I want to break up but my girlfriend refuses to leave
She works but never has money. She doesn’t have a car or any prospects. She sneaks money from me, writes herself checks out of my account and cashes them and hides things from me.
We live together with her 2 kids for almost 3 years now. I tried breaking up with her several times and she always talks me into staying with her.
She lost her job a year ago and before that things were ok. But for about 9 months she didn’t work and that’s when my feelings changed.
We have been together for almost 3 years now and I want to end it but she has nowhere to go, no car, and no money.
I don’t love her anymore but she keeps guilting me into letting her stay here because I’d be making her and her kids homeless and I’m at my wits end.
I’ve been paying all her bills and I just can’t anymore. I don’t know how to handle this. Please help!