A girl shared a story of how she dated a guy once and he eventually broke up with her via email as he was too scared to do it the proper way.
She shares that the guy never liked to speak his mind with her face to face throughout their time together and will only resort to speaking about important stuff over Whatsapp or Telegram.
Here is the story
“So I have dated this guy, we shall call him M for stories sake.
We got to know each other from a function which we attended back when we were working together in our first job.
Things hit off pretty well and we decided to date one another and eventually got into a relationship.
He had actually ask me to be his girlfriend via Whatsapp and even though most people would not have accepted that as it lacked sincerity, I accepted him as I thought he was only shy and he was still a really nice guy.
Our relationship went on for close to 2 years and throughout this two years, he never liked to talk about serious things face to face and would rather do it over Whatsapp or Telegram.
He says that this is because he does not know how to express himself face to face and was afraid that the end reaction would be bad and he would not know what to do if things were said face to face.
I thought I could live with this quirk of his but one day he suddenly ghosted on me without any sound or picture.
There was totally no communication from him and he had even blocked me on all the social media and messaging platforms but my friends told me that he was still active on his Facebook.
Eventually I thought to myself so be it.
One day I opened up my second email account as I have not used it for a long time and it was full of random emails from my social media platforms and that was where I found out that he had sent me an email telling me that he wanted to end our relationship and said that he did not know how to tell me face to face or even whatsapp/telegram me about it as he was afraid of my immediate reaction.
Thus, he decided to email me about it as he figured that I will not check this email and by the time I see it, I should already not be so angry.
What on earth….”
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