Friend came up to our front door to deliver something and husband thinks I’m cheating
Can i have your honest opinion?
So recently a male friend ordered something from me.
He was supposed to collect it under my block but because he was late and i was busy with kid stuff, I told him to come up to my unit instead and I passed him the items outside my front door.
Fyi, my house has CCTV and my helper and kid were both home with me.
When my husband found out that I passed the item at our front door, he was fuming mad and kept saying I brought a guy to the house and is cheating on him. To the point that he said he doesn’t trust me and our marriage anymore. Even though he clearly knows that my friend did not enter the house, but he insists that this is the start of something that is cheating.
It’s partially my fault for not informing my husband beforehand as I didn’t think it was that big a deal and felt it could wait till the next morning when he sends me to work to tell him.
From a men’s point of view, is this really a huge mistake that I made worthy of this kind of suspicion?
Here are what netizens think:
- Your husband’s actions and accusations made me feel that he is the one cheating outside and making use of this chance to point the finger at you instead…
- “Psychological projection is a really strange human behavior in which a person ascribes flaws to others that they deny possessing. As a result of this twisted reverse psychology, projection also happens to be a great indicator of cheating in a relationship.The most common and clear example of projection is with infidelity. The cheating partner may become suspicious of the non-cheating partner.”Plot twistYour husband may be guilty of cheating.
- No, it’s not…..It seems that your hubby simply took this opportunity to discredit you and the marriage.There is no reason for such drama if the guy didn’t enter your flat and the whole interaction lasted no more than 3 mins.The only reason I can think of isA: Your hubby have something to hideB: You have cheated before
- “Partially your fault”? Any person, male or female or otherwise as a friend of yours should be able to visit you at YOUR home at anytime without you having to inform anyone before hand or ask for permission or any such nonsense. Are you the live-in helper or are you the lady of the house? Please stand up to your husband’s unreasonable behavior and do not allow him to bully you.