your life with in the future all your past will come haunting you. If you’re ok then ok.
- Well , even if you have needs it doesn’t always justify it being met in this way. For example ..if you need to eat and want to eat but someone offer you a roast dog (yeap a roast terrier not hotdog) will you eat it ? Why yes and why not ? That isn’t a clever 一举两得 nor 何乐不为 plan , it’s actually lowering your inherent value to what others are willing to pay . If you feel you are only worth that price , I guess no one else besides your parents will really mind or care but… As a random stranger online giving out free advice , I hope you can have more self care自爱. All the best