AITA?
All my friends know this girl has a huge crush on me.and she has been trying to get my attention for ages. Actually I have no interest in her so I just tried to be polite whenever she talk to me. No flirting whatsoever. Just that the longer I see her, the more I thought why not just talk to her because we are in the same course and I find it hard to avoid her. She has never confessed so I just acted like I didn’t know. But it was very obvious and our friends often teased her about it.
I never thought much about it as I wasn’t seeing anyone at that time. Once a few of us organized a gathering and I had a few drinks. She came right up to me and tried to talk to me alone. Eventually she confessed that she liked me, I didn’t know what reaction she wanted from me so I told her I only saw her as a friend. I was very sure of what I said but she just threw herself at me all of a sudden. I think the drinks took over and we kissed for a while.
Over the next few days she kept texting me, trying to make me officiate our relationship. I thought over it and apolgized to her. I really don’t have those kind of feelings for her.
Actually I like someone else but that person has a bf but I don’t think its anyone’s business so I never told anyone.
Anyway back to this girl. Now she is accusing me of leading her on and taking advantage of her. I don’t know what she told her friends but they all kept glaring at me like I’m some big sinner. My friends tell me to just ignore her. They all said I should have pushed her away but guys tend to lose out in these kind of situations so no point arguing with her. They joked that she took advantage of me instead.
Am I in the wrong?