Should I continue the chat?
Met a few guys at a bar through some friends. We drank quite a bit that night. There was this particular guy who started touching me and eventually we kissed.
It was great. All of us were very high. Can feel that he wanted more but I was still conscious enough to push him away. Things just stop there, nothing much happened.
All of us went back on our own.
Woke up next morning and received a text from an unknown number. It was from the guy whom kissed me. So we started texting. The conversation was kinda boring and I ghosted him. However, he followed up with a few more texts, and I replied. He has been updating me about his daily life, sending me pics of what he is doing. And we are still texting till today. He asked me out but I’m not very certain if I want to meet him again. We don’t know each other yet. It seems like he is not interested to find out more about me as a person. I had abousltely no idea about his current rs status, though my friends told me that he’s still single.
I sort of hinted but he avoided that question or he is just simply dumb.
I feel like ghosting him again and delete his numbers but a part of me is drawn to him. I don’t know what, and I don’t know why. Perhaps it was that kiss. I felt the spark. I really don’t know what he wants but he seems like a player. So yup, should I stop wasting time and just cut off everything from him?
Or any pros out there who can teach me how to continue this conversation?
Here are what netizens think:
- Just because you met him through friends doesn’t mean your friends will help you gatekeep. Probe a bit more and you’ll realise that your friends may not have known him well enough to vouch for him.
- He just wants to bed you. So if that’s what you want then play the game else move on.
- Have a few more kisses with other guys. Then you decide